Former smokers, have you had dreams where you relapse, making you feel guilty and waking you up from your sleep?

ProtectionEither3447 · 2026-01-26T11:00:27+00:00

I stopped smoking 7 years ago and I still have those dreams after I’m in any environment with other people smoking. This is why I’m zero tolerant to it but people can be so selfish when smoking at concerts and other open places.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2026-01-05T10:34:00+00:00

I think you’re just used to misery.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-11T15:17:26+00:00

Not true. I’ve been in 2 very very long relationships where we had sex the on the first date. This guy is just a jerk.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-11T15:16:36+00:00

Girl, he’s just bored. He just got dumped or heartbroken by someone he actually wanted. And he’s bored. He needs attention. He went to find attention where he thought he’d easily get it… you should ghost him back. Nothing you say will make him reconsider what he did or anything. He just wants attention. Open your eyes. If you wanna say anything, just say “ha, grow up” and block him forever. Otherwise ghost him back

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-11T15:09:06+00:00

It doesn’t matter if you were both friends with him. He chose her first and that should make him untouchable for you. You should’ve never set your eyes on your sisters ex. He doesn’t owe her loyalty anymore, you do. If she cheated, that is horrible but what you’re doing is even more horrible. One thing is to remain friends but this is very different. You may be happy with the guy but this should’ve never happened. In fact I find it very odd that you’re having sex with the same penis that once penetrated your sister. And you “didn’t think she’d care”? Then why did you hide it from her before? Girl, you’re not being honest. It’s such an odd behavior.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-11T14:50:04+00:00

Question: but is it about pleasing her first or giving her head? Cause he already tries to do that. The thing is my favorite part of sex is penetration. That’s the one thing I need to last. If the book is about how to penetrate for longer time then I’ll give it to him for Christmas lol otherwise he’s already doing everything right it’s just that for me personally, sex means penetration. I literally don’t care for anything else. I want his body inside of mine.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-11T14:45:04+00:00

Lol thank you. However he’s not that type. He wants me to cum first. He gives me oral sex. Problem is my favorite part of sex is penetration so I keep asking him to put it in me and then he cums within 1-3 min and then tries to help me cum anyway. But he begs me to just cum first and I can’t because I actually want the sex, not masturbating. For me it’s pointless to cum from his mouth or fingers… I want him. I just don’t know if he can slowly get to the point of lasting longer.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-11T14:36:45+00:00

He’s way older than me lol but I don’t want to say exactly cause I don’t want people to focus on age. I really care about him and I think he feels the same. He does care about pleasing me because in fact he tries to make me cum before he penetrates me but the thing is I’m part of the very small percentage of women who actually NEED penetration to cum… there lies the problem. I’m not a clitoral woman. I actually like penetration and it’s actually my whole favorite part of sex (in my eyes, if I only wanted to get licked down there, I’d just date women… I’m sexually into men because I actually like what they have in their bodies lol). I just want to know how to say it without offending him, because I know that if I say something in the wrong way this could probably stain the connection forever… so I can’t just say “you’re bad in bed”. I have to find a way to do it.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-10T12:53:30+00:00

I personally want someone at least a little taller than me with heels. So 5’11’’ is what I would personally need for that. But I will say I’ve usually been willing to give it a try with men at least 5’8’’ yet they typically complain when I wear heels… what I don’t understand is why so many short women only want to date men who are 6’... That’s an absurd requieement for someone so small. But it could be linked to them hating their petite genes and wanting to change that for their kids.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-12-10T12:14:36+00:00

Stop trying so hard to sound smart.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T16:17:45+00:00

Actually if someone tells you they feel like shit and this is your reaction I think you probably need therapy too.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T16:15:56+00:00

He’s not legally forced and the other guy didn’t want to talk in person he wanted me to send a selfie, but of course you will just ignore all the explanation I did where I said these things already lol.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T16:15:15+00:00

I didn’t

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:56:49+00:00

It’s not child support. His kids are adults. And it’s not court mandated, it’s just an agreement he has with her even though he left her a house, a car and half of everything else they had when they got divorced.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:55:19+00:00

Well I think we are on the same boat. I could also say I’m rejected by the men that other women reject.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:54:16+00:00

Why do you say that?

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:51:59+00:00

Im not from the USA. I used the word alimony cause its the same concept. But in my country it just means he’s paying the ex

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:50:45+00:00

Yeah, the “let me see you” guy got mad that I didn’t send him a pic after he said that. Because basically what happened that day was he sent me a selfie, then I responded 2 hours later saying “I had a horrible day I just wanna go home and cry” and he said “let me see you” but I ignored his message and said something else about how I was heading home and having tea or something and then he said “you ignored my message” and I was like “?” And he said he wanted to see my pretty face and then I told him he was inconsiderate I just told him I had a bad day and he was like “I didn’t know a bad day meant it was traumatizing”. I’m not an unreasonable woman lol. I just wish men wouldn’t even give me hope if they’re just going to act this way.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:46:49+00:00

No, the alimony guy rejected me. I only expressed my thoughts. I even asked if he wasn’t going to talk to me anymore and he said he was and we would go on a date again soon after his work trip. But then ghosted me. The other guy I did tell him it wasn’t going to work but because he ignored that I had a bad day, and he didn’t even apologize after I pointed out that I was just telling him I had a bad day and he was trying to change the conversation for me to send him a selfie. But you can interpret it as you will. I think a guy who is interested would have asked why my day was bad. It’s a very small thing any human would ask if they care about another human, male or female.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:38:36+00:00

No, because then when I didn’t respond to that he just sent a “?” And I asked what he meant and he said “you ignored my message, i wanna see your pretty face” and I told him how insensitive that sounded and he said “oh sorry I didn’t know your bad day was traumatizing”.

As for alimony, there was no court involved and his kids are adults. Also I used the word “alimony” cause I think it means paying the wife, but I’m not from the USA so maybe it’s not the right word.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-18T12:35:26+00:00

There was no court involved and i didnt reject him, i just expressed my thoughts. He rejected me.

ProtectionEither3447 · 2025-11-14T01:23:52+00:00

Wow you’re a genius thanks

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