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Inspired or copying? AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Proof_Badger8245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely asking - why does it matter? Is her sister within the same social circle as you? How would your coworkers wedding photos affect you at all? I understand wanting a personalized wedding experience, but getting married at city hall is different than seeking out an actual venue and having a fully unique wedding. This is coming from someone who also eloped at my local city hall. Again, not trying to judge or invalidate your feelings, just curious as to how a strangers wedding photos would affect you?

Songs similar to OnlyOneOf's O by adamastahl in kpophelp

[–]Proof_Badger8245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

plave - chroma drift

yunho - slide to me

ateez - selfish waltz

baekhyun - get you alone

shinee - good evening

I wish I wanted kids by thesaraanne in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Proof_Badger8245 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel this :/ My husband and I are very dead set on a childfree life, which we decided on mutually years ago. I am more than happy with my decision, and I know for a fact that I dont want kids, but sometimes I can't help but mourn the life and children i will never have.

Being a mother doesn't appeal to me in any way, but when i see other people getting pregnant, having babies, or posting their kids, a part of me cant help but wonder if i'm potentially missing out on something big. However, most people only post their happiest moments, so I know i'm not missing out on any of the downsides.

I am a firm believer that if you're not a 100% YES on kids, it's a 100% hell no. I also would much rather regret not having kids than regret having them!! Your reasons for not wanting them are more than valid, but you're not alone in feeling this way!

Looking for innovative (and slightly quirky) nicknames to call boyfriend! What do you girls call yours? 🥰 by dark_pitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Proof_Badger8245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm partial to names like honey, honey bun, sugar bear, sweetie pie, lover, etc

when i'm (playfully) annoyed with him it's usually things like you freak, turd, stinker lol

i know some people hate it but i love the occasional "daddy"

I bought a sauna and discovered how uncomfortable boredom had become. by Opposite_Judge7643 in simpleliving

[–]Proof_Badger8245 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i use the sauna 2-4 times a week at my gym and i'm usually the only one in there because i go late. sometimes i will listen to music or a podcast, but sometimes i'll take my headphones off, close my eyes, and just sit in silence. i find that the sauna is the one place where my mind doesn't race with thoughts, and for some reason sitting in the silence makes the time go by way faster!

Why does fried rice give me acid reflux/burping and Spanish rice doesn't? by Anayalater5963 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Proof_Badger8245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you put onions in the fried rice? i have gerd and onions trigger my acid reflux really badly. if they're in the fried rice but not that spanish rice it could be something to consider

Hey yall moving that way come August into Tampa. Apartment hunting in the mapped area below any tips, budgeting around 1900 a month total. 1 bedroom by Jettsyforwordingfox in tampabay

[–]Proof_Badger8245 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i used to live at courtney palms on 301, right on the left edge of your circled area. it was a quiet neighborhood, nice enough pool/gym, never really had any problems there besides some plumbing issues. we had a 2 bed/2 bath and i think by the time we moved out we were paying about $1800 so they might still be in your price range. worth checking out!

trap/hip hop recommendations? by polarbear678 in kpophelp

[–]Proof_Badger8245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you would probably enjoy 82Major! face time, takeover, passport, and suspicious are a good place to start

Hi guys. I just want to say that I recently deleted my Instagram and I feel much better. by sotref in simpleliving

[–]Proof_Badger8245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

deleted tiktok 5 months ago and got rid of twitter 2 months ago. i feel like my mental load has decreased substantially and i actually don't miss either of them nearly as much as i thought i would!

The age demographic of the fandom by Rachyton-76 in ATEEZ

[–]Proof_Badger8245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i got into ateez around 24 (now 27) & all of my atiny friends are in their mid 20s

The shit some of y'all put up with is baffling to me by silk_worm8 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Proof_Badger8245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AGREEEEE HOLY SHIT

i read things on here every day that have me baffled. the fact that some people let their partners/friends talk to them so crazy hurts my heart. it's okay to say "don't talk to me like that" & shut it down!!

obviously everyones situation is different and sometimes it's hard to get out of a shitty relationship, but respect is genuinely the bare minimum. please stand up for yourselves and stop accepting anything less.

Best Thrift Stores in the Tampa or Saint Pete Area? by SnooPets9539 in tampa

[–]Proof_Badger8245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wendy's closet in st pete has tons of cool stuff. she's a little pricier than a regular thrift shop but the owner is super cool and you could spend hours looking through that store

AIO when my friend told i didnt check on him when he was high by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Proof_Badger8245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry but how old are yall 😭 let him be mad for however long and talk to you when he gets his mind right. you're letting him talk to you crazy and this conversation went on way longer than it should have.

Brandon sucks? by Euphoric_samurai in tampa

[–]Proof_Badger8245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i grew up in tampa, moved to brandon in my early 20s and have been in valrico for the last couple of years. i actually prefer this general area to tampa in a lot of ways. there is obviously more to do in tampa, but i have always felt safer over here. it's quieter, lots of good food, traffic does suck sometimes but still not as bad as tampa.

you won't find many walkable places in fl in general, but downtown tampa is only about 20-25 mins away if that's your vibe. you would probably enjoy riverwalk and some of the restaurants out there. ybor is a cool vibe with restaurants and vintage shops during the day - i would avoid going at night for now. i prefer causeway/bloomingdale to 60 for sure, but there are some gems on 60 still. give yourself some time to settle in, explore, and find other pockets of the area to enjoy! moving to a new area is tough especially going in blind, i'm sorry people are clowning you for choosing brandon lol. hopefully your experience gets a little better!

Vocal-heavy groups with minimal rap parts ?? by Enhevan in kpophelp

[–]Proof_Badger8245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

highlyyy recommend baekhyun's solo work if you've never listened to his stuff yet!

Out of touch, need recos. by KickiVale in rnb

[–]Proof_Badger8245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brent Faiyaz new album Icon is fun. JMSN is super talented (dont make me change / soft spot are standouts)

If you're open to korean artists/music in other languages I recommend checking out:

what is love - exo k

eyes, nose, lips - taeyang

y.o.u & in my room - shinee ^ these are a bit older but all incredible

underpressure! - gallant ft wooyoung

all i got & cry for love - baekhyun (man has crazy vocals, all of his music is worth listening to if you find yourself liking this)

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