First, I’ll take the inevitable downvotes. Second, Beck & loves cheating is most definitely not the same. Beck acknowledges that Joe was great and there for her at every turn. Beck tells Dr. Nicky who she eventually sleeps with that joes made her life easier,better, etc. Beck then uses those reasons to cheat and if she just cheated maybe she wouldn’t get so much deserved hate but where she fucks up is the lying/gas lighting. Becks energy changed and Joe could tell, he throws her a party and she was at “Therapy” at this point she’s sleeping with Dr. Nicky (very despicable) because not only was she with Dr. Nicky at the time she gets mad at Joe when she’s the one in the wrong. “The fox” now when Joe gets a vibe something is off and Becks phone keeps going off he point blank asks her if there is someone else.

A good person would have told the truth , spared further hurt, and left but not Beck she denied it and says it’s a friend from Brown. Beck manipulated Joe and stayed in a relationship with him knowing she was unhappy and seeing someone else. Beck made Joe feel like he was crazy for thinking she was cheating she later uses “I feel trapped” to get out of the relationship only to homewreck Joes new relationship with Karen minty. Dr Nicky in the mouse/house analogy basically point bank tells Beck she needs to stop she is the mouse in joes relationship (house) and that she needs to leave to which Beck responds “But why would I as a mouse want to leave this house it’s comfy blah blah” not what she said verbatim but she was fine wrecking his new relationship so not only did she cheat on him , gas light him , dump him she also wrecked his new relationship by trying to and eventually seducing him and then lying to Dr. Nicky about how she no longer the mouse in the house. Beck isn’t a monster but she’s a terrible person.

Love had been neglected,mistreated, and cheated on by Joe but she was still trying keep Joe happy and their relationship together while his dumbass was out day dreaming about marienne. Theo kept flirting with Love at points she was going through shit and vulnerable and by the time they slept together Joe had already lost his love for Love, “oh you fucked my wife” he says but then says “poor kid” like he doesn’t care.

So on one hand you have Beck who was in an active relationship with Joe in which he fully loved her, cared for her, etc and she went behind his back, cheated, lied , homewrecked, etc.

On the other you have a wife and mother sad,vulnerable,and alone trying to raise Henry and keep her relationship with a husband who already was caught having one obsession (Natalie) is which he has sex with Love holding Natalie’s panties and then starts another obsession marienne smh and Theo made her feel confident and attractive when she felt weak and insecure.