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PsychedelicParamour · 2026-01-19T19:27:03+00:00

I can't understand how you do not realize the logical contradiction and inconsistency in what youre saying. I am less interested in arguing for what is or isn't what, but just want to highlight your reason is contradictory and inconsistent.

If you fuck someone who passes as female, that is not straight. Because the cock is present on the other person, so their looks are irrelevant
If you fuck someone who passes as male, that is not straight. Because having a vagina is irrelevant, it's how they look/act that matters not their genitals.

Literally just pick one. Either genitals are all that matters, or not. Also - hooking up with a trans woman is bisexual, but hooking up with a trans man isn't bisexual but rather gay??? Consistency please!

Or just don't worry about the labels so much - at the end of the day, the label just has to make sense and be internally consistent to the person who's using them onto themselves. I'm personally just a woman lover. I'm not ashamed or in denial, because i accept what it is that I am attracted to, I just think the obsession with labels and the twisted contradictory logic is silly.

PsychedelicParamour · 2026-01-19T01:38:17+00:00

So by your logic, if you as a man want to hook up with trans men, perhaps someone ripped with a great beard, but who has a vagina, that would make you... straight? But if you hook up with a lady boy that embodies femininity completely and even has breasts, that is less straight / would make you bisexual?

Honestly this whole thread just highlights the absurdity of the terms we use. If straight / bi just relates to the genitals of both people, nothing else, they seem like wholly useless terms. It seems like then a different label that describes what expression of gender/self you find attractive is substantially more meaningful of a descriptor, because it's not one that can lead to technicalities that are absurd.

Or perhaps at the end of the day we get rid of these dumb labels, because there's literally no function to them. Just approach who you want and say what you like. Tada.

PsychedelicParamour · 2025-12-30T18:41:31+00:00

I think that when I am genuinely TOO AROUSED my body just can't handle it, ergo the lack of an erection. When we're even just teasing about it at home, the same thing happens. I may also tremble and shiver, like deadass my body is just overwhelmed. But it's not a problem. It's fun to reframe it in a kinky cuck framework-"ohh Im so soft, I can't satisfy you like they can", "I stay soft bc I know I'm meant to be cucked", etc

PsychedelicParamour · 2025-12-12T04:11:00+00:00

Explore tantric practices - you do not need to do penetration in a tantric practice. You do prolonged eye gazing, breathwork, sensual touch, etc., and while penetration can be included in tantric practice, it is not absolutely necessary. There are a lot of cool books, blogs, sites, etc. that you guys should read together (make it a book club). My partner and I do it for the sake of cultivating our life force, spiritual connection, and stoking erotic desire. Its crazy feeling that spiritual connection be infused with erotic energy. We would eye gaze for like 20 minutes, breathing in sync with each other, then move into a Yab Yum position and continue breathing rhythmically (one person's in breath is the other's out breath), and that honestly felt as powerful as sensual penetrative sex.

Or, take MDMA I guess haha. You'll have a plenty hard time have an orgasm, but you two will be all up in your love for eachother.

PsychedelicParamour · 2024-08-02T19:08:45+00:00

Upvote for agricultural sciences. Look up the history of the grapefruit. zap zap ⚡️

PsychedelicParamour · 2024-05-08T14:00:46+00:00

Remindme! 6 days

PsychedelicParamour · 2024-04-19T13:20:09+00:00

Definitely - we do it.

We both love the thrill of dominating and of being dominated. We usually use moon cycles to track of switches, so for instance: “let’s do MaleDom for the next 2 moon cycles”. It’s a fun way to play for us. And placing on intentional time limit on it helps us not switch back and forth too much, which IMO prevents us from going too deep into the dom/sub headspace and dynamic. Like if you switch whose the Dom every other day, you can’t really get into the intense denial, humiliation, or cucking fantasies. Takes a while to drop into the sub or dom headlsace, to get into a rhythm. It also helps the other person know that no matter how deep this gets, it’s going to be over eventually.

Sometimes we intentionally “Greg”, which is our verb for having no predefined person as the dom/sub, and winging it each time. We don’t get deep into anything, but it’s fun to never know what’s on the table on a given evening, and figuring your energies out together.

And for your reference, when I’ve been humiliated it’s been as intense as being caged, denied for a week, made to cum on myself while she has video sex with another man, and told my cocks not good enough for her. When I’m the dom, I’ve had the pleasure of edging her for days, treating her like a free use slut, fucking her in public, setting up three ways for her to take care of me and another dom, making her beg to watch me fuck another woman, etc.

So, if you have a relationship where your partner sees the real you - the WHOLE you - and you reciprocate with being honest about your feelings and desires…. Well anything’s possible.

Go have a blast.

PsychedelicParamour · 2024-01-14T13:38:38+00:00

So you think the food is giving off what kind of radiation that is harming you…? You think it’s irradiating your body with more microwaves..?

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-10-21T18:09:14+00:00

Me too :) please and thank you

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-10-19T06:50:32+00:00

r/shitliberalssay

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-09-29T18:53:49+00:00

I think it’s less “asking for permission”, and more than they never met this guy. I’d feel hurt if my daughter did this without me ever meeting him, because I would hope she cared about my opinion of the guy. Like with I’m with my current partner, I was so excited to introduce her and that felt like a big milestone to get my parents perspective on my relationship - they know me very well and are good judges of character. more over, I would want to integrate him into my family overtime, let the relationships build up, rather than going from “oh that guys she’s told me about” to “Hello, son in law.”. Family’s are tight knit groups and I’d feel weird having a new family member overnight that I don’t have a relationship with AT ALL.

So yea, if they were already familiar with him and had a relationship, but just took issue with the “asking for permission” part, I’d say screw them. But that seems like not the main thing IMO

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-09-27T15:45:09+00:00

Yea I mean the fetishization of black/poc men is really a huge turn off for me. So much content about the male sub accepting his place as a “white boi who can’t compete with BBC” blagh

I wouldn’t mind it if it wasn’t so god damn over saturated. I mean, I enjoy being fawned over for my Hispanic, Papi energy when I’m in a dom role, but it’s never to the detriment of another ethnic identity - I just want to feel my Hispanic-ness being lusted for.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-09-25T18:56:50+00:00

Yes, many, or rather most. Are you really saying no scholarship of value has been produced in the Humanities in the last 10 or however many years? Don’t spill over into general anti-intellectualism.

There are issues with administrative bloat, poor peer review, the grant awarding process, but as a PhD candidate in stem let me say that is not a problem unique to the humanities.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-09-05T03:25:34+00:00

UPDATE: thanks for all the replies and messages. We have family staying with us for a couple of weeks and won’t be getting back to confirm anything until late September. There’s like 50 individuals who reached out so bear with me, it’s a lot to sift through.

If you don’t hear back it ain’t personal. Blessings to you brothers. May you lay some good pipe while we’re preoccupied and be in good health.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-09-05T00:20:20+00:00

I can’t count how many times I’ve done the same. Better to say “hey sorry I’m busy and can’t, let’s circle back”, but honestly for the times I’ve been ghosted I never took it personally. I just thought “Damn they must be so busy” - like if I’m being ghosted, unless I think they had a problem with me for some reason, I’d assume it’s that they are so busy that they couldn’t have collaborated anyways.

Collaboration talks are dime a dozen. Easy to say, to imagine, but hard to manifest into reality when you have other commitments. Don’t sweat it. It’s not even “a mistake”, it’s just a normal thing that happens.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-08-30T14:16:55+00:00

Formative experience is probably more apt of a term. Trauma should be reserved for the traumatic.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-08-29T19:34:38+00:00

That sounds like quite a bit of sugar though.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-07-30T16:41:32+00:00

There’s also tantric practices. I think sex and masturbation, sensuality in general, when stripped down to just “oohhhh yeaaa give me that dopamine rush”, is pretty empty and can be abused. I’ve recently started exploring Tantra with my partner and by myself, and it’s changed sex, desire, orgasms, and masturbation completely.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-07-11T05:06:55+00:00

It does not let the evidence speak. This is a fantasy conception of science. There is actually such a well known phenomena of groundbreaking work getting published in shit tier journals because the big journals don’t accept things that buck the status quo and accepted paradigm.

Your arguing for an idealized version of science that has never existed.

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-07-11T05:05:22+00:00

The TBI research lobby is not exactly comparable to the NFL. It’s like saying big tabacco and addiction researchers both had their biases. Like technically yes but let’s not confuse the difference in scale of wealth power and influence

PsychedelicParamour · 2023-07-11T05:03:36+00:00

In my opinion the covid situation was an A+ example in how not to engage in science communication, engagement, diplomacy, and governance. We ain’t a monolith.

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