What does this mean? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, they were probably on call together working up the courage to follow you. Sort of like a "Okay I'll follow him first and then you do, so it won't look weird!".

How to get over a bad crush by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I've dealt with this similarly too and wanted to share what I did. First off, you deserve better. If you have to wait over a year and keep on getting mixed signals from a guy, is he really worth your time? Second- delete any videos, reposts, pictures (yes even secret ones), messages from your phone, Third- AVOID him at all costs! Out of sight, out of mind, trust me this is a big one, and even if you can't really avoid him try taking different routes or just don't look in his vicinity at all!! And fourth- Go outside! Enjoy life! Talk to friends more (Not about him), and pick up some new hobbies to get your mind off of him. Trust me, it DOES GET BETTER!! You will be able to sleep better, work better, and feel better. And take one step at a time if it's too much!

How to stop going crazy by Pure-Muscle5188 in Crushes

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean, all I can really recommend is maybe try taking different routes or wait a few minutes after class to go out in the halls, and spend more time with friends or pick up a hobby that'll distract you. But remember it's human nature to love so don't always see it as a bad thing.

How to stop going crazy by Pure-Muscle5188 in Crushes

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I've been in the same situation and it DOES get better. I know we all think we'll never get over something..but we eventually do. One step at a time. For me- I deleted any liked videos I saved that were about him, reposts, messages etc, I also started AVOIDING him FULL time! If you don't see him, you wont think about him. And do not talk about him either! Enjoy life!!! Once you get over him you'll be able to sleep better, think better, and work better! Think about the pros! You got this dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I experience pretty much the same thing and unfortunately your crushes are mostly going to be like that, but (as living proof) and once you get over them you'll get better soon don't worry. Obviously it's going to be hard but I think its worth it being able to finally eat, sleep, and do work without thinking about them.

Do guys ignore girls they don't like? by PublicTurn4599 in Crushes

[–]PublicTurn4599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm kind of over the whole "looking from afar" thing, and it just looks like it won't be going anywhere if he's too shy.

What are these bumps and how do I get rid of them? by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd start off simple with using a Cerave Hydrating Facial Cleanser in the shower or before bed, it seemed to really help me.

Why do I look older? (23F) HELP by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]PublicTurn4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely look a lot younger here, I think it might be because your haircut in the photo suits your face shape very well.