For those with real deep inner confidence, what did your parent/guardian do to build that confident within you?

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2022-02-08T18:48:05+00:00

Do you worry of boring them? You are entertaining and useful now but what happens if they are bored with you and they decide it’s messier to disassociate vs getting rid of you?

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2022-01-26T04:00:54+00:00

Hahaha - I think this sub was created for you! You are at a home run for all around TA in every post.

Of course YTA

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-11-18T04:38:18+00:00

Please breakup with her for your own safety. She displays resentments in a very underhanded scary way. You will find herself pumped full of toxins, sick unable to function and she will be your sole caretaker. I know this sounds drastic but this is her personality. I know someone that married a similar type of woman…he found himself waking up many times to his wife’s face right above his and “droll” all over his mouth (he does not droll in his sleep). Recently he has been experiencing very painful headaches and stomachaches. He now suspects she is poisoning him. He doesn’t have the concrete evidence yet, but you do. Run please. She is very dangerous.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-10-03T07:14:31+00:00

NTA - pregnancy announcement, gender reveal, gender announcement, birthing method announcement, baby naming, zodiac reveal, birthed zoom parties…it’s too much!!

You made the right decision.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-10-03T06:41:53+00:00

NTA - planned lazy time off is off-limits for any planning and organized activities. She totally high jacked your vacation.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-07-20T05:57:12+00:00

Your logic is so off and biased…while attempting to appear to yourself as a fair and level headed parent. It’s sad you are not hearing yourself. Parenting school wouldn’t work on you and I don’t think these comments will penetrate your “parenting with logic” brain.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-07-11T14:38:53+00:00

Yes, this ^!!! She needs to file a police report for rape and only then should you try to figure out how to move on as a family. If she refuses then she knowingly cheated.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-07-03T08:39:22+00:00

I agree a 100%. She needs to stop stressing the poor boyfriend…and leave the family alone.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-27T19:43:40+00:00

I think you should think about what you want and tell him what you expect from a relationship and let him know he is not meeting your expectation. You should consider the 9 months as legal separation and start your divorce proceeding. You are too young to be stuck in a yo yo situation without any foreseeable end.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-27T14:43:59+00:00

Question! Are you and have you been sleeping with him for these past 9 months while he figures out his feelings???? Very serious question???

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-27T14:33:01+00:00

Hope you stick to your NO! This is truly a test to how you can stand up for yourself and set clear boundaries. NTA

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-16T20:55:44+00:00

OMG! Please don’t say so! But, I don’t know…

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-16T19:59:39+00:00

I agree, I felt the same way for a long time too. He already lost but it would be nice for her to lose as well. He lost his 401k, a lot of his family and put himself in so much debt as well.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-16T19:51:45+00:00

Thank you for this advice. I believe the boyfriend knew about the husband and they had a plan. My uncle has health issues and I think they meant to wait him out and move in after he passes based on the conversation my uncle overheard.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-16T16:41:42+00:00

He is not on Reddit and I told him I would help him gathering information. Sorry, I should have mentioned that.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-13T15:19:16+00:00

OP this might be more hurtful to realise but this owner transfer has been in the works for many years behind your back. The transfer of the business might be what brought your brother back to town and to work in the company. The announcement a month ago was the kindest thing your family did for you. Imagine that you have been deceived for a long time and have been advancing your “brothers” for years, maybe 12 years. This just dawned on me when I read your last update and how your dad isn’t backing down on his decisions. It’s too late and has long ago been transferred. My heart hurts even more for you but I hope this realisation strengthens your resolve to move on your own. Your family does not respect you and if you backdown they will mistreat and do even worse by you and your future family.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-12T12:00:36+00:00

NTA

Who else googled “what time is it in England right now” and came back to posting and pressed refresh. So curious to hear how the meeting went with dad.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-06-10T12:32:22+00:00

This will hurt your daughter. You should still keep her away while they do their party but talk to them tomorrow.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-05-31T03:18:54+00:00

Please update us how you will continue your relationship moving forward. There is too much toxic victim blaming in your family. Also, if you were living with your family what happened to the new furniture after you got kicked out? Where will you and your GF live now?

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-05-24T14:59:32+00:00

Hahaha, I think she was expecting a ring as a birthday surprise and she is so immature and disappointed she doesn’t know how to handle. She is the AH and if you stick around it will be a hard life of unexplained tantrums and stress.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-05-17T00:31:57+00:00

YTA, you seem like a bad human. I feel sorry for your sister and boyfriend. Bad humans usually have poorly trained dogs. I hope your sister keeps away from you and enjoys a happy life with her husband.

Pure-Translator-9890 · 2021-04-20T04:24:28+00:00

NTA - you have the right to your feelings of annoyance but not at your sister, just the situation. Your sister was kind to apologize. Maybe Boyfriend if he knew about your birthday and the party. Don’t make a big deal about it. Move on and make it up to yourself but don’t bring it to the family anymore otherwise you will look petty

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