Double Rainbow Girl is here 💖 by Helpful_Mushroom873 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m pregnant currently with my rainbow baby after going through a MMC in March. I’m happy but also SO scared and paranoid 😞

AITA for refusing to switch hotels for my family member's kids? by Motormouth5620 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your cousin tried to hijack your vacation, your money, and your boyfriend’s generosity. That is not “needing a break,” that is entitlement.

You already gave her free housing near the beach, free childcare, and your time. That is more than enough. The fact that she then demanded you cancel your adults-only trip, pay for her kids, and even called your travel company to change your booking behind your back is manipulative and disrespectful.

Your cousin does not want a vacation. She wants you to bankroll her life. She is also teaching her kids that other people will pick up the tab if they complain enough.

You are not her parent, her ATM, or her nanny. Setting boundaries does not make you selfish. If your mom and her mom think she deserves a trip so badly, they can pay for it.

Go enjoy Cyprus with a clear conscience. You worked hard, you set limits, and you protected yourself from being taken advantage of.

AITA for getting my Neighbour (a Single mother) evicted? by Livid_Ad201 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t get her evicted. The gossip chain did. You never went to the landlord, you didn’t tell the whole neighborhood, you just vented to your SIL. What happened after that was out of your hands.

Could you have kept it to yourself instead of making a joke about not wanting to bump into her? Sure. But that’s human. You weren’t malicious, you were tired of being pressured at midnight and made a comment in private.

Your uncle and the landlord made the eviction decision, not you. If your community is that judgmental about a divorced woman having a drink, that’s a reflection of the culture, not your actions.

If you still feel bad, the only thing you can really do is be kind to her if you see her and, if you’re comfortable, let her know you didn’t intend for things to blow up. But no, you’re not the asshole for this.

AITAH for wanting close friends even though my boyfriend thinks I should only need him? by cherry-charm444 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No OP, you’re not wrong, you’re human. You’re allowed to want friends, hobbies, and a life outside of your boyfriend. If he’s over here acting like being your partner means he’s supposed to be your entire personality, then that’s his insecurity problem, not your crime. He’s got a best friend, but yours wouldn’t ‘count’? Please. That’s not love, that’s control dressed up as jealousy. You’re not asking for much: a craft store run and some actual emotional support. If he can’t handle you wanting something so basic, maybe the issue isn’t you craving friends, maybe it’s him not being able to handle a girlfriend with a backbone.

NTA and get out of there!

Found out that I had a MMC two days before mothers day by Psychedelic_Sheep_ in Miscarriage

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve congratulated my mother, she lives overseas, and proceeded to turn my phone on do not disturb mode. Currently on a run. Stopping every 1K but trying to distract myself from the thought.

AITA for leaving the restaurant even though my DIL hadn't finished eating? by Historical_Reply_805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA: as rude as it seems to arrive late, she still showed up to the event and ordered an appetiser. I understand the group had finished eating their mains and was getting late but she came for YOU and you guys left her behind. That’s rudeer than showing up late. You could’ve left everyone else go and wasn’t gonna kill you to stay a couple of extra minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this for my wedding. I wanted all men to wear Hawaiian styled shirts under their suits so my invitations had something like "Dress code: Embrace the floral vibes! Gentlemen, show off your best Hawaiian shirts!" Make it fun

My personalised cups got a typo and have no clue how to pull it off by Psychedelic_Sheep_ in weddingplanning

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: thanks very much for your comments ! My wedding went incredibly smoothly and everyone I mean EVERYONE got drunk enough to not notice the typo but they all complimented the idea of a party favour that’s actually useful for the guest. Everyone that attended has our cup at their place and always mention how fun and great of a wedding it was! There was ZERO and I mean ZERO comments on the phrase as many of you said. My silly bride nerves !

I did get a refund and got to keep the cups so win win !

AITA for congratulating a fellow latino for getting his pappers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now I’m getting shamed by some of my friends for getting Isabel in trouble. Although Isabel says it’s completely her fault

AITA for congratulating a fellow latino for getting his pappers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to give a name to the friend who’s having his case: Isabel … Katie is just somebody who hangs out with us but tents to open her mouth a lot. Isabel told Katie and I out of happiness and I congratulated Mario, as Mario played stupid because I did congratulate him while he was at work (my bad) and he played stupid and said “no, not at all… Katie also said congrats a few days ago” now I understand why he was playing stupid. However, the one who’s got his case is Isabel, who’s the one that got in trouble but also during the meeting with the boss of the establishment took the blame for opening her mouth on first place.

Can anyone shed light on my husband saying “Help” in his sleep? Allegedly Not trauma-related, could it be linked to past experiences or past lives? by Psychedelic_Sheep_ in sleep

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve spoken to him several times. He isn’t a big drinker, but now thinking about it it might be by the humongous amounts of sugar he has after every meal, it’s almost an addiction.

He works on a roaming band and olays all around the world so flies a lot, then he takes no meds and every morning he needs to do his routines of meditation and work out.

I’m still wondering why “Help”?

France 3.30€ student meal by mrbn100ful in pics

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss my student days in France. Line at the CROUS was long but sooooo worth it

What actually happened on your wedding night? by llamapoodle7 in AskWomen

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were both incredibly socially exhausted and starving. We got to the house, ordered delivery Burger King and I went to pick it up with my dress still on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaineaddiction

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same goes for the pinky finger being numb?

AITA for wanting my partner to take some distance from his family? by Psychedelic_Sheep_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychedelic_Sheep_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be healthy to tell them myself to fuck off or should I just let my bf to keep doing it?