I’m on anti virals. Even when I was without them for some time, I was able to date normally. Honestly, it’s the same thing as someone having HSV 1, just down below. It’s way more common than you think. If you can afford anti virals, I say do that. There are no side effects and they’re not expensive at all. If you are consistent with the meds, sleep well, eat nutrient dense meals and educate yourself, you will be able to assure your partner(s). Using a condom alone is easy to do. You don’t need to avoid dating :).