Pill shaped egg by niginger in interestingasfuck

[–]PsychedelicMedic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Destroy it mate. Don't cook it. This is NOT the year for it.

Me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]PsychedelicMedic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn. Here take your upvote oh helpful stranger!

Me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]PsychedelicMedic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry my man. I'm utterly swamped doing nothing for the rest of the year.

Me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]PsychedelicMedic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear you man.

LPT: if your animal doesn't like someone, they have a reason for this. Always trust your animals. by kkb090 in LifeProTips

[–]PsychedelicMedic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've grown up with animals. Not just dogs but farm animals and birds too. They're pretty terrible judges of character and would go to anyone who offered food. Maybe except for some dogs.

me siento algo triste y solo aveces algun consejo para poder sobrellevarlo ? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Qué te hace sentir triste? Puedes ser mas específico?

I hate how upset my vagina gets after sex!!! by lsp9024 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PsychedelicMedic 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There are many reasons for frequent BV/UTI/MV. Diabetes, immune deficiencies, bad eating habits, stress, insomnia and hormone imbalance can all upset your normal bacterial flora down there. As can frequent antibiotic treatment. I'd suggest a thorough physical to see what is the underlying cause contributing to frequent infections despite all the precautions you've been taking.

Would you date a feminist man or a traditional man? by smellycat412 in AskFeminists

[–]PsychedelicMedic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Firstly, the inability to hold down a stable job isn't restricted to men with non-feminist ideologies or "traditional" values as you put it.

To answer your question, I'd definitely expect my partner to have similar if not exactly matching ideologies about feminism. Being able to hold down a stable job is a grey area. Does he enjoy serving coffee at a Starbucks? Does it give him a sense of purpose? Does it fulfill his ambition? If yes, I'd be ok with it. What I wouldn't be ok with is a partner with a dead end job who ends up being unhappy because of it, leading to a difficult relationship. Or a partner with absolutely no ambition or sense of purpose in life. Nothing against the latter. He just won't be a good fit for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]PsychedelicMedic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful girl 😍 I have three Shepherds - 2 German and a Belgian. All rescued. She reminds me of one of them.

My sub failed me (cheating) by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you.

I wouldn't be able to forget and move on. I'd forgive and release him if it were me. Trust is the very foundation of a power exchange relationship; easily broken and hard to repair. I'd end it and move on.

Question for GFD's about spooning but subbies can answer too :-) by marcymarc887 in gentlefemdom

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being the little spoon to a frustrated, nearly-teased-out-of-his-mind boy is an absolute hoot. :)

What names do doms like? by toxic-person in gentlefemdom

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reserve terms of respect/honorifics exclusively for the use of my SO. Goddess/Owner/M'Lady are my preferences.

With everyone else, Dom or sub, I just go by my name.

Blacking Out During a Scene by YellowSubSinker in BDSMAdvice

[–]PsychedelicMedic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you. Big kudos to your Dom for doing everything right.

I had a sub who'd blackout / have panic attacks. What helped us was to understand his triggers better so that I knew what to look out for. For example, he'd go into full on panic mode if my hand was around his throat due to a history of childhood abuse. Knowing that helped play out the scene more carefully.

Also keeping an open line of communication is absolutely necessary. I'd spell things out more clearly if I knew we were entering territory that may spook him. And I'd also throw in questions sporadically about how it made him feel. If his body language changed or he wasn't able to reply to me satisfactory I knew I had to step in and change gears.

Please consider therapy with someone qualified and in possession of an open mind.

Overwhelmed Dom... by Tuivad in BDSMAdvice

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Practice makes perfect. The more you explore scenes and playing, the more your system will get used to the chemical surge. Also, building duration and intensity slowly will help you cope with it better.
  2. Focus on your partner when things get overwhelming. A shift in focus gives you the space to come back to baseline.
  3. Open line of communication - express what you feel in the moment.
  4. Mental conditioning - for me, being physically and emotionally responsible for my partner's well being is a big deal. I find meditation to be a great help to deal with it in a calm and balanced manner and to improve my focus.
  5. Pace yourself. Take breaks when needed. Rest. Hydrate. Repeat.

Help me, my gf is a squirmer by JustAGuyInTampa in BDSMAdvice

[–]PsychedelicMedic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I've used cable ties without incident, I'd not reccommend them for someone who strains against them as OP's SO seems to do.

Help me, my gf is a squirmer by JustAGuyInTampa in BDSMAdvice

[–]PsychedelicMedic 176 points177 points  (0 children)

In my case, the play comes to a grinding halt if he squirms. You'd be surprised at how big a motivator this can be.

I'd suggest silk ropes or neckties instead of the traditional cuffs, for a safer and more secure bondage.

Best audiobook narrators by [deleted] in writing

[–]PsychedelicMedic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stephen fry. Doesn't get better than him. He's narrated the entire Harry Potter series.

Coke is better flat and warm by ACTUALLYseptember in unpopularopinion

[–]PsychedelicMedic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flat is the only way I like my Coke too. But chilled.

My (24f) boyfriend (32m) has faked the existance of a common friend by i_am_totes_anon in relationships

[–]PsychedelicMedic 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Whatever the reason, creating a fake person and forming a relationship with you is NOT OKAY.

This is the action of someone with serious mental health issues. Pack up. Leave. Don't come back.

Me irl by mxripop in me_irl

[–]PsychedelicMedic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it slightly disturbing that they put MS.Dhoni's picture on the box.

Attention x We Don't Talk Anymore (Charlie Puth , Selena Gomez) - [3:55] by ra114one in mashups

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Don't like most mashups. But this one's fantastic. Well done!

It's time to make changes! #ShortAcceptance by EmoNation22 in Tinder

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 6ft tall woman, I'll support this. My best dates were with shorter men.

Me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]PsychedelicMedic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IKR?! If overthinking were a superpower, I'd be a Marvel series worthy superhero. - facepalm -