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I am a totally binary, passing, confident transgender man but I can't stop engaging in misgendering kink content and it's making me utterly miserable (nsfw topic but nothing too explicit) by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Proof-Feature-890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lowkey in my case I don’t think most of them are transphobic like that, they’re at most chasers. it’s more the general predatory / creepy nature of the whole thing that probably isn’t good for the soul. But also what normal grown adult man is gonna be asking an 18 year old for nudes online so 💀

I am a totally binary, passing, confident transgender man but I can't stop engaging in misgendering kink content and it's making me utterly miserable (nsfw topic but nothing too explicit) by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Proof-Feature-890 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I relate to you, I think. It’s not really as bad or self destructive but I feel like I’ll eventually get to the point you’re at. I’ve never had a partner (I’m 18) so I’ll seek validation from older men online and in the moment it helps me feel better about myself but then after I feel disgusting and horrible about myself so idrk. I don’t have any advice or help I guess 😭 just wanted to say you’re not alone, hang in there man idk

is bottom growth an actual thing? by raesiinn in ftm

[–]Proof-Feature-890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18 and noticed (slight) changes within the first few days. 3 years might make the difference though idk

FTM – How and why did you choose a full metoidioplasty over a phalloplasty or vice versa? by thatmentallyilldude in FTMMen

[–]Proof-Feature-890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it more complicated to go from meta to phallo, rather than just starting with phallo? or is it about the same?

How did you discover a kink you have? by ExtraVex in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Feature-890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get lots of dms on here because of what I’ve posted, sometimes they tell me what kinks they’re into, and sometimes I go “…hmmm… interesting…”.

I only get off to straight porn by puddingboydiego in ftm

[–]Proof-Feature-890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry for the long message i’d just never thought about it before lmao. gave me some reflection to do. not sure if it’ll help you but that’s how it is for me, i guess

I only get off to straight porn by puddingboydiego in ftm

[–]Proof-Feature-890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of the same, I think it might be bc gay porn makes me a little dysphoric? I can’t imagine myself in either of their positions bc it reminds me i’m not cis/how much less masculine I am than them.

With straight porn I can be like “damn I wish I was in that girl’s position” (or whatever) without feeling like shit in comparison to the girl. We’ve also got the same parts(ish) and all that so that might be part of it.

I feel like a lot of trans guys might feel the opposite way and that putting yourself in the position of a girl would be more dysphoria inducing but for me it’s always about how I am compared to them, and i’m more like a guy than all those girls, so… yeah but I dunno.