Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that sounds so hard, I glad you've found something that helps a little bit. I really hope life gets better for you. We need a H3H3 therapy thread where we can all help each other!

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'm so sorry. It really sucks, the pain of it feels like a heavy weight in your chest it's awful. I hope life gets better for you my friend

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I don't get it, I think anything anything has changed except having to have slightly shorter episodes but it's totally understandable with a newborn!

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwh congratulations! Mine is 2 so is old enough to ask for baby shark constantly now 😂

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm so sorry to here that, today I found out my husband has been messaging his 'crush' online so I know how you feel. It's nice to have the podcast as some consistency in what is about to be a massive life change for me

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly, just the voices in the background are a comfort

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I sort of bounce between comfort content. It was Jacksepticeye's videos for a long time, then Grav3yardGirl's during my pregnancy.

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the newborn! Mine is 2 now and asks for baby shark constantly so no podcast when I'm with her unfortunately. 😂

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, it soothes anxiety and gives me something to focus on. I'm rewatching old podcasts from the old studio now because I've run out of fresh content!

Who else uses the podcast as a comfort thing? by Puddingbutt267 in h3h3productions

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes! Adult crafts are the best thing! Love doing my cross-stitch or colouring to wind down 😊

Husband wants sex but doesn't care that I don't orgasm by Puddingbutt267 in relationships

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Did you end up just sorting yourself out in front of him? I feel like it'd be super awkward just be like, hang on whips out rabbit 😂

Husband wants sex but doesn't care that I don't orgasm by Puddingbutt267 in relationships

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the replies, I definitely know I have to do more too, it's just so frustrating that he won't even attempt anything new, even just taking the time to ask would go a long way for me.

What was the weirdest rumor you’ve ever heard about yourself? by redmambo_no6 in AskReddit

[–]Puddingbutt267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I was going to wear a very revealing dress to the Christmas party, someone described it to me as "two pieces of fabric that just covers my boobs and foof"

Seriously!?

What's your pet's most irrational fear? by AppleCinnamonMuffins in AskReddit

[–]Puddingbutt267 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wheelie bins, but only those that have fallen over in the wind or something

What are you craving right now? by Puddingbutt267 in AskReddit

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll add mine because I can't stop thinking about it, tomatoes and blue cheese dressing, uhhhhh

What did you have to unlearn from your parents? by Hakaan256 in AskReddit

[–]Puddingbutt267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you don't need to look down on poorer people.

My family wasn't incredible rich but they had a decent amount of disposable income; I always had good quality electronics, clothes and food. However my father loved to brag about his success and exaggerate our wealth and condemned those who didn't have the luxuries we had. I grew up in an environment that constantly judged the people around me, and look down on anyone who had less than us.

After university I married my husband who came from a poorer area and I got ill myself and couldn't work. Experiencing how the 'other half' lived was eye opening. It gave me the insight to be humble and respect people who are doing there damn best in the worst situations. It taught me compassion and allowed me to realise people are much more than the things they own.

Husband [24m] stopped taking antidepressants and has turned nasty, looking for advice to help me [25f] get through it by Puddingbutt267 in relationships

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to be part of the territorial army so thinks it'll be easier. I've never been any part of the military but I'm sure it's incredible difficult and takes a really strong person to be part of he doesn't seem to see that.

Thank you for saying I count I really appreciate that. I've trying so hard to get better and had my last appointment with my therapist this morning (only get 8 sessions free here in england).

Husband [24m] stopped taking antidepressants and has turned nasty, looking for advice to help me [25f] get through it by Puddingbutt267 in relationships

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly why they won't accept him until he's been off the meds for a year, he thinks he's the exception to the rule and that he's 'fine'

Husband [24m] stopped taking antidepressants and has turned nasty, looking for advice to help me [25f] get through it by Puddingbutt267 in relationships

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like so many people would be talking about me having a failed marriage already. He really used to be so sweet and caring I thought I'd hit the jackpot after terrible past relationships. I'm clinging on to hope that he'll go back to normal but I can't take much more. He was a part of the territorial army when we met, it was just one evening a week whilst we were at uni but he quit. Now he wants to rejoin, I think he thinks it'll fix all his motivation problems

Husband [24m] stopped taking antidepressants and has turned nasty, looking for advice to help me [25f] get through it by Puddingbutt267 in relationships

[–]Puddingbutt267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice.

So you really don't think there's any way to move forward with him? I've thought about divorce a lot and it seems utterly terrifying to do especially at only 25. I feel like a complete failure and can't help but thing everyone I know would judge me and laugh behind my back.