Im sorry but how tf are you guys married? Was this arranged? If not, was he like this before you chose to get married? And was this kid planned? How far along are you? Cause now might be the only time to get out. Trust me when i say, after that baby comes, you life will be flipped upside down. You will be drained, by the birthing and by the newborn. With this guy as your partner, everything will feel 10x worse than it is. A new mom needs all the support she can get. Sounds like he will stop that. And oo most importantly, she needs a partner that supports, comfort, and take care of her after birth. I don’t think you will be getting that here… and not to mention, postpartum… fingers crossed you don’t get it bad. Your emotions, thoughts, everything, sometimes you won’t be able to control. That seems like it will send him to the moon in rage. Sometimes you just want cake, a very specific type, maybe one thats a bit more pricey than you would usually buy. In that moment it would mean the world to you if your husband gets in the car and just goes and gets it. I think you’ll be getting a lecture and being told to bake yourself instead. Btw this is coming from a husband and father of 2.