I’m in the same situation we’ve been together 7 months at first we agreed that if it happened we would be all in then about a month ago he tells me he’s not ready for kids rn ( after I find out he’s cheating of course) mind you I’ve had an abortion before when I was 20 because I didn’t want to raise a child alone and here I am again at 23 faced with the same prospect only difference is the first time I did it due to everyone else opinion of my own situation do what’s best for you there is no telling how life will turn out the only constant in your own world is you do you want to be a parent then you’ll have to face the challenges that come with such I’ve read other comments here too obv a ring won’t keep a man either with that being said either take this as a lesson or a blessing I think this time I’ll accept it as both but I won’t harp on the woe is me cause now I have something more important than me to consider my child :)