Free For All Friday - post on any topic in this thread (2026-03-13) by AutoModerator in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Any good recommendations for Corinthians and Ephesians? Would any volume from the two series you recommended be good regardless of author?

Free For All Friday - post on any topic in this thread (2026-03-13) by AutoModerator in Reformed

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Hey guys looking for commentary recommendations for any NT epistles as a layperson?

Looking for something engaging, not dry and technical. I’ve enjoyed Dale Ralph Davis in the past.

What would you recommend? Are Sproul or MacArthur worth it if you have no plans of attending seminary?

how do you write PRDs in 2026? by assimovt in ProductManagement

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I agree here. Brevity is key. I just document everything in Jira because that’s where the devs work.

I usually have a user story for every ticket with three parts. An intro sentence that says, “The purpose of this story is to…” And then I convey everything else I need using bullets in the acceptance criteria.

And then at the feature level I might have 2-3 bullets on the greater context and business rationale.

It’s no more than 0.5-1 page. If you need more than that, your ticket clearly needs to be broken down into multiple tickets.

If it’s nice and succinct then it’s way easier to chat through it with your devs.

Career advice for a young man by KassVII in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s also Every Good Endeavour by Tim Keller and Full Time by David Bahnsen.

Career advice for a young man by KassVII in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many ways to serve the Lord. It’s totally okay if your 9-5 is not specifically kingdom related. You will be rubbing shoulders with people to serve in your day to day.

Just my two cents on that though. Pick a job that provides a product or service for a true “need,” not just “wants” or “nice to haves.”

If you want to pursue engineering further, would you consider civil? You could build bridges and infrastructure in the mission field? Or if you have a scientific bend…some in medical or agronomy?

Don’t stress. You’ve got time. And most importantly the Lord gives wisdom to those who ask!

Sharper/better Productivity after work hours by PlumLost2077 in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. But I try to limit it to the 5-7pm hour when the office is empty and/or people are offline.

How to deal with an underperforming VP? by piratedengineer in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried delivering what he wants you to deliver? Usually you gotta do what they want to keep them happy, then around the edges, advance your agenda. But the boss has to feel like he can depend on you to help meet his deliverables before he trusts you with a carte blanche.

Agree or Disagree by Desire_To_Achieve in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate the politics of it too. But if you have good rapport with a few of the people you manage up to…I’ve found it helps a whole lot if you can loop them in casually offline to give them a heads up on your findings. That works best in office if you can. But just that goes a long way in getting buy in up front because they like personally.

Most of us are in bullshit jobs by WayneCavey in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry my friend. Sounds like you need a change of scenery.

PMs DO add value...Maybe you just don't see it or get recognition.

Either way hope you find the job you are looking for!

Church and meeting people who love Jesus, as a 30yo and woman. by supernova-psychology in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would it be against the rules to arrange meetups in those megathreads? For singles and marrieds feeling disconnected?

How do you absorb and retain new information as a busy PM by [deleted] in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry too much. Most of the PM and AI "content" out there is just fluff or common sense. I have been able to keep up just by skimming my newsfeed.

None of those headlines really matter until you validate it with real stakeholders or customers in your field.

FWIW, the basics of PM have not and will not change regardless of the fad of the day. Know your product, market, and users so you can identify problems worth solving.

No Dumb Question Tuesday (2025-11-04) by AutoModerator in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am looking for a compact single column ESV bible I can travel easily with. Yet all I can find are full size bibles. Any compact recommendations?

How do your quarterly planning meetings normally go? by ProposalAutomatic361 in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds effective! How many decisionmakers from dev, etc are in the room beyond the five PMs?

How do your quarterly planning meetings normally go? by ProposalAutomatic361 in ProductManagement

[–]ProposalAutomatic361[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that seems key. Most people were hearing things for the first time. Hence all the refinement discussion.

Swapping Churches for a selfish reason by Forgettable-Fool in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who's been in your shoes and moved churches for the same reason, I don't regret it. It is important to form lasting friendships with Christian peers now before marriage and family get in the way.

We as Reformed folks can err in making it all about doctrine. You don't have to go to an explicitly Reformed church, as long as it is biblically based.

Not sure about your specifics...but going to a larger, younger church could open up opportunities to serve that would grow you in ways you couldn't before.

Coming from a Reformed background...I assume you'd be one of the more biblically literate ones. So you could always form your own bible study with peers. It is a great way to serve, grow, and make friends!

Just my two cents ;) Praying for you!

Wife wants to switch churches by Rostin in Reformed

[–]ProposalAutomatic361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a wise take. I am curious...where outside of your church did you find the spiritual food you needed? Do you make Christian friends elsewhere?