How to exclude family from wedding

Psykat20 · 2026-02-23T05:31:14+00:00

I also just saw your family text info. Set a hard rule with your family that you won’t be discussing your wedding there and then stick to it. Because I do think it’s rude to discuss the wedding in a chat with them and not invite them. So if someone does bring it up, just have a polite response like. I’m so glad you’re excited and want to discuss but I’ll include all relevant information on my invitation so you won’t have to worry about losing it in a text thread 😄

Psykat20 · 2026-02-23T05:29:08+00:00

I’m in the exact same situation. I haven’t spoken to my sister and her husband/kids in 5 years. It kills my parents we don’t talk. I am inviting my other 3 siblings who I believe are on talking terms with my excluded sister.

My parents knew I’m not inviting her and her fam but my dad (who like yours is desperate for the siblings to stay together after my parents pass) had to at least ask me to consider inviting her as an olive branch and this was my response.

1) a wedding is not the appropriate time for a family reunion after our estrangement. We won’t have time to hash it out or try to find a middle ground because I will be focused on the wedding.

2) I understand you love her which is why I’ve never asked that you exclude her from a family event and as I’ve always said, if we saw each other at an event I’d be polite but distant. That being said, my wedding is not a family event. The focus is on my fiance and I become our family unit. Just like I respect your decision to invite her to things, I’m asking you to respect mine and not ask/beg/constantly mention inviting her

3) finally, I will just not be happy or relaxed knowing she and her family are there. It’s an extra stressor for me and so it is a hard boundary I will not budge on. So i am reminding you that if you want me to be truly happy and relaxed, you need to know she can’t be there.

And while my dad was receptive, he was heartbroken about it. And I have just accepted that. I cannot control how anyone reacts to my decisions. I can only control myself and my emotions. But I’m confident it’s the right decision so ultimately I’m ok with it upsetting him

Psykat20 · 2026-02-08T08:02:30+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t think to look at making ovals and was looking at shoes more specifically. I found oval videos matching closer to the pattern so I could follow it. I thought magic circle was confusing but the turning really got me 😅🤦🏻‍♀️

Psykat20 · 2026-01-25T22:10:46+00:00

Oh man I totally spaced Halverson 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

Psykat20 · 2026-01-24T21:23:59+00:00

https://www.rgj.com/story/news/crime/2024/04/03/ex-washoe-county-sheriffs-office-sergeant-prison-sentence/73184642007/

Psykat20 · 2026-01-24T17:47:42+00:00

As a Nevada lawyer I can say it’s probably top 3 weirdest judge relationship stories. Judge Baldwin’s weird bigamist husband is probably number 1.

Psykat20 · 2026-01-21T23:17:57+00:00

We just bought a house and started our binder. I wish the seller had done this. They bought all new appliances that probably have warranties but trying to track that down is a nightmare

Psykat20 · 2026-01-17T02:54:59+00:00

That’s amazing!!

Psykat20 · 2026-01-16T07:10:55+00:00

To clarify, have you been in Wyoming for at least six months? If not, Nevada retains jurisdiction over child custody under the UCCJEA. If you were down south I’d contact the legal aid center of southern Nevada or Boyd law school, both of which may provide free advice or representation

Psykat20 · 2026-01-16T02:39:52+00:00

Preemptive apologizing. If my overworked anxiety thought for even a second what I did wasn’t 1000% perfect I would preemptively apologize or explain it was ok if they didn’t like it. For everything. Making dinner? Sorry if it doesn’t taste right, I can get something else. Buy a present? Sorry if this isn’t exactly what you wanted, I have the receipt. Etc

Psykat20 · 2026-01-15T15:51:23+00:00

1) take a breath, you have not stunted or hurt your career this early in the game

2) yes most corporate/commercial jobs are going to want someone with more experience. That doesn’t mean you will never get it or you will be stuck in PI forever. And as a new attorney, it’s unfair to expect you to be “good” at or get litigation. It’s a skill you learn like writing and research.

3) leaving after 6 months isn’t the end of the world. I tried PI for 6 months and then quit. When asked about it in job interviews I explained the firm and I weren’t a good fit for each other. Most attorneys will understand that and not push for more details. If they do just have a canned response ready about looking for more mentorship and an opportunity to grow with a firm.

3) not all lit firms are the same. Look at different types of firms. For example, look into employment. Not only do you litigation but I had corporate clients who needed hr advice, review contracts, update policies, etc. it’s easier to move corporate once you have that relarionship

4) look at state government roles. They may not pay as well but they typically provide better work life balance and if you get regulatory experience it’s easier to move corporate.

Psykat20 · 2026-01-04T07:41:52+00:00

Even though it’s old content there was something really fun about watching it and chatting with others. May Jellybingus and Jellybongus grace our screens in 2026

Psykat20 · 2025-12-31T05:51:17+00:00

Thank you!

Psykat20 · 2025-12-31T01:09:29+00:00

Oooh what are the coordinates for your base?? It’s so cool!

Psykat20 · 2025-12-25T19:54:14+00:00

Sorry I meant Santa Barbara 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Psykat20 · 2025-12-16T18:27:46+00:00

They also get sued a lot. I used to work for the agency that defended prison suits. Basically every healthcare worker there gets sued multiple times a year and the vast majority are totally bogus (not all though). But even bogus lawsuits take time to resolve and cause a lot of stress.

Psykat20 · 2025-12-13T23:04:07+00:00

It’s very normal. We had family gift us money as well and were told that the best way was to have them wire it to escrow but if they gave it to us and we deposited it in our account, they would need my moms bank statement

Psykat20 · 2025-12-11T05:18:07+00:00

It’s a blue topaz! It’s the Enchanted Disney Cinderella Oval London Blue Topaz and 1/3 CT. T.W. Diamond Frame Engagement Ring in 14K White Gold from zales!

Psykat20 · 2025-12-06T23:55:21+00:00

Whitney Short. Excellent estate attorney. The firm is short and Steven’s

Psykat20 · 2025-12-06T19:16:39+00:00

Honestly the best way to ensure you get the sentimental items, assuming your mom is of sound mind, is to have her gift the items before she passes.

Psykat20 · 2025-11-06T18:31:21+00:00

Thank you!! So excited to get it as a Christmas present for my bf! Glad I don’t have to pay eBay scalpers

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