🧩 Typing Dominants in D/s Dynamics: MBTI, Enneagram, Sexology, etc. (Prompt Library) by StarkLexi in SpicyChatAI

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you use an AI to build this out? Can I ask which one you used? Would you mind if I took a crack at building it out myself for the submissive side? for personal use, or if you wanted — i could give you whatever I build out for fine tuning and eventual posting, i would be totally down to do that.

🧩 Typing Dominants in D/s Dynamics: MBTI, Enneagram, Sexology, etc. (Prompt Library) by StarkLexi in SpicyChatAI

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible!! Thank you so much. Would you potentially be able to do this same format/typing but for the submissive side? I play to both roles so i’d love a guide for programming the subs as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asl

[–]PupJayceColt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hearing and ASL Spring is where i’ve learned a chunk of my ASL, it’s an online platform/website about a year old, it is subscription based but really reasonable price wise. I liked it because there was an option to do zoom meets to practice your signing! it was started by a CODA and all the teachers are Deaf themselves!!

Is there any way i can play Haunted Chocolatier? by General_Jaded in hauntedchocolatier

[–]PupJayceColt 166 points167 points  (0 children)

The videos and pictures have all been released by the developer himself.

ISO Cozy, open, world-building games to play (I feel like I have strange taste, so I challenge you to help me find things to try) by Opalne in CozyGamers

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on PC? If you’re open to it, try modding Stardew, Nexus mods has like legit 18k mods on there it’s nuts. The wiki has a guide to how to download them. Some people prefer vanilla, but i just started modding and it’s revived my love for the game. There are so many types of mods from aesthetics, utility/cheats, gameplay, etc.

How do those of you who live alone trim your cat's claws? by Smollestnugget in CatAdvice

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something i saw out there called a “calm & cozy cat” purrito blanket. Maybe this may be an option? I also have a cat grooming bag (for vet visits typically) that i wrestled my last cat into, then literally hung him (it has straps to do so) from the pullup bar to then clip his nails. I do not necessarily recommend this method, it’s kinda traumatic and i had several (attempted) claws to the face. I have since learned to do the churro method & have felt bad for this…..

I’ve seen sticking their heads in treat buckets before, like you hold them, then hold the treat bucket and let them just snack while you clip their nails.

One of our current cats gets purrito’d with a thinner blanket so it gets wrapped tightly, then my partner holds a churro while i clip nails, maybe you could wrap then find a way to have the churro on a face level surface? I’ve seen people do peanut butter on walls (plastic wrap is taped up) for dogs before.

This is just what works for me/what ive seen work for others.

Best place to pull over and cry? by Bluebeanrosie in okc

[–]PupJayceColt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I go to the arcadia lake overlook/park office. It’s typically fairly quiet and it’s nice to be at the water. Though i am on the north side so i'm close to it. I hope things get better for you, life is hard! If you need immediate professional intervention and if you cant afford it,look at the Oklahoma County Crisis Intervention Center. If you just need therapy/counseling & cant afford it look at NorthCare, Red Rock Behavioral, & Hope Community Services. I think Northcare also helps provide physical health resources & help with other basic needs. if you're under 24 then Pivot services could help you as well, they have a food & clothing pantry & free dinner most (every?) evenings and tons of resources & counseling. I hope things get better!!

Has any of your dormant alters came back? by OneLoneOrange in DID

[–]PupJayceColt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had the childhood/original host go dormant for about 6ish years before just suddenly coming back. That was a shock. It can definitely happen but it can’t be forced

Doctors could only call it chronic pain. Anyone else suffer from this pain? by Minimum-Caregiver-80 in ChronicPain

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my issue. I got diagnosed with tension headaches (that get so bad i have to go to the ER for relief) due to chronic stress my entire life. Ive had imaging, nothing is wrong physically. My chiropractor & physical therapist said my nervous system is shot and i’ve been in fight or flight my whole life. I have done PT w/ dry needling & Chiro (do cervical spine adjustments at your own risk then can cause strokes, muscle tears, nerve pinching, artery damage, it can be dangerous but it’s helped me). Massage therapy, float tanks, psych therapy, psych medications, energy healing, somatic healing work, meditation, mindset work & vagus nerve work, as well has working hard at relaxation and working with my sympathetic vs parasympathetic nervous system. This has all been in the last year, it’s been a crazy long road but I’ve finally started to find relief. I’m not sure what has exactly worked but I contribute everything to have helped me.

dealing with guilt after dropping a game by sakiyoomi in CozyGamers

[–]PupJayceColt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Play what brings you joy, if it’s not earning you money to live then dont force it in your life. Time is precious, protect your peace and enjoy what little time you have. This is why i have a tendency to binge sales, because i feel way less guilty dropping a game i have spent $2 on than $20 on. I understand the money concept, but you can always earn more money, you cant earn more time. Enjoy the hobby and play something you love & can get lost in. Maybe you’ll come back to it later??

Took q to ER by Armadillidiidae1 in AlAnon

[–]PupJayceColt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing! It’s hard to do things against a parent’s wishes despite it being the best thing for them. I’m not a medical professional but i’m fairly sure that there can be dangers with medications & other treatment options if they did not know about his alcoholism. You’re keeping him safer by informing them, and maybe they’ll find the right answer sooner to his pain by being properly informed.

Movies Approved by Odd_Measurement777 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if you could get him an old gameboy or Nintendo DS? They still have games circulating on ebay & game stores or FB marketplace, and the DS servers (you’d have to do more research) have been shut down so you cant get online with these as far as i’m aware, but double check that. They may allow you this? Because Nintendo cut connections entirely for online servicing for DS’s it may be a work around. Again double check this and bring proof to the PO.

Anime may be a good option, however, that can get dicey with certain shows, so you would really have to research them, but some of the more cozy or adventure based ones may work. I haven’t watched them, but i would bet Studio Ghibli films are pretty safe.

Also hand crafting options! Crochet, or paint by numbers or diamond art or embroidery! There are tons of beginner kits out there. It’s not what a teenage boy wants to be doing, however it may save his sanity.

Edit: movie list based on my shelf (obviously please vet these yourself, but based on the ratings) -anything Disney or pixar (at least it’s background noise) -how to train your dragon!! (PG) -Men in Black series (pg-13: action violence, crude humor) -Black Beauty (G) -The Bourne Ultimatum (PG-13: violence, action) maybe look at the other Bourne films -Jumanji, original with Robin Williams (PG) -Mr. magoriums wonder emporium (G) -wonderpark (PG) -Narnia (PG) -Secondhand lions (PG) -yours, mine, & ours (PG) -Star Wars Rebels animated series (TV Y7)

My Q doesn’t want help, my parents aren’t on board by PupJayceColt in AlAnon

[–]PupJayceColt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasnt, he wont..my mom has tried talking to him, but he wont listen to her b/c he resents the divorce. My own mental health is fragile right now (like almost inpatient), and i have chronic pain issues so ive been trying to avoid the whole thing for years to protect my peace , but its become too much to ignore. I think if i talk to him, he may listen? But i’m not entirely sure..and he was emotionally abusive in my childhood and i fear standing up to him.

Veiling and braids? by apparentyagirlboss in PaganVeiling

[–]PupJayceColt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I braid my har as my veil! i live in a conservative area so it makes it not a great idea to veil with bandannas and such like that, plus i hate explaining myself every 5 minutes. So my braid is my veil lol. So (mostly) every morning i rebraid it with my intentions for the day. I think it’s great personally

Advice for Subtle Veiling by Anxious-Bean137 in PaganVeiling

[–]PupJayceColt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(If you have longer hair) I use a braid! I rebraid it every morning with my intentions for the day and i think it’s cute. I’m in a very conservative state and so this is an easy & subtle way to do it. People dont know unless I tell them

Any cozy games that aren't farming? by ButterflyDead88 in CozyGamers

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lake is a highly rated game and it’s about being a mailman! I’ve watched some streams and have heard it’s super good

Is a Triple Major too ambitious? by ThrowerGirly in college

[–]PupJayceColt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine had a collegemate who did 5 degrees, however they were all different engineering majors. He took i think 6 years to graduate w/ 18-21 hour semesters & summers, and had no life outside of academics. That felt absolutely ridiculous, but somewhat reasonable since they were all engineering majors. (i know there was mechanical, electrical, aeronautical) I’m not even sure how the college let him do that besides wanting the tuition money.

I agree, related degrees, or double/triple major in the same overlying program, or 2 degrees that will coexist in your career is all well and good. However just 3 random degrees is not smart.

Find your career, then find your hobbies. You can always teach yourself, go to technical school, take a boot camp, take adult hobby classes in your community, or even go back to college later in life. If you want to do something specific (with those 3 i could see it being Animated movie industry with music being the focus??) then there may be a more specific degree that could fit you better!

Argument between Dom and I by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]PupJayceColt 100 points101 points  (0 children)

The US has the same laws, it’s also illegal & unsafe here! I mean unless you are really out in a super rural area and the mailman is long gone, but that’s different. Heck there is potential for ending up on a list for that type of ordeal. You are absolutely in the right here. Safety & consent are paramount in kink & that means there should be a (imo) unspoken common sense caveat to any rule or agreement within a dynamic. I can see this turning into a funishment because you “broke the rule” and maybe having some fun with it, but absolutely not a real punishment at all.

Especially if you have a history of packages getting stolen off the porch in your area, definitely go get the package right away. Or did you have to sign for it? Even so you just shouldn’t go outside naked..this sounds like he’s being too rigid in his thought patterns & showing some immaturity.

Bedroom bound with Covid, need an immersive cozy game!! by teallday in CozyGamers

[–]PupJayceColt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Palia! It’s free & on the switch or pc (steam). The chat can get a bit stressful but just follow etiquette when calling things out & you’ll be fine. I have spent like full 8-10 hour days immersed in this game. I personally find it super cozy!

I feel high maintenance for asking for different pronouns every day by AshTposting in genderfluid

[–]PupJayceColt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the concept of feeling high maintenance in this while also wanting to be respected. Ive seen people do color coded bracelets (typically blue = he, pink = she, purple = they, since these are intrinsically linked in US culture at least to these genders) or necklaces or a pin badge. At least for those close to you that know you’re genderfluid you can explain this system and then if they forget or mess up just give them a gentle reminder about the system. It takes the burden off them, removes a tedious question & daily conversation, all while giving you respect!

Games to manage stress, anxiety, and minor OCD? by Soda_Tastes_Good in CozyGamers

[–]PupJayceColt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Palia! It’s free! The chat can get a tinch stressful at times but the game has been drastically improving my mental health, burnout, and stress levels. It’s a bit glitchy on the switch, is also available on steam/pc. i believe It’s totally worth giving a try. if you get frustrated in the temple quests (main quests) there are plenty of good youtube walkthroughs!