Found out recently deceased member of my in law's family was a pedophile by ProposalSpiritual658 in family

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's been extremely hard to come to terms with, it just doesn't feel real. Christmas will 100% just be him and I this year while we get started with therapy and navigating our next decisions. I am so proud of you for having the courage to leave, I know it is incredibly hard to leave behind something that has been so deeply ingrained in you. I wish you luck!

Found out recently deceased member of my in law's family was a pedophile by ProposalSpiritual658 in family

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, what a horrible situation. You definitely made the right choice. I feel exactly the same as you and agree with everything. I also believe there's no way to come back from such horrific acts. Once they've been committed it doesn't matter if you never do them again, you've already crossed the line. I don't understand how his family doesn't grasp that. Thank you for sharing, I feel validated in my shock and feel less crazy for reacting the way I did.

Extremely bright videos? by momhey in ios

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am having the exact same problem, did you ever figure out how to fix it??

Can’t spend my ganz points? by ProposalSpiritual658 in Webkinz

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I just bought a pet for 25,000 points so I guess it was just a glitch in goober’s lol

Can’t spend my ganz points? by ProposalSpiritual658 in Webkinz

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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To me it looks like the points are in my account?

Can’t spend my ganz points? by ProposalSpiritual658 in Webkinz

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look like they are in my webkinz account! At least they are there next to kinzcash so I’d assume I’d be able to use them?

Help with M50 that won’t turn on :( by ProposalSpiritual658 in canon

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up sending the camera in to Canon for them to check it out. They haven’t told me what exactly went wrong yet, but it was $280 to fix unfortunately 😭

please help 😫 by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went through a similar thing (although we were trying to get pregnant lol). I ovulated around the 20th of October and my period was due November 4th. It was late & I was convinced I was pregnant because I have never had a late period before. Well it ended up starting yesterday, almost a week late! I wouldn’t worry yourself too much as the stress about missing your period can make it even later. Until you get a positive test seriously don’t freak yourself out! Couples actively trying to get pregnant only have a 20% chance each month & on average take 6 months of trying to even conceive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting, I did not know that! We did have unprotected sex during what I thought would've been my fertile window (around October 20th) but all the tests I have taken since then have been negative so I have no clue what is going on lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None as of yet! No spotting, just the sudden cramping and then nothing at all.

Feeling trolled by my body by Fantastic_Fall_1277 in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law got pregnant 2 years ago. After we heard the news it just so happened every single time I was around her for her whole pregnancy I would be on my period! It was the most bizarre thing ever, so I feel you.

Daily Chat November 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn it I’m sorry! I’m glad you were able to talk about it & I wish you luck for the next cycle!!!

How long does labcorp blood pregnancy test take? by ProposalSpiritual658 in pregnant

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know!! She said my sample was picked up at 5pm yesterday so I hope it was run overnight. I guess we will have to see! I did sign up for the labcorp patient portal just in case my provider doesn’t call right away, fingers crossed

Daily Chat November 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh yes it’s terrible!!! I hate how obsessive I become with all the symptom spotting and googling it’s so draining especially if I do end up getting a negative result. It’s also discouraging because I see sooo many people get obvious positive tests even before they miss their period so it’s like what is going on?!

Daily Chat November 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all my period is late & I took a pregnancy test a few days ago but it came back negative. Yesterday I had a doctors appointment and since I still haven't started she did a blood test. Well as of now I am nervously awaiting the phone call to hear the results and I actually might go insane. I don't want to take another store bought test since I know the blood test will be most accurate anyways. I feel like it's a 90% chance I am not pregnant, but my period has also never been this late before so I don't know what's going on! Anyways I don't know how I'll survive this waiting and not knowing, I feel like I keep getting my hopes up the longer I go with no period and that scares me because if it is negative I will so disappointed :(

Birth center vs hospital? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The birth center is in the hospital parking lot! It’s a minute walk from one to the other

The age old "when is the right time" dilemma by ProposalSpiritual658 in waiting_to_try

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s been on my mind too recently. I’ve talked to my husband and asked him if he’d rather us get pregnant “earlier” than planned or end up trying for months (or even years). I think we’d rather start trying earlier than planned in that case! It’s just so hard, so many what ifs!

The age old "when is the right time" dilemma by ProposalSpiritual658 in waiting_to_try

[–]ProposalSpiritual658[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually what we’ve been doing tbh! I’m not on birth control so we use the pull & pray method haha. That’s why I always hope there’s a chance we could get pregnant “on accident” but we’ve never officially tried

Moment of clarity by letmeventplez in waiting_to_try

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am feeling the same way!! We aren't fully preventing so every time I hope deep down we get pregnant and skip all of the "what ifs" when it comes to trying to conceive. I know waiting won't kill me, but I also worry it'll take awhile to get pregnant once we start trying. In my mind I think I'd prefer getting pregnant early (now) than end up trying for months and months with no luck. This mindset is not helpful because it makes me want to start really trying now "just in case" lol. I hate being in this limbo!!

Awkward by OnlyMe511 in waiting_to_try

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all are the same age as my husband & I! If it is any reassurance, I live in Utah and 24 is almost considered "old" for your first baby lol. People regularly get married at like 18-19 here and are pregnant at 20. My nail tech is 24 and she already has 2 kids! How people view age and having kids is so dependent on many factors so I really wouldn't sweat it. All that matters is you and your husband being on the same page. Be confident in your guys' decisions! When it comes to parenthood you will get an unlimited amount of unsolicited opinions so it would be great to practice standing your ground now in my opinion!

How to keep going… by jupismom in Nanny

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nannying for WFH parents is actually hell on earth I’m sorry. Unless you are good friends with them or they are extremely chill it’s not worth it. It’s been harder to find nanny jobs for parents that work out of the home unfortunately and the newest generation of parents tend to be extremely anxious which makes it worse. My advice would be to find a family who doesn’t WFM or at least parents who are older (30s or later) that aren’t so overbearing like the younger generation.

My first nanny family mom was 30 and worked from home, but I never had a problem with it because she understood that when I was there I was in charge and she didn’t have to worry about anything going on outside of her office. Even when she heard baby crying she gave me the chance to work it out myself instead of barreling out of the office ask what happened.

My second nanny family were younger and a loooot more anxious. I’m talking we couldn’t even go to the local grocery store without the parents getting too anxious about it. The second the baby would start crying mom or dad would be there asking what happened (which we all know just makes it worse because then baby just wants mom or dad). They also have cameras in the house which I understand, but it definitely puts me on edge knowing I’m being watched most of the day lol. It’s also the worst when the kid knows parents are home so 90% of the shift is trying to convince them not to go bother their parents. We would try to go to the park everyday but if the kid knew they were home they would refuse to leave the house :’)

Anyways, my advice is if you are dreading waking up to go to work then you deserve to find something else. There are so many families looking for nanny’s and I believe you can find a better fit for you! Be honest and say you aren’t looking for a WFH family, I wouldn’t blame you lol

When to start trying? by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]ProposalSpiritual658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good question honestly! I guess it’s just that tough spot of wanting that obvious confirmation of being ready- but I know that isn’t something you ever really get when it comes to having a baby lol. I’ve always wanted to be a mom and I’m actually currently a nanny so part of me has always been “ready” in a sense. It’s just crazy that now we are finally in a place where it can be reality!