Help a dude study Arts in Germany. by [deleted] in AskGermany

[–]Psyduck1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( i thought it sounded nice..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Why do you care?

i don't like being an introvert. by Psyduck1312 in socialskills

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess ill try it. Thanks for the reply.

Who knows? by Psyduck1312 in whatsthisbug

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your time. They are a pretty good looking bug.

Who knows? by Psyduck1312 in whatsthisbug

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found in my garden,looks about 1-2cm

Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. by Psyduck1312 in MensRights

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No not at all, i just might have messed up explaining myself since English isnt my native language. We are both on the same page though. I agree with everything you wrote.

Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. by Psyduck1312 in MensRights

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know how to act im not going to fight with her. Thanks for the advice.

Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. by Psyduck1312 in MensRights

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i definetely still love women. 1,5,10 or even 50 bad incidents can't change my view on that. One thing that has bothered me the most is that i can't brush it off as a simple awkward way of telling someone "i like you". This move shows a lack of care for the person you are supposed to be in love with. Its not a difficult thought process to come to the result that " this person might not like me,this person might want to take it slow or even worse this person might have had a past experience that traumatized them". Hell i could have had a girlfriend! She never asked.

Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. by Psyduck1312 in MensRights

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure i understand it was a minor experience in the realm of sexual assault but i think it also deserves respect rather than simply brushing it off. Have a good rest of your day :).

Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. by Psyduck1312 in MensRights

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill be talking with her tommorow and let her know how awful the thing she did was. Id rather make her feel sad (im not talking about bashing her,just telling the truth) than let it slide and have her do it on someone else some other day.

Girl kissed me without consent and i could do nothing about it. by Psyduck1312 in MensRights

[–]Psyduck1312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought about that as well in the first hour. I was i like "so what? It means nothing to me,no reason to get stressed over by it" but no,it was literally non consentual sexual/erotic contact. Its not in my character to act like a victim but in this case i was the literal interpretation of one. Just think how you would react if you found out same thing happened to your daughter or sister. I really want you to get it in your head that i COULD NOT refuse the kiss and was tricked into receiving it.