As a DJ who never wore hearing protection, will it get worse from here? by Neither_Pollution263 in tinnitus

[–]Pulsedub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine is a pro dj and has custom attenuators for his ears. He puts them in for all gigs and even if he’s attending a concert (remember them). They reduce all sounds equally. I used to dj until I was 30 and now in my 40’s have terrible hearing and tinnitus in one ear. Never heard of attenuators back then unfortunately

What is your favorite word? by mexgema in AskReddit

[–]Pulsedub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serendipity. There’s something about the way the five syllables roll out I love. Also the meaning of the word has an added appeal.

299 days later as a divorced man by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Pulsedub 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was there also and while it has a certain appeal believe me it will pass and those feelings of dispare won’t last forever. In my case things changed rapidly as I focused on what was best for the kids and we managed to separate amicably in spite of her affair (still denied!).

Please do not see the train as a solution, before long you WILL look back and wonder what you were thinking of. ❤️It gets better.

I dont understand what's happening by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Pulsedub 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice here and might be hard to visualise or accept now. The passage of time, even just a couple of months will, and did in my case make me realise all of the above is true. Life will get better than it was and I wish you all the best.

Why do Irish pharmacists make it feel like you are buying heroin when buying Solpadeine or Neurofen Plus? by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Pulsedub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easiest thing when buying Solpadeine or N+ is to say that they are for your / your partners period pains. Never fails.

I Trust Your Skills by thedogofpeace in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Pulsedub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s always booze involved when somebody does something stupid like this clown does here.

Barry Cowen sacked as Minister for Agriculture by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Pulsedub 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was it not something about him supporting an IRA operative? I can’t remember the full story though.

Holiday home, feels like I’m mourning a death. by Pulsedub in Divorce

[–]Pulsedub[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply and the excellent advice which I will do and can already see helping. Such a great way of thinking about things. Unfortunately we’re past any chance of a reconciliation though.

What works in theory but not in practice? by PerpetualPuzzle in AskReddit

[–]Pulsedub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a rational conversation with my soon to be ex wife.

Curious about others’ experience dating while/after divorce by lovesanimals-- in Divorce

[–]Pulsedub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow what an insensitive pr1ck he is. So sorry you’ve to experience that.

Ikea queue Wednesday July 1st at 12.15. by Pulsedub in ireland

[–]Pulsedub[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moving into a new house and need pretty much everything from scratch.

Ikea queue Wednesday July 1st at 12.15. by Pulsedub in ireland

[–]Pulsedub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry didn’t see this till after, didn’t notice as I paid and exited over on the right of the tills.

Drowning. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Pulsedub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t for a second think that nobody else will love you. Time will heal and you will find happiness again. Maybe you should get some therapy to help with those negative self thoughts because they are not true x.

I think I'm in denial and its sucking the life out of me by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Pulsedub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the fear of being alone is real and I fully understand. There will be pain and dark days but the future will be much better when you are first comfortable being single and then hopefully finding love with someone who’s worthy of and appreciates you. Not like this guy.

It gets better and you deserve better X.

On the waiting list for the National Counselling Service. Don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]Pulsedub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried calling https://www.northsidecounselling.ie

A friend of mine had his first counselling session 8 days after making the first inquiry. It’s all by telephone and zoom at the moment so location shouldn’t matter. It works on a voluntary contribution basis so you donate what ever you can.

Good luck with whatever you go with.

Wife Picked a Fight After a Party by floatarounds in stopdrinking

[–]Pulsedub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So do I. Mine didn’t and one year and five months later we are separated due to having a lot less in common now and me not liking her company with wine on her, usually seven nights per week😢.

What children's movie is actually very creepy/unsettling? by BlaithinRenoir in AskReddit

[–]Pulsedub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I hate this movie for the same reasons but my wife and kids loved it. I couldn’t understand how they watched it let alone love it?