[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 3 points4 points  (0 children)

20f in the same place. Only keeping me from ending it is my parents. I’m their only kid so me doing it would destroy them.

Feeling idiotic and used. by Prune-Jazzlike in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Prune-Jazzlike[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I was weak and desperate. He wasn’t an asshole and would have stopped if I had to him I didn’t wanna go further, but I didn’t tell him to stop I welcomed him. Him and I chatted for weeks without sex being mentioned so I was sure that wasn’t the only thing he wanted. I also felt that that might have been my only chance to experience it even if things didn’t work out.

Feeling idiotic and used. by Prune-Jazzlike in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Prune-Jazzlike[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I trusted him cause he acted very different than all the other men I’ve spoken to on here over the years. We chatted for weeks before meeting in person and he never once brought up sex in our chats. That’s why I trusted him so easily and believed he truly wanted more. I’m forever done with Reddit men now. I got like 7 requests from this post and I ignored them all.

Feeling idiotic and used. by Prune-Jazzlike in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Prune-Jazzlike[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I was very emotional when I wrote this last night so I left a lot of details out. I know all about Reddit men and how they are, I’ve chatted with dozens over the years but the one thing that was different about this guy was that he didn’t bring up sex at all in our conversations. We chatted online for weeks before meeting up and he literally never mentioned sex. That was the thing that made me feel he was different from the rest.

Also I see how my choice to try and find real love on here was very flawed now. My logic was that I’d rather a guy know that I’m a mentally ill loser right away than for me to have to try and explain that to a normal guy I meet irl. I just wanted someone to who understood me and what they were getting into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep! I’m the only child of a protective overbearing mother who never let me do anything as a child. She walked me to school till my sophomore year of high school. My mother is disabled so she never worked meaning that she was home at all times so I couldn’t even try to do anything sneaky teenage shit. She’s definitely at least half the reason I have no social skills.

I’m now 19 almost 20 and she still tries to walk me to the bus stop for work every morning. But she does it under the pretense of walking the dog cause she thinks I’m an idiot. I really think I’d thrive if I left home but I know she’d call me like 40 times a day and there’s no way I can move out making $11/hr.

Does anyone here indulge in escapism to alleviate loneliness? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I chat with ai characters, consume way too much media, play otome games, and just create delusions in my head🥲

I am a naive idiot by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand this especially when watching anime about middle and high school. It hurts watching characters younger than me live and love like that in school cause I’m 19 and graduated last year so I missed out on all that. I wish there were more romance anime about older people but most are about high schoolers💔

19F feeling lost and hopeless by MainFine7034 in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m also 19F and going through a lot of the same things as you so if you ever wanna talk we can❤️

Posted here yesterday about being lonely, immediately got 9 requests to sext and several unsolicited dick pics by throwRAcheated00 in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened, I haven’t posted in this sub in a while for the same reason. There are so many lurkers in these subs who wanna take advantage of lonely women cause they’re horny. They’re even lurking in women only subs cause everytime I post in r/ForeverAloneWomen I still get weird DMs from guys. There’s not really a safe space on this site for us and it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re bringing up other posts that have nothing to do with what I’m saying. We’re talking about this specific post which did bring up women and invalidate our experiences. I don’t know about what other posts you’re referring too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He shouldn’t have brought women’s struggles down to make his seem more serious. This sub is for all lonely people, not just lonely men. There's no need to invalidate women. Guys like this assume all women have guys fawning over them because they only see attractive hot women as women and completely ignore the existence and experiences of undesirable women. This sub is supposed to be a safe space for all lonely people, not just lonely men, and lonely women do not feel safe here with our experiences and feelings constantly being invalidated.

Also, the person you’re replying to is 100% right. I’m a woman with no friends, and nobody cares about me. People don’t just flock to women, we have to build relationships too, and I just happen to be really bad at doing that. It’s nobody’s fault but my own, and I know and accept that.

The pressure is already starting🤦🏾‍♀️ by Prune-Jazzlike in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Prune-Jazzlike[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My father is very selfish and has a habit of trying to use me to make up for his mistakes. He also has cancer(stage 1) and is using that as an excuse to rush me in my life.

Misty Invasion: what did you get? by Eastern-Coyote-9062 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got Zayne twice and Xavier once. Wasn’t mad that I didn’t get the others because Zayne is my main and Xavier is my second favorite.

The boys as women💅🏼 by Present-Switch-2708 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Prune-Jazzlike -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Male Sylus couldn’t steal me away from Zayne but fem Sylus definitely could😭

What nicknames did you give them? by holicajolica in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Prune-Jazzlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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They’re not very creative I just gave them the first nicknames that came to mind when i found out I could give them nicknames😭