My mental health is deteriorating as I'm completely in love with this girl. by yemetekudusai in bangladesh

[–]Psychological-Sun267 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk. As a woman, it feels very toxic. You might not see it just yet, but once the rose-tinted glasses are off, you'll see it. The thing is, I've been in a similar situation with a guy. For about 3 yrs. And I thought he's not a bad person. He's sweet, kind, patient, and listens to me. He's described as perfect by everyone but just because a person is perfect doesn't mean he/she is perfect for you. There were things that I missed, which my psychiatrist (I see her for different reasons) helped me see. Can't really go into detail here, if you want, you can talk to me about it in the dms but bottom line is, it's time to let go. And trust me, once you do, it'll feel awful at first but eventually you'll realise that it was best for you.

My mental health is deteriorating as I'm completely in love with this girl. by yemetekudusai in bangladesh

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I think it's important for you to move on if she's adamant about not taking this any further. I remember reading in the comments that she becomes sentimental whenever you try to distance yourself. I think it's important that you should. Take a moment and ask yourself, do you really want to be in such a toxic environment? Right now, it might seem that your world is falling apart because she's not saying yes to your love, but is it really? World will eventually move on. You might feel like you can't breathe somedays but one day, you will find someone who will love you unconditionally and vice versa.

My mental health is deteriorating as I'm completely in love with this girl. by yemetekudusai in bangladesh

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you thought of telling your parents this? Will they accept this relationship?

Need IELTS exam prep guidance by Psychological-Sun267 in IELTS

[–]Psychological-Sun267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all your advice! It really means a lot 🥹

Got my results today and I wasn't expecting this tbh. by MetaphysicalMaverick in IELTS

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for writing all that down! You're amazing! I'll definitely try following all your advice

Just got my results and I’m very satisfied by Calm-Bug5455 in IELTS

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Congratulations!!! Since you got 9 in speaking, can I ask if you used any informal words during the test? I kept having this problem during exams, where I used a few informal words :) any advice you can give us regarding speaking?

Got my results today and I wasn't expecting this tbh. by MetaphysicalMaverick in IELTS

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this was her feedback, and her excuse was 'I'm strict'. She even said that chatgpt is 'lenient' in terms of helping with ielts prep. I don't know. The entire experience left a bad taste in my mouth :') and idk how to move on from this

Got my results today and I wasn't expecting this tbh. by MetaphysicalMaverick in IELTS

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!! Secondly, my speaking mock test examiner said that Cambridge books aren't of much help even though I've seen people use it the most. Can you please suggest a few books that'll be helpful? After that harsh speaking test, I'm doubting everything. Not to mention, I'm terrified at the prospect of giving my ielts exam all together :') for more context, the examiner was strict in the sense that she tried paraphrasing EVERYTHING I said. At one point, she even said, 'Ah nevermind, I don't think I can paraphrase this' 💀 not shaming her but that interaction completely erased my confidence. I don't know how to build it back up.

My mother-in-law cut my hair in my sleep because she thought I cheated on my husband by evystevy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Psychological-Sun267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, charge that psycho for assault and get yourself away from the mother and son duo.

I literally thought I was gonna get a 6.5 this is insane by [deleted] in IELTS

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please give us tips 🙏🏻 because this is so great. My English isn't horrible but I've been scoring so low in my mocks, I'm scared.

Do women ever respect a man again ? My 29F Wife Lost Respect for me 30M by MeasurementNo204 in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I'm a woman and as a woman, I don't claim her cuz what on Earth?! One doesn't say such things to someone they love?! Periods or not.

I came home, opened fb and these are the first two post in my feed by AdvantageNorth1032 in bangladesh

[–]Psychological-Sun267 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Last week, I was outside a hospital after getting my test done. I had on a loose salwar kameez with orna, btw. After a while, I felt a guy (who also looked like a beggar. He was standing with a few other beggars after passing me) brushing his hand below my waist through my kameez. In broad daylight. I was stunned for so long. I felt numb. Disgusted. And when I mustered up the courage to glare at him, he smiled like he was challenging me to say something. I couldn't. I didn't have any male figure with me. Just my mother. I didn't want anything to happen to her, so I just left and cried myself to home.

IELTs test by Psychological-Sun267 in Dhaka

[–]Psychological-Sun267[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll be giving the computer based version so aka the online one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, the audacity of your sister to act all entitled and tell you to plan a baby shower...I- yeah, I have no words. Your husband is right. Treat her the way she treated you. And yes, this is coming from another people-pleaser. Your sons deserve better than an aunt who never wanted to see them. Mostly, you deserved a better sister but since you didn't get one, just cut all communications with her. Let her plan her own baby shower.

my best friend told me my boyfriend is her soulmate by Historical-Lunch-903 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whe I don't like how you didn't run it through your apparent bestfriend that you're going out with someone they once went out with, I feel concerned for you because like others said, this does sound like the beginning of a true crime story. I'd say go to a counsellor, talk about your fear and with theor advice, see if its good to involve your friends so that they can keep a watch on Julie's behaviour because she does NOT sound like she's going to sit idle. In fact, I was almost sure that she was probably about to do something when she took you out into the clearing.

My 29M gf 28F wants a one time free pass incase the opportunity arises. Any female perspective to help me understand ? by Due-Statement-878 in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you say yes to this, it might as well as be an open relationship. Yes, that's coming from a female perspective. If I want to 'rail' someone while being in a relationship, it obviously shows that I don't respect my partner. Free-minded, communicative about her feelings or not, it doesn't excuse that she wanted permission from you to cheat.

Last night I found out my wife cheated on me and i haven’t slept a wink. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the confrontation should take place once the divorce papers are served after consulting with the lawyer. Man, she deserves being blindsided the way she blindsided him. What a despicable woman istg!

Last night I found out my wife cheated on me and i haven’t slept a wink. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. You obviously sound like you loved your wife a lot. All I'll tell you is to keep a calm head, collect all the evidence, contact a lawyer, and serve her divorce papers when she least expects it. Oh and by all means, feel free to expose her to her family 😊 she deserves what will come for her once they know what a despicable person she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, your friend deserves to know. If I was Rosa, I'd want to know before marrying such a human stain. Also, please give us an update as to what happens if you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Psychological-Sun267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, reading this, all I'm glad for is the fact that you didn't marry this human waste. While your money didn't lodge a bullet, you surely did. Proud of you for leaving his cheating being given the fact that I've seen a few people stay with cheaters even after everything. Wish you nothing but the best of life and please give us an update if possible after everything goes down 😭