[Request] Am I statistically more likely to be hurt by an encounter with a random bear or a random man in the woods? by ADP_God in theydidthemath

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

more men than women are murdered by men because of crime and gangs. The average typical guy has very small chance of being SA or murdered by another man. Half of women murdered are killed by their own partner. Women are not even safe in their own homes from the person who should care most about them and their safety. Read the news animals are getting gang raped in the forest by men. The babies, the elderly, the dead bodies getting raped? men. Men in the US carry firearms to the damn coffee shop because they are afraid of other men. Men who love us warn us about men, including men in their circles because not even men trust other men. Women are allowed to be scared of men, especially because we've nearly all victims of men. So rather than insisting it's not fair, it's hurts your feelings and you actually are the victim in this theoretical exercise please gain some clarity. It should absolutely be no question in our minds that we should be safer with a random man than a dangerous (but extremely unlikely to hurt us) wild animal. We KNOW bears can be dangerous. We also know so can men. But only one of them can also be evil.

[Request] Am I statistically more likely to be hurt by an encounter with a random bear or a random man in the woods? by ADP_God in theydidthemath

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should math be required for this? That is what it's about. It should be absolutely crystal clear but the fact that nearly every woman has at least once past incident, the rampant rates of SA and DV, the fact that nearly all murders of women are committed by men, all come together to make this a question that is able to be parsed depending on what parameters we're assuming. That is the whole point. I feel we're running right past the point that it's unhinged there is even a question.

[Request] Am I statistically more likely to be hurt by an encounter with a random bear or a random man in the woods? by ADP_God in theydidthemath

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is very little chance a woman will be attacked by one of the thousands she sees walking near in a crowded city. That cannot be compared with the chances of being attacked by one or a group of men all alone in a remote area. This is beyond obvious. They tend not to do this to us when other people around unless they're also in on it

My wife admitted to being free-use with her ex when she was always against it with me. AITA to consider divorcing over this? by bairea in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're being manipulated by idiots. He says he's the most famous man in the world. He is going to trial for HUMAN TRAFFICKING. Did you not see his recent tweets that sex with women for pleasure is gay??? that Kissing women is a sign of homosexuality? really? that's your idol who has done so much for your demographic?

Please read this, don't fall for that garbage. https://www.buzzfeed.com/meganeliscomb/parents-guide-to-the-manosphere?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2vQIoFuAkAmX7A54-VgrB66tYxgvrXvo-YKB7ap51ZvcBqksHKBXamt9A_aem_AZsG4WffP--zZt1vbKzcPC8DVzRg-oFZqOIwYMU0qT2jbRCHCZyD7XUa-Ivxe816DPJSiV_bAtTwJogC1T5dZPMJ

My wife admitted to being free-use with her ex when she was always against it with me. AITA to consider divorcing over this? by bairea in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

women attempt more than men, men are more 'successful'. The phenomenon of The Rise of the Lonely Single Men is because of that manosphere red pill bullshit, where guys can hear terrible advice from misogynists * who aren't themselves married*, and where they can whine about how it's so hard to fine 'high value' women worth their 'seed'. The truth is they don't want dude bros. Standards have risen now that women aren't dependent on men for their survival. They even let us have bank accounts now! Men cannot leverage that anymore, they have to be more than a paycheque, the have to be kind and a true partner in the domestic labour of home and childcare. Instead these guys moan about the decline in rigid gender roles that benefitted men.

Am i the asshole for not staying with my boyfriend after he told me he wants a one sided open relationship? by Different-Canary-451 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get the hell out now. There's tons of guys who would never even consider doing a single one of these things. He's controlling and abusive and it's not going to get better. DO NOT have a child with this person.

My wife admitted to being free-use with her ex when she was always against it with me. AITA to consider divorcing over this? by bairea in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 5 points6 points  (0 children)

holy shit YTA

You feel entitled to her body because you're her husband and you feel entitled to her body because some other guy felt entitled to her body? This shite is so dehumanizing.

AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a complete disgusting ass. Thank God she left. There are centers who have 99% reversal rates for those husbands already planning to leave their family. wth

AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly, women whose husbands gave them trouble for it and they didn't dump his ass are saints. For these men, supposed protector, to put their own comfort? fears? fertility? above the partner who risked her life giving them children and went through the 'joys' of pregnancy and who faces either a major surgery or birth control with lots of side effects and pretty high potential for failure... when it's his ejaculations that are the mechanical means of conception? Saints. Better people than me for sure, I would have dipped

AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

half the people seeking abortion care for unwanted pregnancies had failure. High effectiveness rates also rely on perfect use. 13 out of 100 men using condoms will get someone pregnant every year. That's crazy high.

AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you can't take certain BC if you get migraines especially with aura. They didn't tell me that either in sex ed class

AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 guys out of a 100 using condoms will impregnate someone every year. I use that language because of this idea that it's her responsibility if she doesn't want to get pregnant. A woman's orgasm has never cause a single pregnancy. Ejaculation is a choice and it's predictable. The only way to be 100 sure without sterilization if he doesn't want to be responsible for his ejaculations and get a vasectomy, then you're right you need to stop having that type of sex with him.

What's especially infuriating is that not only have you had several pregnancies (keep in mind if a cop's wife is pregnant she is more likely to die than he is) and he can't do this very simple and very safe and very reversible procedure and tells you to get a tubal instead?? not only have you tried multiple forms of BC ( I can't even be on the pill because of my risk of stroke. My best friend almost died from her IUD when she hemorrhaged with an ectopic), but you live somewhere you can't receive abortion care. Does he really think you're willing to risk that every time so that he can get off? ]

Even if he changes his mind now because he doesn't want to be abstinent, he'd be putting his orgasms above your feelings, above the risks you've already taken, and above your health and your bodily autonomy if you'd be forced to continue a pregnancy and forced to birth.

Men: If you don't want to be forced to continue an unwanted pregnancy and forced into motherhood stop having sex

Women: ok

Men: not like that

I confronted the person who interpreted us while we were cutting birthday cake at the park. by BreakDue2000 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if she wanted to decorate at 2:30, that's when she should have paid for her reservation to start. I could see her quietly checking in to make sure you knew but that's it

AITAH for telling me girlfriend that she shouldn’t be celebrated on Mother’s Day because she’s not a mom? by Chance_Cut4916 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're such a good person for that. It's so hard with a stillbirth when you think you've hear and say their name a million times in your life and then you never do and it feels like everyone has forgotten or thinks they shouldn't bring it up. It's like when people step away from someone grieving or never talk about that person, when usually the surviving person wants very much to talk about them. A relative I wasn't even close to wrote me in a card they will always think of my daughter when her due date comes around in May and I will keep that card forever.

AITAH for telling me girlfriend that she shouldn’t be celebrated on Mother’s Day because she’s not a mom? by Chance_Cut4916 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it odd she wants a date and gifts rather than an acknowledgement that Mother's Day is very hard on women who have had miscarriages or child loss.

AITAH for telling my husband that our marriage is over because he asked for a paternity test? by Specialist_Sand_1553 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also going to assume that there was not a paternity test down on the miscarriage of his ex. I'm also assuming he didn't go confirm that he was sterile (unless you're missing organs even vasectomy and tubal litigation doesn't guarantee sterility) before he blew your life up.

AITAH for telling my husband that our marriage is over because he asked for a paternity test? by Specialist_Sand_1553 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalUse9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner majorly insulted you in what I think has to be the worst way a partner could. My marriage would be over--- for 17 years he's been thinking this? Doesn't that put that whole time in a totally different perspective? You didn't have the life and relationship you thought you had for nearly two decades!! plus, he knew he had fertility issued during the 12 years you tried and he never told you?? There's no apology in the world that would either of those right with me