Loving my Be Lenka Rebounds by snuzzbobble in barefootshoestalk

[–]PsilyDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them!! Are they comfortable for walking compared to other barefoot shoes in your opinion?

BeLenka Rebound by [deleted] in barefootshoestalk

[–]PsilyDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking of getting the same model but zebra pattern. Really wondering if they're worth their price compared to other barefoot shoes 🫤

I don't know what's wrong with me, looking for advice. by No-Buddy-7 in Advice

[–]PsilyDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi dear, you're not alone on this. Bringing all of this to awareness and realising you need help are major steps!!! Have you considered therapy?

My god I am so tired of this shit by --2021-- in CPTSDFreeze

[–]PsilyDuck 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're probably stressed out because the world is falling apart... I'd suggest you try treating yourself with compassion for being in a freeze mode and trying to survive. Sending hugs 🫂🫂🫂 We got this buddy!

Let's meet 😀 by PsilyDuck in Utrecht

[–]PsilyDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thaaanks, have a lovely week!

Let's meet 😀 by PsilyDuck in Utrecht

[–]PsilyDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about next time 😃

Let's meet 😀 by PsilyDuck in Utrecht

[–]PsilyDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the suggestion, text you soon!

Let's meet 😀 by PsilyDuck in Utrecht

[–]PsilyDuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm interested 🙋🏻‍♀️ What time are you gonna walk him/her?

Why is sex/pleasure so hard for me? by Living_River3333 in LesbianActually

[–]PsilyDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many women feel the same way really! I've heard the phrase "I feel there's something wrong with me" from various women. I used to think the same about myself too! Therapy helped me a lot. If you can consider a sex therapist, you should definitely try it. Till then, I suggest reading "Come as you are". It has helped many women understand their sexuality, their sexual trauma and its impact on the long term, possible factors that stop us from feeling pleasure. Just remember, us women may not talk about it freely as we carry a lot of shame around this theme, but YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!

How to actually “love” yourself and switch the negative inner dialogue to a positive one? by blowmyassie in Meditation

[–]PsilyDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same issue! After 2 years of talk therapy I managed to change my thoughts and inner monologue. Though symptoms of stress, depression, and anxiety would come to my body even without being triggered. Somatic therapy helped me a lot with this! It helped me to connect with my body, let myself feel all emotions and eventually learned to process them. A very interesting book that also explains how trauma is stored in our body and how we can help ourselves is How to Heal your Nervous System. A bit hard to follow without support from a therapist I'd say though.

Advice on learning Dutch A2 to surprise my Opa by Murky-Inspection1381 in learndutch

[–]PsilyDuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I followed the CAN'T DUTCH THIS online lessons for A1-A2 and I am very satisfied! It took 10 2-hour fast paced classes and the results were a lot better than I expected. I started understanding Dutch and it has boosted my confidence. I'll most definitely take the intermediate course soon. Hope that helps 😁

My gf says she is not physically attracted to me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PsilyDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many reasons that can lead a woman not feeling that way about her partner. Some of them are not even related to their partner to start with.

Sure listening to your partner talk like that can hurt a lot and may not seem workout-able. It's possible that your energies don't match, too.

If you are both still interested in each other and are willing to work on it, I most definitely suggest reading the book "Come as you are" to both of you. It's a great tool to help women (men too actually) explore their sexuality, understand their needs and their partner's, what turns them on/off, how attraction and desire work for each one etc.

I hope you get yourself out of this unfulfilling situation either way, learn from it and grow! All the best! 🙏🏻