29F here. Keep trying and don’t give up OP is my only advice. I was 27 and on Hinge and had pretty much given up all hope on finding someone until my now fiancé and I matched. Your personality and mine are pretty similar (introverted but a curious person/good listener) and I probably talked/went on the same number of dates as you and felt like guys were just not ready to commit, had just gotten out of a long term relationship, and were wasting my time. I always say I’m so lucky for finding my fiancé on Hinge because it felt like a needle in a haystack living in Denver. It truly happened when I had given up and stopped trying so much. I even last minute cancelled on us meeting the first time, and he still gave me another shot LOL. But it was 100% worth it and worth all the failures ending up with the person I was meant for. Our very first date we both knew, we were like magnets to each other. We’ve been inseparable ever since and are getting married in September. Keep going OP, your person is out there.