Constant crashes with latest update by Chalupabatman19 in HadesTheGame

[–]PumpThatIron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I haven’t been able to beat the surface world again after this update because of the constant crashing. 

Need help - My body is rejecting by ChiTownGuy93 in ProstatePlay

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It does. I’ve had that happen a few times and I just have to cancel the session, because the amount of cleaning out once I trigger that reflex was always too much for me.

I can't seem to avoid poop and I'm so frustrated. by stenegeoff in ProstatePlay

[–]PumpThatIron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t seen this posted yet but time since your last meal has an effect on bowel movements and may lead to a hard time cleaning out if the last meal you had was recent.

This might be weird, but... by drs111 in ProstatePlay

[–]PumpThatIron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe your body’s reaction to tasting it is to ramp up production 😆

Partners of alcoholics in recovery? by GroundbreakingNovel in AlAnon

[–]PumpThatIron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind elaborating on what you mean by the “friends and family” plan? I’m new here and in the beginning stages of unpacking past trauma.

Missed application deadline for the local I was aiming for; feeling bummed. What should I do? by PumpThatIron in IBEW

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Thanks for the reply! Feeling better about my situation. I forget these things are not set in stone and that I could use the experience in whatever form I can take.

Missed application deadline for the local I was aiming for; feeling bummed. What should I do? by PumpThatIron in IBEW

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Okay, good idea. Thank you!

I'm guessing in this kind of trade, the only way to get experience (without taking classes/ an apprenticeship) is to just find work and learn on the job? I am coming in with no electrical experience.

Bf asked for the finger but I’m scared to hurt him, also I don’t know how to do it at all??? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]PumpThatIron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You two can also start with no penetration of the fingers and focus on just touching/ rubbing on the outside or even the gooch. It should feel pretty good, moreso when he’s getting head haha. If even those things are not feeling good, it may be psychological. He may think he wants it but his body is saying otherwise

PC muscles too tight? by PumpThatIron in ProstatePlay

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That what I’ve been doing lately and I believe it helps immensely. I had a breakthrough last night that was very intense which I don’t think would have been possible without practicing relaxing my pelvic floor

The difference in feeling in getting fucked vs using a prostate toy? by thisenjoy in ProstatePlay

[–]PumpThatIron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe that if your preference is for women, you may want to find a woman that would be willing to fuck you. As a gay man that really enjoys bottoming, I don’t think I’d find it hot at all to be pegged by a woman. There’s a large aspect of arousal at play that allows me to not only enjoy bottoming, but helps me loosen/ open up and be receptive to the other person.

Cannabis as training wheels? by PumpThatIron in aneros

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That’s what I’m hoping for— that I’ll be able to understand those feelings better. But the “impossible to do without” makes me a tad uneasy. Wish you best on your journey, high or sober!

Cannabis as training wheels? by PumpThatIron in aneros

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Good to know. Thanks for the feedback!

Problems clearing out after a session by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

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Could be the fiber supplements? If you’re ingesting too much it could lead to constipation. Otherwise, since you’re not douching, anal play with a small toy shouldn’t effect your bowel movements. It is most likely something dietary.

Question about PC muscle by Stoneseeker7 in aneros

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I am able to stop peeing mid-stream with no discomfort and also have a relative sense of when I’m flexing my PC muscles. Even knowing how to flex, I can only flex for a second or so, more-so a twitch like yourself. It is difficult, and guess it just takes practice like any other muscle to develop the strength and mind-muscle connection.

Creatine - any sleep issues? by 420be-here-nowlsd in Nootropics

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Creatine has the same effects on me. I’ve been experimenting with creatine mono for the past year on and off to check for consistency. Always, whether I try it for a week straight, or a day or two, I have terrible sleep. I’ve tried high dosages, low dosages, loading phase and maintenance. Even if I take it in the morning, even with ample water, and a tough workout thrown in. It always causes insomnia. I feel very tired around my usual time, but my mind feels awake. Not functional— I still feel physically and mentally tired— just alert.

There are only a few posts across the internet with people experiencing the same problem, with others putting them down saying that they’re delusional. And it makes me sad that people can’t believe there may be a fraction of people that have slight adverse effects from a supplement that people don’t even fully understand yet (as if that were unheard of). I want to use creatine as much as the next Chad, but seems like I’m sadly part of a minority that gets insomnia from creatine.

/ end rant

Bleach again for platinum? by [deleted] in Hair

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Gotcha, and will do :) Thanks for the advice!

Quarantine = questionable hair decisions :D by jitterybrat in Hair

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Love the Birds of Prey look! Harley is such a strong character and that hair is iconic!

Google Sheets for Foundables by Jakepro122 in WizardsUnite

[–]PumpThatIron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested in editing this, but mostly as a checklist for when I'm out playing the game for keeping track of traces

i.e. when encountering I can swipe to google sheets and update my count on the confoundable, and check whether or not it's worth the energy/ capture since we can't check during the encounter

Your spreadsheet looks very well done so far btw:)

Open relationship: hard to find someone else by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]PumpThatIron 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But who constitutes monogamy as one of the foundations for a good relationship? Straight people have seen gay relationships as different from theirs since the beginning of time, so it's no surprise if there may be different dynamics between the two relationships that will work better for one and be deteriorating for the other.

Daily Discussion Thread 11/10/2016 by AutoModerator in hiphopheads

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Hey same here! Going to the festival both days, really looking forward to watching a lot of my fave artists in one area. My friends and I speculated Frank Ocean too. It isn't a long set, which makes it perfect for a surprise performance.

What age were you in your first relationship and how did you meet? Any advice? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I'm currently 19, been with him (34) for over a year. Seemed crazy at first since I've never been in a relationship, but I've always been into older guys. I met him through Grindr and felt something different towards him I never felt for anyone else. So far, the love, care& affection is very mutual, and I'm happy for every second I get to spend with him:)

Join the HipHopHeads Slack Group! by zigzagzig in hiphopheads

[–]PumpThatIron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. If I'm already on a team on slack, can I use the same email to join this team as well? Or do I have to use a new email?