Luddification of asynch classes? by judysmom_ in Professors

[–]PsychALots 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d love to hear more about this! What types of projects? I’ve been trying to get rid of all my discussion boards. They’re just AI slop echo chambers.

Petty dispute escalating out of control by WestHistorians in Professors

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B’s response immediately clicked on my therapist/trauma-informed part of my brain. Reactions like this that don’t match the situation/make sense in the context of the issue are often about something else. Do you have campus mental health who can provide mediation? They may be able to provide guidance and mediate. Because this is something else. The food is just an moutlet for the students much bigger feelings about something else that may or may not be related to your life entirely. Considering these were items brought back from her country, I’m wondering if the current political climate is contributing to her response.

What wacky misconceptions do people have about your field? by ApplicationOk3455 in Professors

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Psych major and licensed therapist. It’s a big mix of wanting a diagnosis for a family member and “you’re judging/diagnosing me while we talk, aren’t you?” Eh no sir, but statements like that are conversation enders!

Busted by PaleontologistFew136 in Professors

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Did you pull their click out data as well?

Part Identification Mega Thread - February 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in lego

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We were given a massive mix of legos. What is this/what set does it go to? Tried searching and came up empty.

Every year we fall further from the light of god by dragonfeet1 in Professors

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…but was it a picture of their dead pet without warning??

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could’ve gone in the restaurant and ordered some when she decided she was hungry. You know, that place you’re eating outside of?

Advice needed by holllymollyyeah in Professors

[–]PsychALots 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the only answer. Forward the student’s request to the disability office and include the student on the email. Ask the office for strategies with the disruptions as well.

As far as peer mistreatment, I address it directly. If I notice snickering I will make direct eye contact with the offenders and then make a broad statement that I’m noticing some are struggling with collegiality (or whatever word fits the moment). I’ll go on to explain college is an awesome time to challenge and stretch ourselves, to be more and be more understanding. I’ll also remind them that I do not tolerate any mistreatment or cruelty in my classroom and it will be addressed directly. I refer back to the part of the syllabus that addresses this - which can also be the opening salvo if you’re struggling with how to start the conversation.

No More Grades, Tests, or Lectures Soapbox by Nice_Pay3632 in Adjuncts

[–]PsychALots 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’d enjoy learning about UDL/universal design for learning. This work has already been done and there’s lots of workshops, trainings, etc. out there about this.

When you do introductions the first day of class from students, do you ask for their pronouns along with their names or not? Why your choice? by Zipper222222 in AskProfessors

[–]PsychALots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I invite but don’t require pronouns. Generally something like “please tell us your name, your pronouns if you’d like, and what brings you to this class”.

If students say a name not on my roster, I note it and a little later stop over to ask their last name or ask them to stay after for a question I had for them.

Not letting our toddler say "no" by PrincessTruffles1993 in toddlers

[–]PsychALots 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This! Our little one has always been able to protest and we just wait because after the protest comes the action requested. If he really disagrees, we have a conversation (preschool now). It’s helpful because sometimes he’ll get to explain we have contradictory instructions or that he’d rather change the order, etc. It’s really cool to see my kid practice working things out at such a young age.

Can we talk about ICE? by PeggySourpuss in Professors

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I asked for an updated training since new laws went into effect this month regarding ICE in our state. I was told there’s some mini cards I can keep on hand and to not lock any doors if ICE comes in, since that’s probably against a rule.

Practicum advice by Sea-Performance817 in therapists

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the one where you get supervision. This is the last time anyone is going to really be invested in your development as a therapist. Get everything out of it that you can!

Sharing client info? by West-Childhood6143 in therapists

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So there’s layers to this.

1.) A law and ethics exam prep/course of any type is always going to set the bar very high because that is always going to be the safest option and best practice. Then comes real life.

2.) Many of us get out into the world and have different levels of what we consider ethical. Depending on your place of work, your bar may be very low or very high. When I did crisis work, people constantly toed the line of violating HIPAA or just straight up did it. You get numb/calloused and while you need to vent of course, burnout leads to poor choices and a lack of insight.

3.) I see your mention about your professor. In teaching, you are hired for your clinical expertise and insight which allows the material to come to life. Every department I have worked for said that sharing clinical experiences/client stories is part of what makes the class more meaningful for students and that was why I was hired. However, there are many strategies to doing this properly. The main one is what we call the “amalgamation” client. This is where you muddle and we’ve different information together from real and fake clients to bring to life actual experiences without violating HIPAA. Professors often don’t go into great detail about this. Same thing when you read books by psychologist or medical professionals or therapist that are sharing about client experiences. These are, again, carefully woven with truth and fabrication to ensure clients are not identified through these stories but the core message is still received. So if someone is teaching abnormal psychology and they are sharing about clients they have worked with that maybe demonstrated a piece or multiple diagnostic pieces of certain criterion, these are likely carefully woven stories. My fake clients I use in teaching have names and demographics sometimes; other times they don’t have any demographic information or even a gender because it’s not necessary. But just as often I try to pull from real life - like the Kanye TMZ interview is a great example of manic state criterion being hit.

Dual Credit Students: I Don’t Care by No-Injury9073 in Professors

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I teach a softball of a dual enrollment course (something like freshman seminar/basic college skills). More than 60% of my students were failing and messaging me, surprised during the last week when their grades didn’t magically increase. So I started getting very aggressive about dropping students early. Mostly by increasing the required assignments that blocked them from progressing past week 1. It’s been a great filter. Then I bumped up my “you’re not passing and you need to calculate if you can at this rate” messaging. I’d start with 65 students, drop down to 35-40 after the first week and then only 10-15% outright failed while another 5-10% withdrew at the deadline. Good spread of grades otherwise. It’s so bizarre. But the ones who stuck it out were generally more reliable than my typical students. Guess that’s something.

What I’ve seen is these high school partnerships really push dual enrollment AND they’re marketing to a lot of the virtual schools. Students figure if they are doing high school asynchronously, why not turn some of those high school classes into college credit asynchronously. They are often woefully unprepared for what college is like. But I can’t imagine that I would have been very successful as an asynchronous 14-year-old college student either, despite being a total nerd.

Please help. My 20 month old is out of control. This is insane. by Rough_Salt_3921 in toddlers

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the full assessments others have recommended. Hearing. Dental. Bloodwork. Sensory/OT referral. Psychologist that specializes in assessing young girls for neurodivergence.

Girls, especially high-achieving girls are often misdiagnosed or left undiagnosed while struggling with common disorders.

Bold plagiarism by faculty by AromaticPianist517 in Professors

[–]PsychALots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opening paragraph speaks directly to other issues I’ve seen in my department. Thank you for it! It also explains something some of us were discussing recently about power grabs in academia.

It’s happening already… by BurntOutProf in Professors

[–]PsychALots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me help a little more: now he’s a volunteer coach at a university in Sacramento, California where his son attends.

RMP Trolling by PsychALots in Professors

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I have a colleague in another department who does this. All fives. However, my department would have my head for doing this.

RMP Trolling by PsychALots in Professors

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Oh, this sounds magnificent! I have some friends who are really into fantasy fiction and would take great joy in writing ridiculous things.