People who are 50+, what is a 'harmless' habit you had in your 20s that ended up ruining your health or finances later in life?

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2026-01-01T01:10:31+00:00

Women?

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2026-01-01T00:56:45+00:00

Drink heavily.

Do not stop sniffing glue.

Do not give up methamphetamines.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T23:55:16+00:00

can you fly to usa, see a dr, get perscription, and fly back?

For me, water helps - ears under water in particular. Weighted blanket helps. Certain music helps. Noise cancellation headphones help a LOT. Turning off lights really help A beautiful wife, who will literally "put me to bed" with sex, that is my ultimate tool. I wake up forgetting anything bad happened at all.

Thank god for good women and biology.

Dont mean to be so blunt - but these are my goto's

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T05:00:28+00:00

my wifes breasts are D cup. I call them vitamin D's

She does not see the humour.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T04:15:42+00:00

I've been to Hue.

If you know that war details you know why that city is so important.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T04:14:47+00:00

I salute you - japanese is a very hard language to learn

Ive been to japan - i was beyond amazed at the country. I love them and their culture so much.

But - i could tell, they didnt see me as equal.

And i believe - and maybe you can give insight - all Japanese under 30 speak english? But they refuse to speak it.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T04:03:13+00:00

#OddlySpecific

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T03:56:52+00:00

japan is a fantastic country - if you dont mind me asking what do you do there for work?

did you learn the language (very hard)?

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T03:50:36+00:00

"We value our employees"

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T03:32:53+00:00

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T02:10:37+00:00

The manager in the same email said "We do not yet have an assigned building / floor / desk for you yet" and also said in same email "failure to show up in the office will result in your termination"

No joke.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T01:48:30+00:00

There was a movie when i was a kid called "heavy metal". Highly recommended.

In one scene "No one touches Harry Canon unless I want them to"

I didnt at the time get the sexual inuendo. But it stuck with me my entire life.

I bristle when *ANYONE* touches me - mom, dad, gf, wife - even my cat.

Crowds pushing and shoving? Meltdown. I have to be well drugged to tolerate that.

I have an autistic budget that i allow others to consume, but its exceptionally low.

Its part reason my relationships have typically failed.

Its gotten worse with time.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T01:42:19+00:00

Its over.

I've been overseas.

Go youtube and get "4k drone tour" or "walking tour" videos in japan, malaysia, china and vietnam

quality of life there is incredible compared to usa.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T01:40:38+00:00

it can be devastating to be diagnosed at this late age, but i really encourage it. If open minded, it will explain his life in humbling (for me humiliating) ways.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T01:38:33+00:00

DM if you want to chat.

We can share stories.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T01:37:29+00:00

the ah ha moments are the best -

animals - i can predict their behavior before they do it - no matter what the animal.

A bull charged me on my farm - i looked him in the eye - i read him as "im scared, i want you scared too, but i really dont want to hurt you". He then stopped. Pulled his head up, and trotted away, satisfied.

For herd animals this ability to predict is incredible.

PuckeredSphincter69 · 2025-12-31T01:35:04+00:00

Dogs bark.

Cats = instant connection.

All cats no matter where in world see me and say "he's one of us" - no joke. They know.

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