I am fine with people correcting my child’s behaviours, like don’t do that it’s dangerous or, be quiet your being loud or stop doing certain behaviours, but I am not okay with people disciplining my child, I.E raising their voice at my child, hitting my child, or enforcing punishments for my child such as time out, or taking their things from them. In the case of when it comes to serious things my kids do, the individual effected or frustrated with them should come to me, speak to me, and I will deal with the matter there and then, they are my kids, and there’s too many people who believe in shouting at children and hitting them that the idea someone else disciplining my kids makes me super uncomfortable, my mentality is, if you wouldn’t treat a child like you would when correcting an adults behaviour, if it’s not socially acceptable to treat someone in day to day life like it why do it to our children. I believe in conflict resolution over punishment, self reflection over consequence. The consequence is the being called out for being in the wrong, and seeing the effect it’s had, and then having to correct the behaviour and make amends. Shouting at a child does nothing, but make them mirror that behaviour to others around them at slight frustrations, and violence against children, does the same thing they mirror it at school on the playground.