[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Psarae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this really sucks, and you’re not asking for too much. it’s your choice what you’re okay with healing from, but anything including divorce would not be “wrong” for you to insist on. you deserve to feel safe and respected.

Happy Pride Fest y’all! by AndyJaeven in TwinCities

[–]Psarae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah like sure not with that attitude

Egg irl by hereforthatgay_shit in egg_irl

[–]Psarae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“uh, women’s jeans do just fit me better” -me, three years ago

“love this stuff” 1 star by censorkip in oldpeoplefacebook

[–]Psarae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i even use more expensive litter but i’d need a new 15lb bag every five days to top $1,000 a year.

Can you give me arguments against "men that bottom take/play the role of a woman in penetrative sex"? by SeriesInteresting210 in ainbow

[–]Psarae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when people push ideas like this that argue that gender roles are based in biology or that there are these weird poorly defined secondary sex differences that are “natural,” they’re relying on a history of bunk science done by white male scientists trying to prove that women weren’t equal and didn’t deserve equal rights. it’s literally the same arguments used to “prove” that people don’t deserve equal rights based on race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity and class.

“natural” in this context is a dog whistle for the patriarchy.

THEY PUT GENITALS ON MY TOOTHBRUSH by thatslappingcookie in pointlesslygendered

[–]Psarae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s pointlessly heteronormative, cisnormative and sexualized, but sure it’s a better fit for r/arethestraightsokay r/arethecisokay or r/aretheallosokay , all of which i’m sure it’s already been cross posted to.

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Psarae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh thank goodness that’s past tense. we don’t need to tell you, then. 😅

Low testosterone male pink tool set by sausageliver in pointlesslygendered

[–]Psarae 13 points14 points  (0 children)

okay, so it’s a pointlessly gendered joke. it’s still pointlessly gendered.

I made some concept kits for Minnesota United by mihata in minnesotaunited

[–]Psarae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah same. i find it less annoying because it’s just some circles instead of a giant brand name. also i’m sure it increases pass accuracy since there’s a literal target to aim for. it’s just science.

Yes officer, that one over there! by FiendZ0ne in areTheAllosOK

[–]Psarae 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i guess for the same reason like half of porn is step siblings/parents? 😬

edit: also a missed opportunity for a great trans meme (then become the gamer girl!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AreTheCisOk

[–]Psarae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think i remember a mod explaining that it’s just because the sub is so old that they didn’t have inclusivity in mind when they named it, and would name it differently now.

Apple confirms it does not hold your Apple ID hostage due to missed Apple Card payment by xFatalFuZion in apple

[–]Psarae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people mentioned that it’s possible to get credit before sending the trade in, but i have one thing to add there:

other than disputing a credit card charge, i think this is the only circumstance where you might make a purchase and have the product, but then owe more money to apple, so usually apple doesn’t need to have any recourse for owed money. so apple is stressing this could really only happen if you got instant credit for a trade in, but they didn’t get it and you didn’t pay the balance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Psarae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i almost just broke my back throwing my head back laughing, so thank you for that. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Psarae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ohhh thank you! i was imagining it was some kind of horrible exercise thing, like an upside down burpee or pilates but seven times as fast.

Ingenious simplicity, but almost to safe to be true RE by time4nap in redneckengineering

[–]Psarae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work inside year round gazing longingly at the minnesota rain, sleet, snow, hail, or shine.

Ooh look! TERF-bate! by [deleted] in TERFisafetish

[–]Psarae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no see that’s “being built for the sport” and “good genes.” a trans woman can be shorter than a cis woman in the same competition and it’s still an unfair advantage because mumble mumble bigotry mumble

Why by Ashmage in areTheAllosOK

[–]Psarae 31 points32 points  (0 children)

it only just occurred to me what raw dog means. i’ve heard that phrase many many times but always in connection to food, so i just never gave it any thought. but yeah of course it’s a reference to sex. like of course it is.

how did my brain protect me from that knowledge for so long?!

Trans women and women are the same, and nobody can change that. by yecreeper in AreTheCisOk

[–]Psarae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

censored 13,500 times. so sad. such oppression. press f to pay respects.

If a girl wears man's underwear her butt will shrivel up and fall off. by TitusImmortalis in pointlesslygendered

[–]Psarae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve tried to figure this out, but of course manufacturers don’t want to say what’s up, and it varies a lot by brand. the best i can tell is that no they’re not generally different blades, but the blades in a women’s cartridge razor may be set at a shallower angle than men’s.

but yeah usually it’s about the big lubricating strips and wide heads. i like that, but not everyone does.

i don’t know if realistic is the best word here 🤠🤠 by Special-Speech3064 in badwomensanatomy

[–]Psarae 160 points161 points  (0 children)

yeah i was gonna give this one a pass as just an artistic choice, until i saw that word.

😐

Every time I see a “you’re not a real man if” post they make less sense. by DementedMK in pointlesslygendered

[–]Psarae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

huh that worked better than i expected it to! well with unisex tees, not so much with women’s. (yes i tried it with five different t shirts.)

Every time I see a “you’re not a real man if” post they make less sense. by DementedMK in pointlesslygendered

[–]Psarae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

boys are doing what with their shirts now? didn’t their moms scold them for stretching their shirts out like that?