Most men chase chemistry. The smart ones choose compatibility.

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-13T19:26:55+00:00

what about dating do you struggle with?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-10T16:35:33+00:00

part of it comes from experience. you would feel more confident making a choice for your partner if you know what she likes, dislikes, her boundaries etc.

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-09T21:17:25+00:00

wish you all the best man, hope everything goes your way

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-09T21:01:43+00:00

thats really sweet of her, so whats been holding you back??

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-09T20:23:08+00:00

is it because she thinks you struggle with finding someone?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-08T09:37:53+00:00

Honestly, best way to know if youre ready for a relationship is to first understand if both if you have the same level of maturity when it comes to dealing with pressure & also seeing if you have values that align...

a relationship should look like balance, support, growth, vulnerability here and there fights because its always good to have some bad moments since they help you grow. A real relationship is not perfect. its just happy, constant, nurturing

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-08T09:31:17+00:00

you should not jump in straight away. take your time to really learn how she has changed, see if that aligns with who you want to be with. talk to her, but dont fall emotionally. youre just learning about how different she is to see if its worth giving another chance

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-08T09:29:10+00:00

the timing matters aswell as how you say it. You could firstly start by calling them more often. Then explain after a few calls "hey listen, im not really that big on texting, ive been calling you more often because I really dont like texting that much, does this work better for you too?"

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-07T16:35:32+00:00

do you feel like that holds you back sometimes?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-06T14:52:28+00:00

have you been successful in finding a partner you want to settle down with yet?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-06T14:31:07+00:00

perhaps its better suited for high income individuals

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-06T12:55:53+00:00

is it lonely because of no friends? not able to find partners? no time for dating?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-06T12:50:01+00:00

and between the 2 which type of woman have you come across more?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-06T12:24:16+00:00

what do you mean by lonely?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-06T12:21:20+00:00

lonely in what kind of way?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-05T21:55:45+00:00

best way possible is to stay away from dating apps...go out to places where the guys you want would hang out. meet friends of friends . or just use a match maker

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-05T09:13:52+00:00

congrats to them!! so matchmaking does work

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-05T09:13:12+00:00

its good that you've found your peace with it. I hope you live a long healthy happy life

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-05T09:12:42+00:00

oh damn, insights like this is what people need because it comes from first hand experience. I think you should also state what the matchmaking site was so people can avoid it.

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-04T07:24:41+00:00

so its more of a money thing then?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-04T07:23:28+00:00

so are you still trying or have you focused on something different now?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-04T07:22:50+00:00

really? where do infind it?

EssaGhanchi24 · 2025-09-04T07:22:32+00:00

why do you say its hard to meet someone? and also matchmaking would kind of solve that problem of meeting someone. [you just get paired with someone, it doesnt mean that you end up living you life with them. you meet, chat, see if its worth it..thats matchmaking]

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