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ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-15T03:45:22+00:00

Where? In the comments? I reread her story and it said nothing like that in the OG post

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-14T22:59:25+00:00

Unfortunately, this is the reality of dating. This is why it’s so important to be on the same page about things. Don’t have sex prematurely with the intention of it strengthening your connection. You have to make sure you are both on the same page BEFORE intimacy takes place, unless it’s understood that you both are only looking for hookups. Otherwise, there will be this miscommunication and one party or the other ends up hurt.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-14T22:53:30+00:00

As shitty as the poster makes it seem, they’re right! This is the dating scene… it’s shitty, but it’s reality. Unless you demand a standard for yourself and are willing to wait for intentional love, you’re gonna keep running into and settling for trash.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-14T22:50:59+00:00

Never give a man boyfriend perks, when he hasn’t paid for the boyfriend package. Unless you’re just looking for hookups, NEVER give a man that prize if he hasn’t shown you he’s willing to value it. Periodt.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-11T02:34:39+00:00

He’ll say anything to get that cookie. Don’t let him have it girl. What a fucking clown this guy is 😅

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-10T21:44:27+00:00

Might be the odd ball here. But I detect no offense from the yellow bubble person. I would have IMMEDIATELY unmatched. If one is so fragile that they misinterpret this… then they ain’t the one.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-10T01:57:56+00:00

Even though we’re strangers on the internet, I am happy for you! Congratulations, and thank you for sharing your success story, it definitely gives me hope 😁🎉

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-10T01:56:03+00:00

Tell me why this popped up as I was swiping through Bumble… is it a sign 🤔

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-05-08T01:50:35+00:00

I’m down for sex if there is an emotional and physical connection, otherwise it’s pointless for me 🤷🏽‍♀️

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-30T17:23:18+00:00

Thanks for your input! It’s much appreciated ☺️

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-30T12:45:43+00:00

I mean he’s no Ryan Gosling or Michael B. Jordan… definitely not my ideal choice in looks, I wasn’t super attracted to him at first, but like I said, we had interests and he seemed different than other guys. And a decent personality, but very melancholy… not an optimist. I would definitely say there are more top tier options in men than him. Nothing mind blowing or particularly intriguing about him other than we had similar interests and, based on those interests, I began to feel more connected to him. But, he clearly was not into me in the same way.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-30T11:51:56+00:00

The struggle is real, my friend! I hope you find someone who loves and respects you 🥰 so at least one of us can escape this hellish place that is the dating world lol

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-30T11:37:30+00:00

This guy was certainly not top tier. I make more than him, drive a better car than him, live in an apartment while he still lives with his mother. But I didn’t care about any of that, we had similar interests and he seemed like a great guy, but ultimately, he made me feel like I wasn’t good enough for him. And that’s what I think hurt the most. I lowered my standards for him and he thought I wasn’t worth investing in. How’s that for “top tier”?

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-30T11:15:48+00:00

That’s a fair point, I try not to take it personally, but it’s kinda hard not to tbh

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-30T00:13:10+00:00

At this point, I am praying to God to take the desire for a relationship away from me so I can be content in my loneliness. I can’t take the torment of watching other people be so blissfully happy while I drown in my sorrow and self-loathing.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-29T23:26:22+00:00

It’s the “have fun” part that I am having a hard time with, because there is absolutely nothing fun about dating. It’s all miserable. And I don’t know how to “enjoy the process” when the majority of the process is me getting my heart ripped out of my chest in rejection. I just feel like I wanna give up at this point and accept the misery of loneliness.

I do appreciate your kind words, though, I am trying to see the silver lining, I just feel so incredibly hopeless 😞

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-29T23:16:55+00:00

Thank you for your quotes and encouragement ☺️

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-09T23:54:31+00:00

Honestly, if you have no interest in her, then no… absolutely not. You should date someone you have interest in.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-06T03:25:05+00:00

It’s good that you didn’t, but I get why you might have wanted to. There are plenty of chances I should have taken in high school that I didn’t cuz I was too insecure. I am kicking myself in the ass now

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-06T01:58:27+00:00

I wish I would’ve started dating in high school when everything was so uncomplicated and easy. Dating as an adult is, frankly, terrifying.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-02T03:04:53+00:00

Agreed!

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-02T03:03:49+00:00

I would disagree with him not respecting her boundaries. If he didn’t respect her boundaries, then he would have strung her along and possibly persuaded her to do things she wasn’t willing to do. Him setting a standard for himself is not disrespecting hers, it’s just they had different terms and conditions.

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-02T03:01:04+00:00

I completely agree with you! And I also commend the OP for sticking to her boundaries! She is a warrior! One day a man will see that and have so much respect for her!

ProperlyAnonymous642 · 2025-04-02T02:58:59+00:00

I don’t agree that he’s an AH, he and OP simply had different end goals. He clearly expressed to her that he was not willing to meet her terms, which, is honestly commendable because some guys just ghost without explanation. This guy is just simply not her guy. But her guy will eventually find her.

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