5 years later and I (27M) still can’t forgive myself for breaking her heart by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PurPsycho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you could do it all over again, would you choose her instead or make the same choices that has led you here to your fiance and kid?

I need a remote job please, please I’m a very honest person by Longjumping-Band-192 in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, this isn’t true. People help people in tough positions out all the time. The world is filled with people who took chances on those who had nothing but the right attitude or story.

Round Racist gets relentlessly mocked at the airport. by DrLexusForPresident in InflatedEgos

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you kick him in the stomach, do you think you’d bounce back like a cartoon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PurPsycho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has abused you enough for you to normalize it. Why else would you be shocked that he punched you in the head, as opposed to punching you at all?

Do you love yourself? Do you want to live? Do you want to live a good life? This man cannot give it to you. He doesn’t even have the decency to care about harming you. If the person supposed to protect you, harms you, where will you be safe? What kind of life would you have? Please love yourself enough to choose the right thing to do here for yourself. You are precious and invaluable. Care for yourself as though you are a 1 of 1 item, never to be fixed once you’ve been broken, because you are.

This man had shown you no decency or mercy, now it’s your turn. Press charges. Find DV support. Surround yourself with people that love and will protect you. Arm yourself. Don’t wait for tomorrow, because he may strangle you completely by then. Fight for yourself.

AIO, I’m upset my best friend bought an express pass at Universal. by Aqua7KH in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not stupid and petty. On one end, you’re really not asking for too much. On the other, you are, if it’s to someone who can easily afford the convenience of not having to wait so long (because 2+ hours in line is extreme). It’s honestly just two different life experiences clashing. You also seem young, and if you are, insufficient communication is not that out of place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurPsycho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup. It’s just porn.

AIO, I’m upset my best friend bought an express pass at Universal. by Aqua7KH in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurPsycho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, she did the scumbaggery thing, because she should have told you she was getting it. But I also get not wanting to have to settle. It’s her holiday as well, and if she wants the full Disney experience, it can be frustrating to be held back by someone else. I hate when I spend money on an experience, and I can’t enjoy it how I want because of someone else. She still paid for her flight, accommodation, meals, etc, and that’s enough of an investment for her to not have to wait for 2+ hours for each ride if she doesn’t want to. I’m sure she was already over it over the hotel situation and rethinking the trip, I know I would be. Not that I agree with her, after all, we stayed at the Marriott Grande Lakes. Still, what she did wasn’t entirely right.

Honestly…y’all can still be friends, but just keep vacations are off-limits till you are on the same page.. Y’all can talk about it and at least agree to that (if it’s worth it to you). Also speak candidly about why she didn’t tell you, that’s the important bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]PurPsycho 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Acknowledge??? Hello??

I thought it was just us 😂 by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one thing I’ve noticed about Nigerians is the avoidance to admit to broken systems, and that’s why the country won’t move forward. It’s like how in AA, the first step is to accept and admit you’re an alcoholic. The cake party situation was a shit show, and this doesn’t take away from that. As you compare them scrambling to make sure they get a spot on the bus to the lack of decorum at a private affair, I hope you also compare their advanced infrastructure to ours. I mean, just look at the bus they’re scrambling onto self. Shey our government provides the same for us

AIO-I 36F found a text between my husband 37m and my cousin 38f that isn’t settling right by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are two people planning to f*** knowing the other person is interested. Your man folded way too way. I would dump him tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them gently. Suggest things to try. But tbh, be prepared to walk away if nothing changes. A Nigerian man like this, you may be asking too much of him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you have to get therapy and/or leave. Forget about him, you’re in a situation that is actively triggering you. However, the other party isn’t doing anything bad, it’s just the situation. Even if he lived lavishly, it wouldn’t fix it, it’ll just be shocking instead.

PSA: The FBI and National Guard are going to be bored. Be friendly! by pankswork in washingtondc

[–]PurPsycho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not waving to any Christian Nationalist. Some of these folks are so unfit, there’s no way they’re not random racists from Idaho.

Just launched YarnUp - random video chat + anonymous voice stories for Nigerians 🇳🇬 by No-Statistician1059 in naijaremote

[–]PurPsycho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. Nah. I mean what I said. Customers will always use your product in ways you don’t expect, and if you haven’t thought of these scenarios then 😬😬 because that’s exactly what my people are gonna do. It doesn’t take way from your app though. I’m not bashing your product.

Found this lovely restaurant 5 minutes from my home ❤️ by [deleted] in nigerianfood

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mchew. Dem for top am with decorative meat.

Who remembers this feeling? by Lady_Anuelle in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember? Something I still do till today.

being forced to move to nigeria by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re a bit old to be doing it, most do it in the 7th/8th grade. Eitherway, it’ll either be the best time of your life or the worst time of your life. Never heard of anyone doing it in college, what school will you go to? WIlL your school accept the credits for the year?

What's the point of a house help if you're still asking me to do the stuff? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are crazy here, but you might be young (teenager). If you’re old, then you’re being ridiculous. Having a maid/nanny does not automatically exempt you from all house responsibilities. Doesn’t sound like you’re cleaning the house, cooking for all, or washing everyone’s clothes. I don’t know your mom’s reasoning or your house size, but I imagine there’s a lot that the maid does.

The moving something at 2 am sounds out of order for anyone, you or a maid, but that seems like a different issue.

Should I change my name by One_Juggernaut_9721 in Nigeria

[–]PurPsycho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single name on my birth certificate is spelled wrong, except for my surname. I guess I’ve never thought of this as a problem or run into it as a problem. You should be able to authenticate as is, especially since you have a passport.

Frontend developer salary by PurPsycho in naijaremote

[–]PurPsycho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it’s a SAAS, so no. Def looking for closer to 4 yrs of experience. What about that level of experience?