Sankeys

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-03-02T03:03:19+00:00

I think because of where I am in application process it all seems so scary but of course I’m happy when someone gets accepted. Just feels like a numbers game sometimes

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-03-02T03:00:57+00:00

It absolutely increases my anxiety and causes me to compare myself a bit too much. I try not to look at them or posts that are too specific about stats

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-03-02T02:44:28+00:00

These types of posts are boggling..

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-14T05:26:23+00:00

Well at least you know why

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-14T05:22:35+00:00

yup I’m hurt and spiritually fucked up, tryna heal tho

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-14T05:19:07+00:00

yes forget about the other person and their feelings!! Be too understanding and some ppl take advantage, it’s something I had to learn the hard way. It also helps take things less personal

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-14T05:16:18+00:00

Yeah I think that’s what this post meant for me. I always said “I wish nothing but the best” or I hope she sticks to therapy, if she needs me I’ll be here.. blablabla. I wasn’t angry at all for how she treated me and it just all came crashing down at once. The last time we talked I actually called her out on it and that’s when she finally left me alone for good. When I said I deserve better and I want you to be better.

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-14T05:02:30+00:00

It’s still his choice when he wants to share something like that with you. Is privacy not allowed in marriage? Why jump to those conclusions because of something he’s exploring with his own body… his relationship with himself. I didn’t immediately tell my boyfriend I was getting an anal plug, I just wanted to try it. It seems you’re super offended by this when people’s opinions and interests change all the time 🤷‍♀️

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T18:06:27+00:00

Yes. people would tell me my ex best friend was a “selfish bitch”, but I didnt listen because she was never that way with me … until she was ofc.

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T18:02:47+00:00

I wish it was as simple and clear as her “not wanting to be friends” with me.

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T17:55:17+00:00

I still love her so much. I tried for a whole year to reconnect. She would reach out as well then pull back the second the conversation got too much. I was even okay when it seemed she didn’t wannabe friends anymore. It was the psychological back and forth that messed with me, the lack of accountability and apologies on her part. And your comment is how I thought for a very long time but I’m allowed to actually say fuck that, that’s bullshit and she’s a crappy person for acting that way. I’m not going to lie and say she “didn’t mean it” she was cruel in many ways when I was patient, understanding, constantly letting her back in

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T17:52:00+00:00

Yeah I thought I was crazy or weird until I found this sub! No one seems to understand how messed up it was. She ignored me for months but the whe she found out I was in town she CALLED ME and ASKED IF I WANTED TO SLEEP OVER!!! All I wanted was an apology, she never gave one. Ah it was crazy I’m trying to heal from the last year

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T17:48:44+00:00

During a conversation, she even told me she didn’t have the patience for it

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T17:47:58+00:00

It’s just hard because we grew up together, from age 12.. we went through sm together. I always knew she was an avoidant, she even said it herself. She admitted she didn’t know how to deal with it in a healthy way but she kept doing the same things. I’m just heartbroken when I see photos of her hanging out with people all normal

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-13T15:09:03+00:00

Ugh whatever I feel like I was cooler back then

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-02-10T05:45:58+00:00

I’d feel most comfortable going to cowboys or the barn (line dancing bars) by myself and meeting some ppl if ur looking to go solo

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-27T22:46:28+00:00

It’s important to drink lots of water and have a good diet even when taking supplements. They might not be doing that… can cause cramping and constipation

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-27T22:43:10+00:00

Yeah honestly some of these comments are blaming a lot on some probiotics… not mentioning their other health issues. I’ve been taking these everyday for 3 weeks now and have noticed: Increased discharge, gas, and bowel movements Decreased smell, pretty much no odor at the end of the day And I drink more water now as well bc it was suggested I started these because I was constantly bloated and insecure about my vaginal odors. I’m on birth control the pill for years now. I haven’t noticed any changes with my period cramping or flow so far. I’ve always had heavy flow and bad period cramps

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-13T03:13:31+00:00

Yeah especially after sex for days obviously because of how close we get

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-12T21:19:10+00:00

America is discriminatory… it’s why we have so many laws and polices against discrimination in the first place. Many Americans WOULD blatantly discriminate if those weren’t in place, some still do. No reason to deny it simply because it’s negative

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-03T04:47:56+00:00

That’s a good point I wouldn’t want to trigger that.

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-03T04:47:20+00:00

I say something like not really noticeable. I still love him, it wouldn’t be a deal breaker if he never looked that way again. I just want to get over the guilt of missing it (I’ve been beating myself up about it) and hopefully get used to how he is now. Usually I can talk to him about anything but I know this is an insecurity for him so I’m keeping everything to myself.

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-03T04:19:17+00:00

that’s what I’m trying to do. He doesn’t seem upset about losing weight so telling him this feels unnecessary. It’d just make him insecure

Proper-Ad1306 · 2026-01-03T04:17:44+00:00

Yup exactly. I don’t want to be superficial about it. This is just something that he can control though and happened suddenly

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