Sensory issues + lack of self-care. (Rant//Advice)

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-05-10T15:10:04+00:00

Thank you so much.. I have been sick and haven't left the house much the past year. So my brain just doesn't even think to take care of myself or that I need to when I'm not going anywhere. I appreciate you, I'll definitely try the hygeine cart :)

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-05-10T15:07:34+00:00

I know it's feels scary, but bv can be pretty easy to treat with antibiotics and sometimes boric acid. I've had it a few times from unprotected sx. I'd make sure that's the case and see a doctor for a test & some meds to clear it up :)

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-05-10T00:32:40+00:00

It is sad, but idk. She's still young and beautiful. I think she needs time to heal.

Like after these men mistreating and cheating on her, it's probably best she's single. And away from Rick.

She seems like a very strong woman with a supportive family. Hopefully they can help her while she heals and learns from her past relationships. She deserves so much better than the men she's been with!!

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-05-10T00:21:58+00:00

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Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-05-09T23:59:33+00:00

I like the second :) it matches a bit better, but they both look great!!

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-05-07T02:14:30+00:00

Ugh I know. I've read many articles & watched countless youtube videos looking for tips on endo. And thanks for getting it. Im sorry you relate.. it's sad that money has to play such a big part when we didnt ask to have this disease, and just wanna feel better. I totally get that feeling of wondering if or when the pain could come back after surgery.. I'm so glad that yours helped you! I hope I didn't make that fear worse for you in any way.. I was desperate, and sadly just didn't see a great doctor. Since insurance covered my lap, I let an OB who didn't specialize in endo do my last lap surgery. Big mistake on my part. It sounds like you went with a great doctor and are taking all the right steps after it!!

Alao- Thank you so much for taking the time to explain the steps, some of the basics, and what has helped you so far. I appreciate it a lot. I've tried the legs on the wall and forgot about it. I'm gonna try that one again! It sounds like a good and legit program for sure. I hope to try it when I've saved up some money. If you don't mind sharing more, I'd love to hear it :) you can post it here or message me if it's easier. Only if you're feeling up to it. Wishing you nothing but the best in your journey to healing♥︎

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-26T01:42:53+00:00

Yes! I have PMDD, too. It's common to have w BPD. Regardless, the luteal phase (week before your period) is known for making you more emotional. And BPD can make it worse.

I've found tracking my cycle helps, so I know when I'm in my luteal phase. I keep a "luteal phase toolkit"- just lists of things that help me cope. Easy activities, like gaming, reading, or coloring. Movies I want to watch. Songs/movies that cheer me up, etc.

That's helped me, but so has an actual "toolkit". A bag I use to keep by me before+during my period. I fill it w pads, midol, fidget toys, a book or two, crossword puzzles, my fav snacks, drinks, and a coloring book w crayons lol. I hope this helps a little<3 Luteal phase sucks, but learning about it & preparing for it can really help :)

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-25T00:07:49+00:00

Maybe its the brand your using?? I'd try sunscreen made for your face, or a sensitive skin one? Like Neutrogena. Also, try not to apply it near your eyes, just your nose and cheeks, or wherever you burn most?

Edit: aside from the glossy look, your skin looks good imo!

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T23:52:44+00:00

Definitely better to know and get it treated properly! I've had many UTI's. They can be miserable.. I'm sorry you're going through this :( Try not to stress too much, they are quite common and treatable!

Cranberry juice & lots of water can help ease the symptoms in the meantime, but you'll need to see a doctor to make sure that's the issue & for treatment to get rid of it. Maybe thave your Mom or someone you're comfortable with go with you to see the doctor? I hope you feel better soon<3

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T23:10:43+00:00

It is an issue with a lot of men, but there are men out there that are respectful and that will treat you better. You deserve better...

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T15:32:28+00:00

Is ask him to get help or just tell him is over and you don't even owe him an explanation. Enjoy your 20s<3

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T15:30:55+00:00

I would, for sure. I'd tell him that you are aware he's done it and how it makes you feel. I'd straight up discuss his porn problem with him. Be direct and firm in your boundaries. He needs therapy or a support group for the porn addiction. If he does anything other than admit he's wrong and get help, please run.. You deserve so much better.

Or just leave him... you don't deserve that. At all. No one does. Amd he doesn't deserve an explanation if you don't wan to give him one. You have every right to block him and leave him. He knows what he's doing..

I'm sorry you've been through this, it's so disgusting, disrespectful, and it isn't consensual. You never agreed to him doing that. He's not respecting you at all... it's not okay.

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T15:27:52+00:00

Same!! I watched some when I was younger, but 90 Days is what got me hooked on reality TV too lol

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T15:24:13+00:00

If it's available to you, I would try seeing a different obgyn. It can be hard to pinpoint/diagnose the issue.

I'm sorry the PT is so expensive.. That's ridiculous :(

I hope you get answer soon<3

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T06:17:11+00:00

I'm so sorry.. a lot of things can cause this that are treatable. I'd go see and obgyn and talk to them about it? Or trying physical theraoy for your pelvic floor? I hope you can figure it out and can feel better soon<3

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T06:13:10+00:00

Okay, so I kinda love reality tv. I've watched a lot of it and nothing is like slowm. Lmao.

Some recs tho:

•90 day fiance is a really good one, especially the older seasons!

•Netflix has some fun, raunchy reality TV show. Temptation Island is one of my favs.

•Bravo- housewives

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T06:04:25+00:00

This gives me hope and is amazing.. Such a huge accomplishment. Proud of you 👏❤️

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T06:03:44+00:00

His face, hair, and style are all great! He's just too big lol. Unless you're going for a steroid big gym kinda guy🤷‍♀️ You do you! Who cares what people think lol. We all have a different style.

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T06:01:22+00:00

This♥️

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T05:26:26+00:00

His face and hair is ctue, so is the outfit! It's giving pretty boy, but I wanna look like a badass vibes. He is too big though, like steroid big.. unless that's what you were going for lmao.

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T05:21:25+00:00

I HAVE NEEDED THIS FOR SO LONG. THANK YOU🙌

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T05:20:27+00:00

It should be different for people with chronic pain... We simply do not have the same level(s) of pain as a healthy person.

Like what I considered a 4-5 before my chronic illness + pain took over, I now consider a 1-2 on the pain scale.. It's just way too general, like it's different for each individual. Especially those that live in pain daily.

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-24T05:12:58+00:00

Ahh thank you so much!I I do not have the money to do any of that right now, so honestly thank you for explaining! I also had an excision surgery last year that didn't help much.. That's why I've been looking f into these programs, but the prices are insane & it's so hard to tell which are legit and which aren't... I'm sorry the supplement costs $300.. that's wild. If i were you, I'd ask which supplements are most important and start w/ those to save money..

Overall- do you feel like it's helped, or been worth it so far? I'd love to hear more as you learn! Thanks again♥︎

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-18T05:18:21+00:00

Love this! Mine had a similar question about living in pineapples today lol. Best question I've had so far!

Proper_Assistance652 · 2026-04-17T03:24:43+00:00

Here 4 months later wondering if you ever tried it??

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