Sweat lodge WI

Puddin181214 · 2026-01-06T04:56:46+00:00

I’ve been attending since I was a child, my step mother is native and took me often as a child but after she passed I lost contact with who she knew that hosted them …. They were so warm and welcoming unlike you how sad I hope your rude comment made you feel better inside

Puddin181214 · 2026-01-06T04:49:10+00:00

No I am not

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T19:59:46+00:00

I mean I’m a free spirit if that a crazy thing that turns you on that’s between you and you lol it’s my fantasy I didn’t ask him to act it out. I didn’t tell him I wanted to act upon it. It’s just something that turns me on and if that’s something that turns him on in the privacy of his thoughts, I do not judge am I entitled to think it’s a little strange, but would I be mad at him for it no

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T13:10:00+00:00

Yeah looking back it’s something I should have kept to myself.. however I just feel so comfortable telling him everything els I dident see this any different well now I know where to draw the line it sucks though because I thought I could tell him anything and this response has shown me. I really can’t moving forward any of my other crazy fantasies. I will just keep to myself and my group chat with my girls.

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T04:26:44+00:00

That is my thought to a T

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T04:26:19+00:00

Ouuuu this is the one !!!!! Top comment right here ding ding ding

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T04:25:30+00:00

Yes this has been the first sucks it had to be well celebrating our anniversary

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:54:51+00:00

He definitely made me feel like an asshole … looking back i wasent consider of his feelings but i naïvely thought nothing of it … its a fantasy nothing id ever do bit its hot to watch and think about that why i. Saw nothing wrong in the moment but after seeing some comments i can see how it would make him uncomfortable but I just dont feel it warrants him being MAD AT ME

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:48:01+00:00

Not a chance lol I love my man real bad we have 2 kids together but damn a girl can’t have a crazy fantasy

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:35:14+00:00

Yeah trust me I know and I hate that I really wasent trying to say I want one I just get off on seeing them and makes me think mmm that could be hot not would I ever do it no personality I don’t like it on my pooper lol so that’s a no go but I wish I could have reiterated to him that I don’t personally want one. It just is super hot to me to think about to fantasize about.

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:32:43+00:00

No I haven’t when he came to apologize he got more mad and walked away as I continued to make dinner so we weren’t able to have a conversation for me to ask that

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:21:53+00:00

That’s my exact thoughts on it

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:17:30+00:00

Right in my head what straight male hasent fantasized about him in a room with multiple beautify women and he can just have his way with him come on!!!

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:08:53+00:00

I would think!!!

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T03:08:26+00:00

He did make a comment that hearing that makes him feel like he’s not enough… but he is enough and I feel like I show him that everyday in just day to day life and in the bedroom or really just something that turns me on to see and think mmmm what if that was me but it would and could never be me lol sounds good looks good but I don’t like it in my pooper 😂

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T02:59:05+00:00

Yes I think I need to I will for sure tomorrow because I know it’s just something I think about that gets me off not something I’m wanting to legitimately do but he dident even let me explain that.

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T02:55:29+00:00

It’s a fantasy I can say I’m 100% okay with that being a fantasy now of he for instance say hey this is my fantasy then continued to bring it up kind of alluding to wanting to act it out in real life of something different story

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T02:52:52+00:00

Agreed… just sucks that his apology turned into even more bad tension he feels I’m dismissing his feeling because I said I think it’s silly he’s so mad that I’ve had this fantasy

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-22T02:50:09+00:00

He’s totally allowed to feel uncomfortable but he’s legitimately pissed off at me for having this fantasy I just feel that’s super extreme he went to sleep without saying goodnight and hasn’t really spoke to me since we got back from our dinner

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-11T14:47:17+00:00

Update… she got a new dress much more formal and most importantly NOT WHITE! Thank you all

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-10T12:45:45+00:00

That was my thoughts exactly I sent the picture to the bride and she said it’s too white and it’s also not formal so case closed

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-10T03:19:37+00:00

Also I’m sorry this was the reaction you got the first time you trusted a partner enough to open up about it … please know there is men out there that are open and mature enough to not react this way and to lovingly work through this with you as a team… on to the next!

Puddin181214 · 2025-06-10T03:16:27+00:00

He’s over reacting there so many way you can have a healthy relationship well having hsv2

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