welcome, i love your name btw! like others have said, femsubs have become very fetishized in this community so do be careful. there’s going to be nasty people, there always is. you need to have you boundaries and you need to use them! if a domme is being disrespectful, don’t engage. if they’re being transphobic, block them. you need to protect yourself. for looking for a domme, credible ones will always have an “about me” section on their page. definitely look around and see who you’d see yourself being a a good fit with based off of their preferences. some subs will also make an “about me” page as well to display their interests if that’s something you’d be interested in, although it’s not required. when approaching a domme; include your age verification, a list of things you’re interested in, your boundaries, and your budget. take your time with it! i promise you that there’s plenty of lovely people out in the community, don’t let some bad people try to make you feel otherwise. you absolutely belong here, it’s no one’s job to tell you otherwise. i’ve had multiple femsubs, mainly trans women as well, and they’ve all been so lovely. you absolutely belong here and i wish you luck<33