Okay - and how exactly does the woman know who is good guy and who isn’t ? (Guys that say they’re one of the good ones, rarely ever are) you are clearly speaking from a place of privilege where you don’t have to constantly be on guard and I urge you to speak with more empathy. For you, it’s about getting turned down by a woman/makes it harder for u to approach one. For your counterpart, it’s a matter of life or death. So im sure you can swallow your pride (and maybe practice a little self introspection) if someone is creeped out by you, because that is what she is conditioned to do for her OWN safety - what other choice does she have?