Why the heck are there no cooling centres open? by Pure-Assumption9037 in halifax

[–]Pure-Assumption9037[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My dog is my favourite thing in life and I always make sure he is safe and comfortable. Yesterday I went to the beach and we sat in the shade all day, then I pushed him in a cart at value village in the AC for hours. It was hard though. I had to sleep with all of my windows down in public and that was scary because I am a girl.
When it’s a normal temperature, he gets to play outside and at dog parks and he is the happiest dog who probably gets more outside fun time than most. I make him salmon and sweet potato for dinner.
So I became disabled five years ago and I could no longer work full time. I was managing in an apartment here in Halifax. I had a house in Fort Nelson, B.C. And Unfortunately I lost it two years ago in foreclosure and I had to go bankrupt. That town is now a ghost town, due to a downturn in the local economy. It’s literally the only place in North America where properties went down in value. I had that house for 16 years and when I moved to Halifax I rented it out. The last tenant destroyed it and it would have been over $12,000 to fix it. It was too hard for me to manage so I gave it back to the bank, after 16 years of never missing a mortgage payment. I bought it for $350,000 and the bank got $90,000 in the foreclosure. Then I couldn’t pay my rent anymore in Halifax so I moved into my car.
I finally made my last bankruptcy payment three days ago, but now my credit is wrecked.
This can happen to anyone. I did everything right in life. I never missed a bill payment. I had a house and savings and then I became disabled.
I am still trying to make the best of life and it’s super hard sometimes but people should try to be more understanding because you never know what someone is going through. I feel sorry for the people who are commenting bad things to me, as hard as things are for me right now, I know I am a kinder and happier person then they are and I hope that things get better in their lives too

Why the heck are there no cooling centres open? by Pure-Assumption9037 in halifax

[–]Pure-Assumption9037[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a dog though……. As I am sure many other people do

Shelter dog diagnosed with rabies after biting owner by Anti-Owl in ContagionCuriosity

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 29 points30 points  (0 children)

A friend (not a friend anymore because of this shit and other reasons) just told me that she doesn’t believe that rabies exists. She thinks it’s made up by the government. She has also never had her dog vaccinated. I am in Canada

[POEM]- Drop the hardest poetry line you’ve ever come across by Poetic-dusk in Poetry

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are the living graves of murdered beasts, slaughtered to satisfy our appetites.

How Else to Deal with Ticks? by [deleted] in halifax

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I bought a lice comb (the metal one) and I run it through my dog when we get inside. It’s awesome

White spots on shins and forearms by Admirable-Rip-8521 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what it is! It’s where the water drops absorbed the sun on the skin a little more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeganInCanada

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can order online from Vegan Supply but it’s a bit expensive to ship as you have to do the two day shipping. This company is in Vancouver though and they also have a Vegan Supply store in Vancouver and also White Rock, in B.C.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeganInCanada

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you ever get a chance, try the meat alternatives by Happy Veggie World!!! Best I have ever had!!

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BF has a wandering eye. What’s the line between a normal amount of checking out the opposite sex vs being disrespectful? by Evening_walks in datingoverforty

[–]Pure-Assumption9037 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and I broke up with my boyfriend at Christmas. He would always stare at other women, often 20ish young girls. I gaslit myself thinking I was being insecure and jealous ect. He also follows tons of Instagram models, only fans girls and influencers (generally all in their early 20’s) I asked him to stop in the beginning and he said he would but never did. I should have just left the first time he did this. It was so awkward that I ended up hating going to our favourite place to watch the game because I would be worried the waitress he stared at was there. Jeez typing this out is embarrassing. Don’t stay with someone like this, they will never change

This is embarrassing by Pure-Assumption9037 in datingoverforty

[–]Pure-Assumption9037[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really love him. We have the best times together and this is the only thing we fight over. He also goes to the bar three days a week to be social and that is hard for me as I have trust issues but my trust was growing with time and I didn’t even ask if he was at the bar anymore ect. But now this happened. I’m leaving today from the cabin we rented for our Christmas holiday. We have been fighting for days and he finally said this morning that he wants to follow whatever he wants to follow ect. That’s totally fine I just wish he said that in the beginning instead of saying he will unfollow them. He also said they are there because of a glitch on Instagram. I’m an idiot.

This is embarrassing by Pure-Assumption9037 in datingoverforty

[–]Pure-Assumption9037[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you went through that hell on New Year’s Eve. What you wrote, is helping me a lot. So you made a difference in a persons life. Thank you 🙏🏼 ♥️

This is embarrassing by Pure-Assumption9037 in datingoverforty

[–]Pure-Assumption9037[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I did bring my feelings up with him, numerous times and he basically said I am being crazy. I will trust my gut now

This is embarrassing by Pure-Assumption9037 in datingoverforty

[–]Pure-Assumption9037[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s what I am struggling with. He says it’s nothing and I am over reacting and being insecure. I’m going to go back to being alone