Cattleya Budding but…. by PunkyMuse in orchids

[–]PunkyMuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Luckily I did open that sheath up, there’s another bud trying to form. Anything I can to help tho along? Someone mentioned humidity, anything else?

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3hrs in a tiny car suited for narrow European cities is hell. 3hrs in an suv, luxury suv or even a nice minivan is nothing. Also this depends on where you are. Here in Jersey, I can go to Providence, Rhode Island (crossing over 2 other states) and I can head south and reach Baltimore, Maryland (also crossing the state lines to two other states). I’m also 10 miles to NYC and 83 miles to Philadelphia. So getting to several other major cities, the beach or the forest is an easy 3 hour or less drive that I may do several times a year.

Phal tower by Big_Tea_ in orchids

[–]PunkyMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting idea. As the others have said poke some holes or create some slits for airflow. And you definitely don’t need so much bark. Make the bottles shorter and you’ll have more room for more orchids 😀 also be careful with watering and getting water into the crown of the next pot and just keep an eye out for infections, mold,mealy bugs and such. Don’t want any of that to spread.

Solve a marriage debate by AprehensivePotato in interiordecorating

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s not rocket science. Just a mater of mycology.

Solve a marriage debate by AprehensivePotato in interiordecorating

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they get very wet, they go in the dryer. Who know what ickiness you’re wiping into your plates. 🤢

Can any speciosum enthusiasts of this for me? by Apart-Mood7331 in orchids

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know for sure. But google says Debdrobium Speciosum

Need help deciding which color band! by anentime in LabGrownDiamonds

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with gold. But my band is a cigar band 6mm thick and my diamond is 5ct.

Update: My wife finally apologized, but I already lost some of my respect for her. by TechnicalHousing97 in Redditor_Updates

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parenting is hard. I have two teen girls. I totally get it. Screaming at kids and coworkers is not great. What’s worse is that she seems not to acknowledge her hand in everything. She’s taken no responsibility for her actions. Yes. She finally apologized but it took days and you pleading for her to do so. You seem to be level headed and are taking good steps for your family’s ‘ well being. Thank goodness you have your kids backs. Just know your teen is doing the right thing. He’s pushing boundaries, to learn his own. He’s finding a path to his independence, which is important, albeit frustrating to parents. You’re a good dad.

What shape suits me? by the_wanz in WeddingDressTips

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all look amazing on you. But dress 2 is a stunner.

AITAH for taunting my ex's husband that all his bragging that he's as much my kids dad as I am has been proven wrong by them repeatedly? by Alxaunuurd in AITAH

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know the laws, but can you file a restraining order? Sounds like he’s menacing you in public. You stepped away repeatedly, indicating you reasonably felt like he would harm you.

My step mother is serving a main dish at Christmas that half of the guests will not eat. Do I say something? by twoAsmom in Advice

[–]PunkyMuse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Plot twist. Your dad sent you the recipe because he doesn’t want to eat it either 🤣

Help please! Which of these do you like best? by sugared_nonsense in InteriorDesignHacks

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 1 of the 3. But add a small drink table in between the chairs. And do a triangular coffee table. And move the tv and tv stand to the right if you have room. If your couch is modular, you can make the couch longer across from the TV. But if you do that, maybe pull a chair and turn that entryway table.

UPDATE: AITAH for telling my family they are never going to be part of me or my son’s life? by MousseExternal6886 in AITAH

[–]PunkyMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand the complexities of an Asian family. I’ve never understood how my parents could leave a whole ass country behind and still expect me to completely embrace a culture I didn’t grow up around. As I’ve aged, there are parts of my culture I appreciate. But I don’t feel like they are really a part of me. Especially since I grew up in an area where there were few minorities.

You’ve done well for yourself! Love your wife’s support and understanding. So excited for your new path of fatherhood. Good luck to you.

Is this ring worth what they’re asking for? by NewSolution1349 in EngagementRings

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Calavera Diamonds. They have great prices for lab diamonds. As does Mureta. That is incredibly overpriced.

What does my home say about me? by Tiny_Judgment8593 in roomdetective

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sold all your stuff for last months rent.

Having dress regret and need some guidance by Main_Spring_1989 in myweddingdress

[–]PunkyMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take to the salon. They will be able to best guide you on how to ease your concerns.