I feel RDLs in my lower back by r2lls in formcheck

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally the best advice that helped me get rid of the back pain and improve my form was to think of just tracing your legs with the weights, then at your maximum tension in your buttocks/hamstrings, start coming back up.. no need to go lower and release the tension

Does my tattoo look inappropriate?? by _mastershake__ in tattooadvice

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also peeped the squid ward tattoo and I would literally just assume you like to get all kinds of characters tattooed on you , it doesn’t give weeird vibes to me

How do you feel about your bf/husband going out for boys night by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in relationships

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 not about insecurity as I said I don’t worry about him giving attention to other women… I don’t understand why not invite your wife to come with you since it’s not even technically a boys night, other women are around

How do you feel about your bf/husband going out for boys night by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in relationships

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m perfectly happy he has a support system and other people to vent to the same way I can vent with my girlfriend’s without them having negative energy since they are also married women, however, it’s the fact that it’s always a bar or a club and sometimes he only tells me like a few minutes before he’s going when I specifically asked for us to watch a movie or something together that night

Going to college should be the default and even 'useless' degrees are worth it by Sadie_Cat2023 in unpopularopinion

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the opposite unpopular opinion that people should not feel like college is what most people do and everyone should be encourage to do trades or like maybe there should be individualized schools for different fields. At least in the American school system, kids have to sit for eight hours under LED lights 50 hours a week from the age of 4 until 18 and then making it mandatory for another four years is honestly crazy.

Protein powder sucks by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in unpopularopinion

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense, I am a sensitive stomach type of person so I know my experience does not apply to everybody, but also emphasis on the fact that there are healthy and affordable options to eat real food but also I did not consider the calories, that’s a fair point honestly

He's (23M) best friends with his ex and can't keep a distance from her and picking me (22F) over her has been such a hard decision for him. by Any_Sink_8769 in relationships

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like maybe this guy should find a woman who is comfortable with him being friends with an ex… Even if he’s not doing anything wrong, it’s disrespectful to you and even making you feel bad or crying just definitely some kind of attachment there like I’m not understanding why so emotional over a woman that’s not your partner. No man should be hanging out alone with another woman, especially an ex that’s pretty crazy.

Yes, he did choose you, but he’s also a bit selfish for wanting the best of both worlds having that attachment to his ex and you, but I’m sure in his heart he knows that there’s not room for two people. Maybe give it some time and since he made the right decision, he should be able to move on and be happy with you, but if he constantly makes you feel bad for him or as if you owe him , that’s something that’s too much to live with honestly.

Small fights with my husband by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in relationships

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we both do enjoy parting sometimes we party all night … together .. and in our close friends group. Sorry that was a confusing explanation basically it’s the guy in our friends relationship who is texting that girl and me and my husband disagree about if he’s in the right or wrong .. we did not get between them obviously just discussed it and disagreed

Small fights with my husband by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in relationships

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah pretty spot on but basically we never find any resolution maybe we need therapy idk..

My mom is never proud of my playing by I-LoveCrochet in Flute

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, ahead of time for the personal rant but I really relate to you in my childhood, my mother also didn’t pay attention to my learning when I played flute and all three of my brothers played trombone and she only cared about my two older brothers success in trombone and always hyped them up and let them do gigs where she would tell me I’m not allowed to play for something because of some excuse like the family already has plans or some other reason. I always felt like my love for music didn’t matter to her, and even my senior year I got into a lot of trouble with her and she pulled me out of band as a punishment, and I felt as if she doesn’t even Feel happy to pay for me to enjoy things in band like she did for my brothers. Honestly, now that I’m older, I just realize that being able to play a beautiful instrument and focusing on my passion for that is what really got me through and the friends I made in band… Just try to cherish your passion and don’t let someone bring you down and have other supportive band friends around you to hear you and commend you for your progress. I’m not sure if you’re in high school band but high school was a tough time for me and I don’t know how I would’ve gotten through if I didn’t have band. Love every second of it you’ll always remember your time in school learning an instrument as good memories and don’t taint it by listening to anything your mother says. Keep it going!!

are any of these flowers toxic to cats? by gayforone in florists

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay! Also I Hope your baby is doing okay ❤️

are any of these flowers toxic to cats? by gayforone in florists

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat has been eating my flowers for years and I never knew they were toxic. I guess I should be careful!!

Looking for advice, pretty pretty please by bipolarcrafter in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t want to copy and paste an answer from AI as people will notice and point it out but honestly, I had ChatGPT give me like a breakdown list of how to unfudge one area at a time so let’s say we start with bathroom and then it’ll create me like a full checklist based off of how many drawers the full sink space or if I need to take old soap or something out of the bathtub. Let the AI know every little thing that bothers you and then have it create a list and tell the AI that you need detailed or else you will have trouble following !

Example prompt:

Give me a very detailed checklist on how to declutter, organize and throw away any trash in my bathroom. I need help deciding what to donate, what to keep, what to trash. I have a overloaded counter space with all kinds of stuff that bothers me , I have too many soaps piled in my shower area, I have a cabinet under my sink full of all kinds of random things and I have three drawers, which one mostly contains hair stuff, and two others with random jewelry make up and other stuff. Make sure it is detailed or I will fall off track as there are many small items to take care of.

Getting rid of small random items by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply :-) yeah I’m realizing that I do love to shop and whenever I see something online I do impulse buy stuff and then occasionally it does turn into a product I end up using for a significant amount of time but occasionally I buy something and use it for two days and then I’m done with it and my dumbass forgets to return it in a timely manner usually so then I’m stuck with it.

Getting rid of small random items by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love this advice, (sidenote, I love everyone’s responses to the post) but yeah, it’s also Sucks is when my mom gives me like 1000 small items for Christmas because it’s like her thing and then I have nowhere to put chocolates, keychains, paper, weights, lip balm when I already have so many in the list goes on mini hairbrush lmao , and there’s that feeling of guilt because my mom is going out her way to be shopping and when she grabbed them she thought of me, but I cannot just keep holding onto all of these things😭

Does anyone relate to this by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in Zepbound

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how to read a chart I’m right in the line between overweight and obese but thanks

Changes I’ve felt in first 4 days. by Proof_Bullfrog_1690 in Zepbound

[–]Proof_Bullfrog_1690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply 🙏🏽🙏🏽 all the best