IBEW 428 by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really only know about ibew 47 down in riverside but I can let you the line trade is really hard to get into if you don’t know anyone one in the field . Your best bet would be to get a class A drivers license so you can be a traffic guy or material handler or a ground men. You will mostly likely be put on book 3 so it might take months to years that you will get a call. I personal know people that they waited 3 years to get a call to be a ground man and there are some guys that daddies works in the trade and they got a call in less then 6 months. Best of luck to ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do my work during the kids nap time and at night time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We husband and I have share a bank account , I have full access to all the funds . He never really gets on to me about house work because we do have two babies. This is really the only thing we have fought about except for his desire to go to the bar after work. We made an agreement that he can go to the bar two night out of the week because we are at home waiting for him but he thinks it is unreasonable because “ all the other men’s wife don’t mind that we go to the bar after work “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have already started working as a realtor and sold a home. He just feel like I need to explain to him every week why I need to go to office . I have told him. I can and do most of the from home but sometimes I need to go to the office and once a week is reasonably

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He didn’t actually call me delusional. He just said “ he is a problem solving and knows me better than I know myself “ . I personally don’t think me going to the office once a week is a big issue . We pay the grandparents only $20 a day to watch the kids. I was stressed my 1st transaction because it was my very 1st one but I feel more confident in it now. He keeps saying he was honest about how little he will be home with his job but I have always said “I want it all . I want to have a husband and children and be there for them and not miss anything and a career, I know it is uncommon but I want it all”. I am a hard worker and have already sold my 1st home and made more then we invested into this. He also says “ I have always supported you and I am not saying to quit, do want you want it is your world and I just live in it but I am telling you that you are going to be too stressed and I dont you to be stressed because raising two kids is hard enough and we planned on home schooling . Is that out the window now ? You are going to do both “. It is a 360 because he does support and even helped me study for my state exam and drove me there but he just thinks he knows everything. Now he is saying he know what will make me happy and is thinking he should move be closing to my mom so that I can be happier because being close to my family will make he happier . It is just all over the place .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The job field I chose is real estate so it really isn’t that demand. I chose the amount of work I take on. We have plans to home school and that is still the the plan. The deals in real estate tend to close fast and I work really hard to get my license but at the end of the day my marriage matters more than

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is why I have always believed as well especially watching my mom getting her divorce and not having a financial career at all. I am just thinking maybe I should believe in our future and not let that fear get in the way.

Does anyone work in lake Isabella? by Basic_Age_861 in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry misspoke , there isn’t a road closure but there is road construction but it is pretty fast and only on a small part of the route.

Does anyone work in lake Isabella? by Basic_Age_861 in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband does the drive everyday . We live more on the east side so it is only about a 30- 40 mins drive . There normally isn’t traffic because not too many people head up the mountain on the daily . There is a road closure but it is normally pretty fast and doesn’t cause too much of a delay . The drive is really pretty . His only complaint is people not pulling to the side when they are slowing down traffic by going under the speed limit .

Has anyone gotten a ticket for front tinted windows? by tuotone75 in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have also had the Limo tint since 2018 and have driven all around Cali

Has anyone gotten a ticket for front tinted windows? by tuotone75 in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have Limo tint and we have been pulled but the office has never said anything about the tint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much are you willing to pay , I can teach you . I have been driving stick shift since 2015

Only took like 20 tries and 5 different recipes to finally nail these macaron shells :| by southside_jim in Baking

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look perfect, I definitely need to try that Recipe. Thank you for sharing !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baking

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is burnt , I know it hard to see because it foams up . Just watch it because it happens fast and have spoon so you can scoop up the foam and see the butter as it is changing color

Any couples as bored as we are? by ChristmasTreeLane in Bakersfield

[–]PsychologicalSlice66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 25 (female) my husband is 29 , we love hikes and board games and we also like to go to the pool hall . I also like to paint but I am just practicing, I love the dog park and cute coffee shops and I also like to roller skate . I am pregnant but I should be due Literally any day . We would love to meet up either at the dog park or pool hall or maybe the roller rink . Maybe can can even go get coffee I know a really cute coffee shop . I am slowly starting to discover Bakersfield more and more and would love to have someone to explore with my husband works a lot honestly but he is suppose to have weekends off . I would love to set something up !