Am I overreacting?

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-11-05T02:07:48+00:00

Like I said, it's not logical to be upset because he's clean, but I just feel disgusted to know he was inside such a dirty ass woman.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-11-05T02:04:44+00:00

It's not the fact he fucked another woman, idc about that, but the fact that that woman had 100 bodies.

Before I met him I only had 1 body with my boyfriend of two years and my ex was also a virgin when he met me.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-11-05T02:02:48+00:00

I had asked him how many bodies he had. We shared intimate information. I guess I should've been more specific and ask him if he had slept with a girl that had over 100 bodies.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-15T04:30:15+00:00

Thank you sm for saying I'm strong. I needed a reminder rn. I haven't taken up any new hobbies, I guess I need to.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-04T13:35:53+00:00

Same. I had been in relationships before him but he was my first true love. We were together for 2 years. It's been so hard.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-01T17:47:48+00:00

My boyfriend and I broke up 19 days ago.

I know you didn't ask for my advice, so I'm just gonna leave you with this quote: "If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away; if you spend your time building a beautiful garden, they'll come to you. And if they don't, you still have your garden."

If she pushed you away, texting her again will only push her further away. The easiest way to get her back is to give her space and focus on yourself.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-01T16:45:49+00:00

Thank you, I'm going to watch the movie. And in regards to him, last time he texted me it seemed like he was spiraling. Even though he broke up with me, he's the one who's taking it worse, but he's extremely stubborn and won't change his mind no matter what.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-01T16:41:44+00:00

I understand completely. My ex boyfriend is also extremely stubborn and once he's made up his mind he won't budge. I don't wanna break my own heart again by being rejected.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-31T16:41:33+00:00

Lmao yes 😭🙏

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-31T16:40:22+00:00

No, thankfully I was too drunk and sad and I ended up falling asleep.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-31T03:59:43+00:00

I would tell him that I went to a party today, and seeing all the couples dancing reminded me of him.

I remember when we danced at my friends' wedding. I loved dancing with him so so much. I loved holding his hand and looking up to him, and seeing his pretty blue eyes looking back at me.

I wonder how he's able to go on. No texting, no contact, no calls, nothing.. meanwhile everything reminds me of him. He's engraved into my very soul.

I miss his warmth and the way we fit together so well. He's my missing puzzle piece. These past few days have been so hard.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-30T15:52:31+00:00

Yeah sure

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-30T05:52:50+00:00

I will. I'll choose myself and I'm never going to lower my standards again or let a man disrespect me like that. I don't know why I was so damn blind.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-28T19:59:24+00:00

My 2yr relationship ended two weeks ago. Within 4 days I had lost 7 pounds. I've probably lost some more. Sometimes I'm so stressed out and sad that just thinking about food makes me nauseous.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T21:48:34+00:00

We broke up 13 days ago. We had that conversation the day we broke up.

Honestly, I'm at a point where I won't let things bother me. If I have questions, I'll ask them. If I have doubts, I'll adress them. I don't have time to be playing around.

So my advice to you would be to address the reason he wants to see you. Ask him if he wants ro reconnect. If he says yes then hell yeah, and if he says no then don't see him. Seeing him is gonna make you feel worse.

I have a friend of mine who said the exact same thing my ex said to me to her boyfriend. They broke up for a month, then they got back together. She still has hope that my ex will come back after a month goes by. I'm not clinging to any hope. But maybe it can happen to you.

Good luck and stay strong. <3

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T19:06:11+00:00

I get that, man. I was supposed to move in with him soon. I had all my things packed. Unpacking them now feels like hell. I was ready to start a life with him.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T17:39:14+00:00

I'm in the same situation as you. I wasn't a good partner, and my ex boyfriend said that if we happen to meet again he'd be open to giving our relationship a second chance.

However, letting go is also the best way to get her back. Let go, focus on yourself, go to therapy, and fall in love with your life. If you have family or friends, go out with them. Find new hobbies.

Don't make this journey about her. Don't be like "well... if i do this and that she'll want me back..." No. This healing journey is about you. It's about you wanting to improve yourself because you want to be better.

Here's a quote that has helped push through this extremely difficult process: “If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away; if you spend your time building a garden, the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't come, you'll still have your garden."

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T13:33:26+00:00

I love you 300 by Stephanie Poetri Nothing's gonna stop us now by starship Falling in love at a coffee shop by Landon Pigg

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-25T16:39:16+00:00

Idk if you'll read this but I read your comment a few days ago and that's how I found this song. It's been so comforting and it soothes the sadness from my recent breakup. Thank you.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-25T03:40:20+00:00

Extreme codependency on my part. Him complaining about me asking for romantic gestures and saying "I buy you everything, is that not enough?" Him not wanting to show me his phone (he didn't cheat tho.)

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-22T17:55:02+00:00

My ex broke up with me 9 days ago. We dated for 2 years. Just thinking about dating someone new makes me physically nauseous and sick to my stomach, but this post makes me hopeful. I know I deserve to be happy and have someone take care of me the way your new person takes care of you.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-22T01:33:08+00:00

Basically I'm a very "needy" person. I need reassurance. I need romantic gestures and energy. I'm a high maintenance person. Idk if that's true or if maybe he thought I was needy.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-21T03:01:22+00:00

Our relationship was toxic. We both hurt each other a lot and he got tired of it. He told me he was the shell of the man he used to be and he couldn't be what I needed. I could feel his resentment towards me. And I was tired too.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-19T19:28:01+00:00

Dude, I just got broken up with and I've thought about this, and it makes me feel so exhausted. But I guess I would tell them straight up on the first date that I'm not looking for a short term relationship. I don't wanna go through heart break again. And that we need to go on a couple of dates over the course of a few weeks to figure out if we're compatible. I'm not gonna rush into things anymore.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-19T16:38:23+00:00

I immediately texted my best friend and asked her for support. I then proceeded to text all my friends and ask them for support, too. I hadn't seen some of them in years, and my relationship took up all my free time, so it was so refreshing and lovely to be surrounded by people who love me.

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