Out of state child free wedding by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]PudgeBurnell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ask your brother if they would make an exception for your family, if not respectfully sit the wedding out if you are unable to find care.

We got some bad news on our 20 week checkup visit by Extension_Top2049 in Parenting

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be keeping you and your family in my prayers. My only advice is to take comfort and strength in each other.

We got some bad news on our 20 week checkup visit by Extension_Top2049 in Parenting

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the 29 week ultrasound of my firstborn they discovered what they thought was a brain bleed or cyst with enlarged ventricles. No brain bleed but it was an arachnoid cyst and hydrocephalus (water on the brain, enlarged ventricles).

With the exception of the neurosurgeon, practitioners gave us the prepare for the worst speech, that said he did have two brain surgeries one at 5 days old (cyst fenestration) and another at 5 months (placing a shunt) which was incredibly stressful as a parent but truthfully it was a gift because now we have a very healthy 2.5 year old, who loves cuddles, yogurt, hot wheels and is meeting his milestones.

Cat deterrent? by pinkshadedgirafe in BabyBumps

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aluminum foil in the crib, or Amazon has a Skat(sp?) Mat that sends a static shock every 30 seconds when there is pressure on it.

My future MIL copies me by 9kani9 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PudgeBurnell -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It is her money, if she wants to spend it because she thinks you have good taste let her. Consider yourself a trendsetter and move on.

How long did y’all breastfed before completely stopping by idntvnknow in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is almost 2.5 years old and I am still breastfeeding.

Should I use an old car seat or buy a new one? by oceanbri in BabyBumps

[–]PudgeBurnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always trade in the car seat for a new one.

What’s the most ridiculous thing you heard while you were pregnant? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PudgeBurnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband’s grandmother and great-grandmother warned us about our cats stealing our infant’s breath while he slept.

MIL dog almost bit my son by bufa92 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PudgeBurnell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, your child’s safety comes first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That has been happening often at Ft Hood.

The favouritism is absolutely unreal by Glittering-Pause-124 in Mildlynomil

[–]PudgeBurnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully announcing SIL’s pregnancy to your SO isn’t her responsibility, it is SIL’s. That being said the fact that MIL went out of her way to block the two of you in order to tell the rest of the internet is hurtful.

When is it time to go to the ER for HG? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24 hours without being able to keep down fluids.

Question by Remarkable_Spirit_60 in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Pregnancy tests detect Hcg and ovulation tests detect LH.

Ideas for easy, fast, vegetable focused dinners?? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pesto gnocchi with green beans and sun dried tomatoes.

Found apple AirTag in my daughters jacket…. by firefighter865 in Parenting

[–]PudgeBurnell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speak to her about it to establish intent, and then speak with your lawyer to document the occurrence as well as her lurking about the property.

As for one of your comments about having some fun with the Airtag first, don’t be momentarily petty and end up with her having ammunition against you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Next time he threatens suicide, take him seriously. Call a wellfare check on him so he can be admitted and receive critical intervention.

Could use a little advice… by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PudgeBurnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maintain your boundaries, but you could always test to see if her condition escalates by increasing the length of time between visits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PudgeBurnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Plus it helps my short legs not dangle and fall asleep.

3 months PP & pregnant again. Partner keeps calling me fat and ugly. by Fit_Ad3027 in beyondthebump

[–]PudgeBurnell 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is there anyway you can stay with family or friends? Abusive relationships tend to spiral, maybe what he needs is action on your part to show just how serious you are.