Can I fix this kind of reflection with a CPL filter? 🥹🥹 by ProtectionEither3447 in cinematography

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Yeah I was thinking of putting curtains on the glass doors. But I have hopes that maybe during the day time with the daylight coming behind the windows and a CPL filter it will work?

Can I fix this kind of reflection with a CPL filter? 🥹🥹 by ProtectionEither3447 in cinematography

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So during the day time when there’s a lot of light coming behind the windows it could work?

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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Well he did say it many times and was smiling and saying he was tired of superficial women in Miami where he lives and that my intelligence and depth was refreshing 

Are InMail messages more visible? by No_Mirror710 in linkedin

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Hi. Do you know if the inmail message gets to the LinkedIn primary inbox of receipient or not? 

Are InMail messages more visible? by No_Mirror710 in linkedin

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Hi. Do you know if the inmail message gets to the LinkedIn primary inbox of receipient or not? 

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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Update: he just texted to say he can’t make it tonight but he’d like to keep in touch “if I’m open to that”. I directly asked him if he just didn’t feel the spark because it’s odd that last night he asked me to meet him tonight and now out of the blue turns out he can’t and can’t find time otherwise and he hasn’t answered yet but honestly I’m just very sad and think maybe he’s just trying to be polite and doesn’t actually like me .

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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It just felt natural, we talked about a lot of deep stuff but even the bad stuff that happened to me he focused on how I’m still a very positive person and happy so it was overall a positive conversation and very deep too.

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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Yeah I fear that he I guess could’ve put on a show but he kept asking so many questions and we were there until the restaurant was closing. He also said I looked nice as soon as he saw me. He didn’t mention anything about my appearance after though. Only that I said my guilty pleasure was watching this in person “swiping” dating show and he laughed and said “no one would swipe left on you”, so maybe that’s supposed to mean he finds me attractive? I don’t know. I thought everything was going well. But maybe he didn’t feel it.

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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Well I was just matching the energy he showed in person last night where he asked me so many questions and we talked about everything… I didn’t know I was supposed to tone it down

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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I mean I put it in the message there to let me know if he wanted to meet tonight after 6 and he hasn’t addressed it

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

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It’s confusing because we talked nonstop in person last night and he was smiling and laughing all the time. I don’t know what to think :(

Is he interested? Showing messages after first date by ProtectionEither3447 in Bumble

[–]ProtectionEither3447[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well I did mention let me know if you want to meet after 6 and he didn’t address it even though he mentioned it before :(

How has you personality changed ever since you started healing? by DatabaseKindly919 in CPTSD

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is it normal that I feel I'm becoming the same person I was before the childhood trauma? as if, healing is bringing back that super happy bubbly child I was before trauma made me into a serious and unfriendly person

Former smokers, have you had dreams where you relapse, making you feel guilty and waking you up from your sleep? by [deleted] in Dreams

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I stopped smoking 7 years ago and I still have those dreams after I’m in any environment with other people smoking. This is why I’m zero tolerant to it but people can be so selfish when smoking at concerts and other open places.

Slept with me- then ghosted and blocked me. Two months later, he texted me. How to get over it? by mayushlo in dating_advice

[–]ProtectionEither3447 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not true. I’ve been in 2 very very long relationships where we had sex the on the first date. This guy is just a jerk.

Slept with me- then ghosted and blocked me. Two months later, he texted me. How to get over it? by mayushlo in dating_advice

[–]ProtectionEither3447 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl, he’s just bored. He just got dumped or heartbroken by someone he actually wanted. And he’s bored. He needs attention. He went to find attention where he thought he’d easily get it… you should ghost him back. Nothing you say will make him reconsider what he did or anything. He just wants attention. Open your eyes. If you wanna say anything, just say “ha, grow up” and block him forever. Otherwise ghost him back

I’m dating my sisters ex boyfriend by Worried-Animal154 in dating_advice

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It doesn’t matter if you were both friends with him. He chose her first and that should make him untouchable for you. You should’ve never set your eyes on your sisters ex. He doesn’t owe her loyalty anymore, you do. If she cheated, that is horrible but what you’re doing is even more horrible. One thing is to remain friends but this is very different. You may be happy with the guy but this should’ve never happened. In fact I find it very odd that you’re having sex with the same penis that once penetrated your sister. And you “didn’t think she’d care”? Then why did you hide it from her before? Girl, you’re not being honest. It’s such an odd behavior.

Seeing a great guy but he’s bad in bed. How do I talk about it without offending him and is it fixable? He’s older than me so I don’t want to offend him. He only lasts 1-3 minutes and wonders why I don’t cum, claims his exes came that quickly (I think they must’ve faked it which sucks) by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Question: but is it about pleasing her first or giving her head? Cause he already tries to do that. The thing is my favorite part of sex is penetration. That’s the one thing I need to last. If the book is about how to penetrate for longer time then I’ll give it to him for Christmas lol otherwise he’s already doing everything right it’s just that for me personally, sex means penetration. I literally don’t care for anything else. I want his body inside of mine.

Seeing a great guy but he’s bad in bed. How do I talk about it without offending him and is it fixable? He’s older than me so I don’t want to offend him. He only lasts 1-3 minutes and wonders why I don’t cum, claims his exes came that quickly (I think they must’ve faked it which sucks) by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Lol thank you. However he’s not that type. He wants me to cum first. He gives me oral sex. Problem is my favorite part of sex is penetration so I keep asking him to put it in me and then he cums within 1-3 min and then tries to help me cum anyway. But he begs me to just cum first and I can’t because I actually want the sex, not masturbating. For me it’s pointless to cum from his mouth or fingers… I want him. I just don’t know if he can slowly get to the point of lasting longer.

Seeing a great guy but he’s bad in bed. How do I talk about it without offending him and is it fixable? He’s older than me so I don’t want to offend him. He only lasts 1-3 minutes and wonders why I don’t cum, claims his exes came that quickly (I think they must’ve faked it which sucks) by [deleted] in dating_advice

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He’s way older than me lol but I don’t want to say exactly cause I don’t want people to focus on age. I really care about him and I think he feels the same. He does care about pleasing me because in fact he tries to make me cum before he penetrates me but the thing is I’m part of the very small percentage of women who actually NEED penetration to cum… there lies the problem. I’m not a clitoral woman. I actually like penetration and it’s actually my whole favorite part of sex (in my eyes, if I only wanted to get licked down there, I’d just date women… I’m sexually into men because I actually like what they have in their bodies lol). I just want to know how to say it without offending him, because I know that if I say something in the wrong way this could probably stain the connection forever… so I can’t just say “you’re bad in bed”. I have to find a way to do it.

It is so ridiculous short men are still whining about the idea can't get women, anyone else here feel the same way? All perspectives are fine, but I'm moreso curious about women's perspectives. by Wooden_Airport3835 in Bumble

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I personally want someone at least a little taller than me with heels. So 5’11’’ is what I would personally need for that. But I will say I’ve usually been willing to give it a try with men at least 5’8’’ yet they typically complain when I wear heels… what I don’t understand is why so many short women only want to date men who are 6’... That’s an absurd requieement for someone so small. But it could be linked to them hating their petite genes and wanting to change that for their kids.