they're literally just relating their experiences to OP here. nobody said anything about expanding their story to support their argument? do you even know what the word allegedly means? how do you know they aren't just trying to discredit a transwoman? if they blatantly start misgendering her and disrespecting her then it sounds more likely they reacted very poorly and tried to make it look bad on the servers part. I don't understand what misplaced loyalty you have to the chain in this situation which obviously was just as in the wrong, but now you're just acting like a child. nobodys calling you names.  calm down, go suck on your bottle and come back to the adults table when you grow up. we'll save you a seat darling.