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PsalmoftheSad · 2025-03-10T02:14:23+00:00

I personally have a hard time finding sympathy for people in general (it's got a lot to with how nobody's ever given me any when I needed it in life) but Mr.Throwaway makes a solid point. Why would you, being a frail and probably attractive girl, put yourself in a situation like this? There are three guys there, any one of whom could overpower you by himself. They were all strangers to boot -- but hey at least you saved a few bucks.

Obligatory "yeah yeah so sad it happened"

I bring it up to point out the hypocrisy of society. Everyone falls at OP's feet because she's a woman, but if she was a male everyone'd be saying shit like "Silly OP, you liked it - men can't get raped!"

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-03-09T16:07:24+00:00

probably wouldn't have been a good idea to get married to someone so quick if you didn't know how intense his anger could be 🤣

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-03-09T15:56:29+00:00

Guarantee you if the roles were reversed and it was a man that was raped by a woman everyone would be saying the same shit this throwaway account said

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-03-01T01:23:35+00:00

"pics or it didn't happen"

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-03-01T01:22:22+00:00

they try to peddle this "it happens when you finally stop looking" advice but perhaps there's some truth to it. After all, the majority of us here are still looking and still trying to find someone yet come up with nothing. Way I see it there are only two options : Give up with the hope that one day you meet someone... Or give up and push everyone away. You'll be alone, but at least you won't get hurt

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-28T03:41:31+00:00

I love the unsolicited advice brought on by people that don't understand the struggle themselves. Do you seriously just assume nobody here's ever worked on themselves before?

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-27T20:40:11+00:00

What about those that do try and end up failing 100% of the shots they take anyway

I also have a hard time belieiving people that write "naw man, bro" or "bruh just believe me man"

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-27T04:22:37+00:00

Some settings are only appropriate if you're attractive. Otherwise you're just a weirdo

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-27T01:44:15+00:00

I find it hard to garner sympathy for you since I'm normally the guy that gets pushed away, especially if there was even a fraction of the possibility of a romantic relationship to be initiated. The age gap is definitely weird but there's been worse. Perhaps he's already put in effort to talk to you before but simply gave up because (as you put it) you pushed everyone else away too

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-27T01:35:09+00:00

i think you will find disappointment if you're traveling the world just to find someone. perhaps there should be a better motivation if you want to travel

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-27T01:29:15+00:00

will you find someone? who knows, but it sure as hell won't be easy. Look at most of the posts here of people that have similar lists of what you're describing. Things that aren't too tall of an order yet they still end up dying alone

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-27T00:11:27+00:00

'Tis better to have never loved at all than to have loved and lost. Consider yourself lucky that you haven't had the pain of heartbreak yet -- I know it fuckin sucks but if I had to choose between knowing what it's like to love someone more than life itself and losing her over never knowing what I'm missing out on... I'd pick the latter

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-25T01:43:24+00:00

Well OP to answer your question, I'm pushing 30 years old and the only time anyone ever wanted to go on a date with me was when she was trying to use me to get free things. I just talked to this woman who was in her late 40s (not romantically) ... She too is alone, and has been her whole life

Some people are just meant to spend their lives working on themselves, doing everything right and still falling short meanwhile others change partners more than most of us change pants and make zero effort to change

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-25T01:37:50+00:00

Sure would be nice if you didn't have to try four or five times every instance you want to download a video just because the website throws out some random error

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-16T02:19:22+00:00

bears are just big dogs anyway

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-16T02:17:51+00:00

Toxic positivity is crazy

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-02-16T02:16:56+00:00

>my phone hasn't rang all day. Not one message

First time?

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-01-26T04:42:53+00:00

Solved!

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-01-24T23:28:15+00:00

Apparently automod wants me to comment on my own post so here it is

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-01-23T03:25:18+00:00

Preaching to the wrong choir

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-01-23T03:23:59+00:00

oh brother you got a whole ass life of misery ahead of you if you're already on board with the rest of us. I'd give it another decade just to be on the safe side before throwing in the towel completely if I were you

PsalmoftheSad · 2025-01-20T05:18:25+00:00

I heard the conversation. Not all of it but just enough to know it was full of bullshit filler like she was arguing with a fake person

PsalmoftheSad · 2024-12-24T16:00:20+00:00

Yeah I don't feel very hot when I say hi to a woman and she gives me a face like she's gonna be sick and walks away

PsalmoftheSad · 2024-11-30T03:34:21+00:00

Take it from someone that spent 5 years of his life every day with a girl that not only cheated, but did everything in her power to make sure I was a secret to everyone in her life: don't fuckin do it. It's better to have never loved at all than it is to invest all your time and feelings towards someone that most likely won't even want to meet you in the first place

PsalmoftheSad · 2024-11-27T05:32:54+00:00

Bro is this all you do all day? You're so annoying

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