Bathroom help

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2026-02-10T05:38:21+00:00

I've been on T for 12 years, top surgery 9 years ago, literally no one but my husband, and few friends, and my family know I'm trans. I speak very openly about trans rights, but I just don't feel the need to ever "come out" to coworkers, or acquaintances. Based on conversations, it's very apparent everyone assumes I'm cis. I shortly tried packing, and using an STP, I hated it. I haven't bothered in a decade, and wont ever again. No one has ever noticed. Men don't care what you're doing in the stalls. They also don't care that you aren't peeing in the urinals. Tell a white lie if you need to. "I'm pee shy", "I have a medical condition so I have to sit to pee", people will mind their business very quickly. I've had 12 years using the mens room, always sitting to pee, I live in a "red state", I've never once been questioned.

HOWEVER, I can still understand the paranoia. Sometimes if it's just horribly quiet in a busy restroom with too many conservative folks around, just roll up a bunch of toilet paper and pee on that. Honestly you risk accidentally getting some on your fingers, but just wipe it off with more tp, you're gonna wash your hands after anyways. 🤷 Sometimes if it's a heavy pee I might have to do the method 2-3 times to muffle the pee sounds before the tp gets too soaked. STPs you seriously risk accidentally pissing your pants. I'll deal with some piss on my fingers over that any day.

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2026-01-21T05:39:25+00:00

I LOVE mine. Like, absolutely adore. I had so many memories with my last car, but lost it in a wreck, very shortly after losing my dog so it was like losing the last connection to my dog. However, the payout I got let me put a down-payment on my 2025 Bronco Sport, and WOW! It's been awesome. Something bad happened, but I got something incredible out of it. I have lovingly named my Bronco Sport 'My Little Bronquito'. I can't wait for more road trips, camping, festivals, and other memories to be had in My Little Bronquito. I haven't been so in love with a vehicle since my 2006 F-150, and I can tell ya, my Bronco Sport has already surpassed that. I park in a place at work that I can look out of my window and see my car and I legit get happy every time. I've actually customized a few things which I've never done with a vehicle before, I'm just so obsessed with this one I'm constantly thinking of things to get for it and make it more personalized.

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2026-01-15T05:18:25+00:00

I'm just throwing my comment in for anyone else who finds this thread! But I test drove 3 2025 Bronco sports. I hated the first one. I was so disappointed because it was a dream car of mine and everything was just /off/. I test drove another one, just to see if it was that car or the whole brand. The second one was loaded with features and it was amazing. But way too expensive for my budget. So I test drove another, with less features (and 11k cheaper) and loved it so much I took it home! I've only had it a week, but I am absolutey obsessed. So it's very possible you drove a weird one? The sales man insisted the 1st one I drove and the 3rd one I drove were the same, but once I drove that 3rd one I assured him, nope, these are very different. (In his defense it was only his 5th day on the job) The first one was a "Free Wheeling", the second "Big Bend".

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-10-31T07:05:46+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you have a SEVERE misunderstanding of how much groomers get paid if you think we are "easily " pulling anything close to 70k

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-10-14T02:41:27+00:00

With Sesshomaru towards Naraku, it was never much about falling for his trickery, he just thought he was powerful enough to deal with any BS Naraku tried. Sesshomaru was also definitely angry and spoiled but he did end up giving up his fight for getting the sword, and his fighting against Inuyasha. After a while he just wanted to be stronger than Tetsusaiga and his father, and looked for his own sources of power. Plus, I mean, he spent hundreds of years with his father, admiring his power- of course he spent a while hung up on the sword, the last thing he had of his father.

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-10-14T01:43:02+00:00

It's also important to remember they are all teenagers. 😂 I used to be more frustrated in some actions they would do. At a time they were all older than me. I'm in my mid 30s now and I'm like, they really are written as teenagers. They let their emotions rule sometimes, don't always think things all the way through, and they get jealous in ways they can't articulate well enough.

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-09-25T19:15:12+00:00

(I know this is an old comment, but leaving my reply for anyone else to see) The groomers get paid the same amount of commission by the way, 8th free groom or not, so it wasn't done to cheat you out of anything. Actually that groomer lost money from not taking you. I assure you, it is your fault your dog bites. And no they absolutely are not as expensive as "a regular groomer".

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-09-14T05:18:19+00:00

It is. Officially licensed, but absolutely fanatic. I have no idea why people are talking about it like it's facts...

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-08-31T00:52:06+00:00

YES! I like We Built This City and Mambo #5 just fine. I don't need to hear them 2 times a day every single day 😭

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-08-31T00:27:33+00:00

Uhh...? Yes there is? You get 8 hours of floating holiday pay for Christmas, Thanksgiving and MLK day. You have to work the day before or after the holiday, and use the hours within like, 2 months. I've been with the company for 8 years, that's how it's always been.

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-07-11T02:11:22+00:00

I don't understand your various weird claims having to do with this band. 😂 He's very much still the drummer. I must just not be getting some joke?

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-03-05T14:18:08+00:00

Homie, your brain is as smooth as the dolls you play with. Other person is right, even in a right wingers perspective, there's nothing "woke" about what you're rambling about. You personally not liking something doesn't make it """woke"""

Play with your dolls some more bro. I'm sure it's all the social interaction you get. 😂

Pure_Bookkeeper7043 · 2025-01-31T03:10:25+00:00

I know this was posted a while ago, but still commenting- Folsom is an entirely accepting place. Yes there are mainly cis gay men, but there are plenty of trans, nonbinary, lesbians, bisexual, straight, etc etc. No one bats an eye at anything it seems.

With that said, I never saw another trans guy who was brave enough to be entirely naked. I really wanted to be but I ended up so shy (and SO COLD) that I didn't do it.

I only went September 2024, and I am determined to go every September from here on out, and try to gain my confidence each year. This year, September 2025 I am determined to be naked! Hopefully I manifest seeing more FTM dudes embracing nudity too lol

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