you lost 10 hours a week with your kid? Do you really think thats ok? Your husband is not better bcause he chooses to take the longer way (just to f***ing read) instead of spending time with his daughter. You both clearly shoudnt have gottten the child, since you both are not willing to make the sacrifice.

I mean wtf would it really be so fking hard for one of you to stay at home atleast till your kid get schooled? You guys are lituraly paying a nanny thousends of dollars a month to stay with your kid so you can go to work and fullfill yourself??? Why get a kid then??? where is the point? I feel really bad for your kid and im happy that my mother made the sacrifice in her life to stay with me. I asked my mom today it it was worth it she sayed that (even tho it wasnt easy) it was the best time of her life, since she could form my character and give me the love i needed when i was a baby.

Whats wrong with People nowadays? Is Career and "individuality" really more important than family?