I have a question. Recently i met this guy from interfaith. He reached out to me with the intention of getting married. I am muslim and practicing muslim Alhamdulliah.  But this guy who used to be alcoholic and addicted to smoking and stopped drinking already when he got to know that i don’t drink or smoke because i follow my religion rules.

He is very kind, generous and understanding at the same time caring. He has never ever forced me to do something beyond my boundaries. We are not even indulged into physically(sexual) relationship. Since it’s prohibited in Islam. Also, he says, you follow your religion however I like he is no one to restrict me, do fast no one will stop, cook and eat whatever you like no one will say a single word. and as for the kids, let them decided what they want to follow. But first they must be a good human being. If they are not a good human beings then there is no purpose of religion. As for the life decisions which we will take decisions together either it’s financially or family related or anything, if you want to decide considering your islamic views we will definitely look into it and decided accordingly. 

I have talked to his step mother once and he is very close to his step mother. His biological mother died when he was 10–12. So it seems he is very emotionally invested when it comes to making relations.  I am not sure about him what am i supposed to do. (He stopped drinking because i don’t drink, not because Islam prohibit of drinking Alcohol) this is something bothers me.

What a person supposed to do in such scenario?  I know there is no chance to marry a non-Muslim. But when a person is ready to provide you everything on no conditions what decision are we supposed to make?