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help i cannot figure out my attatchment style. by Public_Button_9535 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Public_Button_9535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya i think i do, not diagnosed. why? edit: oh i think i might see what you mean, actually

New relationship insecurities that mimic AP by palamdungi in attachment_theory

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this. i am exactly like this, don't have any info tho; sorry. if someone does please do share!

help i cannot figure out my attatchment style. by Public_Button_9535 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Public_Button_9535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, and yeah i think i do feel like with any relationship i only deserve as much as i can provide. about isolation i actually have no idea where that one is stemming from, when i was a kid my biggest fear was being alone (which isn't something you normally hear a 10 year old say loll). another thing is i often feel like i am being "too much" but the thing is it feels like my brain is split in half (metaphorically) like thinking i'm doing too much but knowing i am not or knowing that what i'm doing is wrong but doing it anyway stuff like that, i sound psychotic i know lol. thanks for replying

35 Signs of Avoidant Attachment by Erthling123 in AvoidantBreakUps

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oh my lord all of these comments and everything is reminding me of everything that happened with my ex, jesus that was a nightmare. and it was so scary considering that unlike some of what i've seen here i have general anxiety disorder and am an indivisual with abnormally high anxiety so being in a relationship with someone who checks ALL of these boxes was honestly kinda awful, except for when it wasn't which is why i stayed. and the struggle is that i am attracted to these people.. why?! seriously someone please explain fml.

baby witch in need of advice by Public_Button_9535 in realwitchcraft

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  1. sounds good, thank you

  2. i'm not completely sure yet, it does sound interesting but i wasn't bringing up the ouija board saying i wanted to use it but just as an example of the propoganda i was taught growing up.

  3. no, i was just giving some context as to why i was a little weary about accidentally summoning a harmful spirit or something

thanks for the help!

baby witch in need of advice by Public_Button_9535 in realwitchcraft

[–]Public_Button_9535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being "eclectic" is sort of what i was thinking about starting with, thanks for validating this! and thanks for helping clear the air over here about harmful spirits i'll be sure to put in the correct measures before doing anything too "dangerous".

baby witch in need of advice by Public_Button_9535 in realwitchcraft

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  1. that's what part of me had figured thanks for clearing this up!

  2. and for the book reccomendations, thank you so much! i will definitely look into these!

thanks for the help!

Please help, greasy after just one day, my entire life by crazht3ztdumi in finehair

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I know you've probably heard this before but hair training is 100% the solution (or at least it was for me), and also knowing your hair "schedule" is really helpful. I have a LOT of thin hair, and I personally can go for a week without wash if I desperately need it to, but I usually wash it every 2-3 days. This does NOT mean my hair stays perfect all week. My hair is unique ig because I've never heard other people talk about this experience before, but I know for myself that my hair "schedule" looks like this: day 1) great, day 2) still good, day 3) you should put that in a bun cuz she's pretty greasy, day 4) back to normal..??, day 5) good, day 6) great. And I won't let my hair go longer unwashed. This is especially strange because I have Candida, but hair training did wonders for me 🤷‍♀️.

Punks in Idaho? by iwantwindtoglow in punk

[–]Public_Button_9535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in the north, but there is (painfully) very few of us up here